I think the initiative in this relationship is not on your side, the other party should control the right to speak between you, but he is not fully involved in this relationship now. He should always be very busy, always worry about other things, it should be difficult to allocate energy to your side, you can also see that he is a very stubborn person, once he has made up his mind, he must act according to his own wishes. Emotionally, I think he still likes you and cares about you in his heart, but I will see that he seems to be facing a choice now, there should be other energy around him, or someone may be chasing him and has a good feeling for him. His inability to focus on the relationship between you will make me feel as if he has a backhand and a back road for himself.
Now that your relationship with him is becoming more and more flat, the other party will no longer have too much enthusiasm for the relationship, and may even have some boring and bored feelings, often once you understand each other in depth, the feelings will become weaker and weaker.
I feel that in the near future, you and the other party may have another energy around you, and this energy will be a little different, that is, it will be very different from the person you are with now. I think this energy is very compatible with you, this person understands your intentions, and he will be very enthusiastic about you. It is that you will feel that you are no longer alone, and whatever you say to him, he will respond to you. This situation can correspond to your side, or it may correspond to the other party. The connection to the new energies will make you feel differently about love.
You still enjoy it, feel that this new relationship is full of fresh feelings, sometimes you may also feel that this is the real love, is what you really want to find, but there are still a lot of things in reality that are difficult to overcome, it is impossible for you to cross the worldly bondage, which will also hinder the development of you and each other, I feel that you are now a special contradiction in your heart, you and each other seem to not get too many people's blessings, that is, your relationship seems not to be able to be open, And these things will make the original sweet love into a kind of bondage. If you have no way to get away with it and need guidance and help, I think you can come to me to talk about it, talk about the specific situation, and see if I can help you. I can see that there will be an energy between you and the other party that breaks through everything, but now I feel that this energy is not locked.
Now the relationship between you and your original partner doesn't seem to have changed much, the sense of security in the relationship has disappeared, and it feels like you have a long idea about this person in your heart, but you don't want to make a final decision. Contradictions make you feel miserable and insecure inside. I think now is what you need to judge which energy connection is more practical for you, you still have to adjust your own view of the love relationship, the other is not to blindly look for freshness, but to understand that you create romance, the management of feelings is dependent on your own, more communication, more to understand each other's inner needs, I think you still have the energy to get the opportunity to change.