What does man live for?
For three meals a day?
For the sake of glory and wealth?
His experience tells everyone why everyone lives.
People must have goals in life, and only with goals can they have the motivation to move forward.
He went from a school jerk all the way to a big star,
This qualitative leap depends on the accumulation of energy,
He studied hard and worked hard to realize his dreams.
In order to realize their dreams step by step, the weight is moving forward.
He's Lei Jiayin.
Let's walk into his story.
1.
Lei Jiayin was born in 1983 to an ordinary worker's family.
He said that his recent appearance in "The World of Man" was his father's affair in this era, and this TV series was a gift to his parents.
His family is like the plot in "The World", living a very poor life, and the parents have suffered in order to raise this "indisputable" son, this gift is most suitable for the parents of the previous generation.
His parents were factory workers, and every month they took a meager salary to barely cover the family's expenses, and the family was crammed into a small bungalow of more than ten square meters.
Because every household in the northeast is burning the kind of kang that is like a datong shop, a kang alone basically occupies half of the house, plus some extremely simple furniture, which is all the belongings of Lei Jiayin's family.
Forced to make a living, my mother went to a property company and worked as a cleaner.
At that time, Lei Jiayin was already in elementary school, and he kept silent about his mother's work. He was too young to understand things at that time, and he didn't know how much his mother had paid for him for this family.
Once, he and his classmates came home from school, passed outside an office building, through the glass saw his mother was lying on the window to wipe the glass, he walked away quickly with his head down, his mother also saw him, I wanted to call him, see the child walked away, the heart is also a sour.
At that time, when he was young, he saw that his parents' life was not easy, and he told himself that he must make a lot of money in the future to let the old couple enjoy the second half of their lives.
After figuring this out, he felt that he should start with small things first, when his mother would go to the roadside stall to sell shoes after work, and Lei Jiayin would go with her mother.
The child's face is thin, at first embarrassed to sell, just hide behind the mother, the mother in order to live can not take care of so much, has been shouting loudly, enthusiastically selling their own goods, slowly Lei Jiayin also felt very interesting, there is nothing to grind face, he also learned to follow the mother to sell together.
His mother at home is a more optimistic personality, which also affects Lei Jiayin's personality, and her mother feels that all the difficulties now are temporary, and all this will slowly get better.
Dad's personality is a little sentimental, and in the face of such a life, Dad seems to be a little helpless. Once in an interview, he once talked about his father, in his childhood impression, his father always leaned on the head of the bed to smoke a cigarette and did not speak, the cigarettes were smoked one by one, and the smoke in the small room could not be dissipated for a long time, just like his father's sorrow.
Although the family is poor and bitter, the parents have never treated their children badly.
When he was a child, many children had game consoles at home, and he especially wanted to have one, but he knew that the conditions at home were not good, and the success rate of direct words was not high, so he wrote an application report to his mother.
The content of this application report is also very interesting, very lei Jiayin style. In the report, first of all, I explained that I did not do well in the final exam this time, but I will redouble my efforts in the future, and at the same time, can I buy a game console to play?
After reading this application report, my mother felt angry and funny.
The experience of parents let them know that only learning is the only way out for children. The educational environment given to him by his parents from childhood is very good, whether it is kindergarten or primary school, it is expensive for him to go to school, the family is reluctant to eat and drink, and he often spends thousands of dollars on his education without stinginess.
His grades after graduating from primary school are still very good, and he has slipped a little when he enters junior high school. Moreover, teenage children are the age when their love sinuses are just beginning, and they will inevitably be a little distracted in learning.
When he was a child, he practiced a "cheeky face" with his mother's stalls, and he was quite handsome, and such a personality made him exquisite in school.
In the second year of junior high school, there was a female classmate in the class, she was still a girl in the south, she looked white and tender, tender skin and tender flesh, this gang of northeast Han who had seen such a girl, one by one were agitated.
When the girl was out of school on the first day of the transfer, the teacher had not gone far, so he ran to the podium and pointed to the new female classmates in front of the whole class.
After this girl is mine, none of you should worry about it.
The southern girl Wenwen was weak and weak, where she had seen this formation, blushed with shame, and directly buried her head in the bag. At this time, Lei Jiayin did not feel embarrassed at all, but felt like a big hero on the podium.
Since then, he has taken girls home every day after school, leaving home early in the morning and riding his bicycle to the door of the girls' homes to wait for them to go to school together. During that time, his mother also praised him, saying that his enthusiasm for going to school was getting higher and higher, who knew that it was to chase the girl.
He booed the girl every day to buy warm water and medicine, and finally hugged the beauty.
In the eyes of junior high school students, it is a very face-saving thing, Lei Jiayin takes her little girlfriend around in the school every day, and even sometimes sees no teacher in the corridor, and the two of them hug and kiss together.
The two were very high-profile in the school, but they were not bumped into by the teacher, the classmates did not make small reports, and the teacher and the school were always in the dark.
Until once the school organized students to go on a spring trip to climb the mountain, it was originally a class to walk well, but in the middle of the way, he dragged his girlfriend into other paths, and the two went straight to the top of the mountain.
When everyone was assembling at the bottom of the mountain, the class teacher found that Lei Jiayin and the girl were missing, which frightened the teacher and the school leaders, and quickly sent the teachers around to find it, and after a long time he leisurely pulled his girlfriend's hands down.
More than a thousand people in the school looked at the two of them in unison, and when the class teacher saw them, she felt that her eyes were on fire, and the whole school teachers and students knew, and these two people also became "celebrities" in the school.
The next day, the class teacher called their parents to the office and trained them fiercely, and the woman's parents were very emotional, and at that time, they accused Lei Jiayin's parents of not taking good care of their son. Lei Jiayin's mother can make her son angry, and then say that early love is a matter of two people, which can be blamed on the son's head, and the parents of both sides will do it in the office.
After that, the woman's parents took the child to transfer schools, and Lei Jiayin was also ordered to go home to reflect, and his pure first love ended fiercely.
After this incident, Lei Jiayin's rebellious period was completely activated, skipping class and fighting became an indispensable part of his life, whether it was the class teacher or his mother could no longer control him, and even the treatment of his father's beating and scolding was indifferent. Seeing that the son who had high hopes for himself was so decadent, his mother washed her face with tears all day. Finally, one day, his mother was "driven crazy" by him.
That day, the next-door neighbor called his daughter at the door to come home for dinner, and my mother immediately ran out of the house with a moment's hesitation, saying while running,
I have to go home, your grandfather called me, it's time to go home and eat.
Scared Lei Jiayin enough, because his grandfather has been dead for many years, and then his mother's mother's family does not live next door, he quickly hugged his mother and said,
Mom, I don't dare to do this anymore, I will study well in the future, I will not make any more nonsense, you will forgive my parents, what is wrong with you?
After this incident, Lei Jiayin no longer dared to fool around, for fear of making his mother angry, but he was now like a wild horse with no reins, and it was impossible to keep him in captivity in school.
Mom and Dad see that their children are going to flow into society, how can this work? Dad wanted to let Lei Jiayin become a model in the future, because after that, Lei Jiayin was taller than other children, and his image was good, so he thought that it was okay to be a model in the future.
Dad took him to the Shenyang interview modeling school, and it was this exam that Lei Jiayin met the noble person in his life, Lu Xiaohe, and it was he who changed Lei Jiayin's life.
2.
After arriving in Shenyang, the interview was relatively smooth, and the family just came out of school and was shouted by a strange voice.
Wait a minute!
The family turned their heads to look at it, and Lei Jiayin asked in a nonchalant manner:
You sei!
Before Lei Jiayin could react, he was pulled aside by his father and shook the hand of the man who was shouting at them.
It turned out that he was Lu Xiaohe, who was one of the most popular actors in China at that time, and his starring role in "Garland Under the Mountain" was sought after by countless people in that era. By this time Dad was so excited that he couldn't speak.
Lu Xiaohe took the lead and said:
See your children are very good, is a good material to be an actor, are you willing to let your children stay to learn acting?
At this time, the father nodded like a chicken pecking at the rice and said:
willing! willing!
Telling them when school will start and going home to get ready, they board the train home. On the way, dad's mouth has not been closed and has been smiling, thinking that his son has a breath under this, there are big stars covered, and he will definitely not starve to death in the future.
Within a few days of their return home, this matter spread all over their hometown, and within a few days, the reporters of the newspaper would come to interview Lei Jiayin, and after the reporter's brilliant writing and anticipation of his future,
Soon it came to the day of the beginning of the school, originally thought that the school that Lu Xiaohe sent must be a very good school, the father and son came to the school with an excited mood, and when they arrived at the school door, the two people were dumbfounded, the original so-called art school was a kindergarten transformation, not only the environment was somewhat bad but also some naïve,
The father felt that he had sent his son to kindergarten again, and then he thought about it, it was better to let him mix in society, and the two of them went to report
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Lei Jiayin, who stepped into the campus again, changed his previous style and began to act safely and no longer frizzy. Because he figured out one thing, he wasn't sure what he could do after going to school before, and it wasn't stressful not to study well. And now he knows very well that after learning well, he will become an actor and get ahead, and if he does not learn well, he will go home and do a small business with his mother.
He was determined to be a good actor, no matter how difficult the road was, to go down firmly.
He did not want to dislike mathematical physics, and once he studied acting, he fell in love with this art, which may be related to his personality, or perhaps because of his talent. Every day in the morning work, rehearsals, reading, he did not fall behind, when other students went to drink in groups of three or five, when he did not go anywhere, he rehearsed hard in the rehearsal room.
A semester has passed, Lei Jiayin has become the top student in the class, in the final exam, but also achieved the first good result in the school, he knows the results and quickly called his father, his father also said, you can still take the first exam? Lei Jiayin also said unconvincedly, I don't believe you came to the school to see my rehearsal sketch.
The father could hear the change in his time from his son's words, and he also wanted to see it with his own eyes, so he went to school, and when she saw his son's confidence in performing on the stage, he knew that his son had become one.
After this, Lei Jiayin studied harder, ranking among the best in the school, and when he finally entered the university, he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy. When the acceptance letter was sent home, the mother cried out, and no one could believe that the child who had been dissuaded was now admitted to a key university in the country.
After arriving at the university, from the northeast to Shanghai in the world of flowers and flowers, everything in the play was fresh to him, and he also knew that if he wanted to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry, he had to pay ten times more than others. Because he knows his situation very well, he does not know any producer or director, there is no money or status in the family, the only way out is to work hard, and the opportunity is only this time, he must try his best to seize it.
Sure enough, he is still very good at playing, and at the same time, he also recognizes the gap between himself and his excellent brothers and sisters.
Once, in an interview, he openly said that he had the confidence to watch Hu Ge perform on the stage at that time, and the appearance that he could not compare with in any way, and even very jealous of him. He knew he still had a long way to go.
Lei Jiayin did not have an uncomfortable life in the theater, in the face of high tuition fees, the pressure of his parents was particularly great, he thought that he was so old, he could no longer spend the family's money like this. However, at that time, no one looked for him to shoot a movie, and no one looked for him to shoot an advertisement, he could only contact a small business performance, and even this reduced a lot of burden on the family.
After graduating from university, he was admitted to the Shanghai Dramatic Arts Center with excellent results and officially began his career as an actor.
3.
At that time, after Lei Jiayin arrived at the drama center, he performed dramas for several years in a down-to-earth manner, which were very valuable to him in recent years, and it was not real enough to re-perform in school, and it was a solid performance in the drama center. This is the difference between exercises and actual combat. In recent years, he has taken on some small roles while acting in dramas and accumulated a lot of experience.
Finally, when he was 29 years old, he waited for his first protagonist, and his role as "Little Northeast" in "The Great Gold Robbery" won him several awards and opened a new page for himself.
At that time, Lei Jiayin was already a winner in life, and had achieved little success in her career, and won the recognition of the industry and movie fans. In life, he also married his college classmate Zhai Xufei and also had his own children, and has also settled in Shanghai with a car and a house, in the eyes of his parents and relatives, he can have the current results are very good.
But Lei Jiayin did not think so, he thought that this was just the beginning of himself,
His goal is to become Chen Baoguo at the age of 40 and Li Baotian at the age of 60
That kind of actor, judging by his current achievements, is still too far behind.
With such a goal, he did not dare to delay for a day and became a workaholic demon.
During his filming of "White Deer Plain", he basically did not return home for three years, and when he returned home, his daughters would not know him.
It is such a conscientious and good actor, finally waiting for his own famous work, in "The First Half of My Life", he portrayed Chen Junsheng to make people feel painful, hateful and pitiful, making him suddenly angry. Followed by a series of excellent film and television works, and has now ranked among the first-line male stars.
Until recently, his starring role in "The World of Man" once again triggered a wave of national pursuit, through the role of Zhou Bingkun, let everyone see a different Lei Jiayin.
It is said that there are several big dramas starring Lei Jiayin in the next few big plays, and some people on the Internet have speculated that Lei Jiayin has any relationship or background, and can get such a good resource.
All this comes from lei Jiayin's efforts, all his "resources" are his own step by step out, he is really a good example for young people.
epilogue:
Lei Jiayin from a teenager who did not learn and did not have any skills to the current big star,
His experience explains why people should study hard.
His experience tells everyone how to succeed.
If he hadn't taken that step in his old home, he might still be a little leper in society now.
Success is the shortcut, that is, hard work, only hard work can succeed, there is no other way.
Lei Jiayin is not only the pride of her parents, but also constantly surpassing herself in order to complete her dreams.
Lei Jiayin come on!
I hope that he can bring you more excellent film and television works in the future.