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There is a way that in the second half of life, every step is the way home.
In other words, we have walked through the highest point of life, and further on, it is downhill. From the perspective of the trend of life development, it is to return to the original point.
However, many people have turned their lives upside down. The more you want to get, the more uncomfortable it will be, and the more things you lose.
Su Dongpo said: "Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian." ”
Since the reversal cannot be changed, then we can go backwards, so that it is a turn, and life is once again "smooth".
Therefore, after the age of sixty, the road for the rest of your life will go backwards, and the graben will change its course.
02
Leave the workplace, don't be idle, and use your residual heat.
Many people, when they are young, toss hard and want to get an official position. When he retires, he does nothing, thinking that he has worked hard and should enjoy the fruits.
But after retirement, a person is always idle, it is not downhill, but slippery slope.
In fact, many people have worked hard for most of their lives, accumulated a lot of knowledge, and have a skill, if they are willing to take it out and share it with everyone, the value of life will increase again.
My ninth uncle, when he was young, worked at the local nursery. After his retirement, he became a consultant to the village's fruit tree cooperative.
Every spring, Uncle Nine spends most of his time in the orchard. "This tree should be repaired like this; that tree should increase fertilizer in time..." Uncle Jiu relied on his own experience to let many fruit farmers continue to increase their income.
Although he didn't have a penny of salary, Uncle Nine's life, scorching and shining, seemed even younger.
Retirement does not fade. Although the intrigues in the workplace will annoy you, the busyness in the workplace will also make you live a full life. It's not a bad idea to treat work as a hobby.
03
Help your children, don't give money, learn to be determined.
An old colleague of mine, who has been thrifty for a lifetime, has a savings.
When the daughter got married, the old colleague spent half of the savings; the son-in-law started a business, and the old colleague's savings were all gone.
When we are young, we try our best to make money and live in the city, not for how well we live, but to help our children start a family.
When our children grow up, we will have to find a way to send them to higher places.
However, when you reach old age, how much ability do you still have to help your children? Spending money hard is not a long-term solution.
Although, we all say that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", we must let our children go on their own. But how can parents ignore it? After all, "worrying" is unavoidable.
Therefore, we have to learn to let go slowly. Refuse material help, give more spiritual help.
When children feel the love of their parents, they will have the motivation to move forward, and at the same time, they will also have the ability to feed their parents.
Parents are downhill, children are uphill, it is not a kind of compensation.
04
Live at home, don't be busy, enjoy the solitude.
Many elderly people, when they have just retired, invite relatives and friends to come to the house as guests, thinking that they have time, and it is right to make more meals for everyone.
Or go to the homes of relatives and friends to visit the door and get back all the lost emotions.
In fact, no matter how hot the water is, it will become cool water. Even if you buy the best thermos, you can't turn it around. Therefore, we need to remember such a sentence - hot water can warm hands, warm water can quench thirst, cool water can calm, overnight water can water flowers.
Life is in any state that can be enjoyed, including "loneliness and coldness."
The Northern Song Dynasty writer Li Liao recorded the scene of Su Dongpo sleeping: first of all, to flatten the body, so that every part is comfortable, if there is any discomfort, gently massage. After that, close your eyes, don't think about it, listen carefully to your breathing, and keep it even. After that, there is an itch in the body, you have to endure it, and when you have a meal time, you will sleep peacefully. When you get up, you have to take a nap.
Su Dongpo said: "The taste of a few moments, its beauty is endless." The taste of the night is not comparable. ”
The ancients believed that the heart should be slept first, and then the eyes should be slept. Sleep can have a series of feelings, let alone eat and drink Lazar?
Eating, the most beautiful fireworks in the world; resting, stealing a floating life for half a day; small gatherings, idle knocking chess pieces and falling lights and flowers... From the wisdom of the ancients, we can always find the most beautiful life, and there is no need for liveliness at all.
No matter how many people you have been sought after, you will still be snubbed in the end. Therefore, you should take the initiative to retreat to a quiet place and enjoy the loneliness. In this way, there is no socializing, no dinner, and a light life, which is a blessing.
05
Go out and ask for money, don't be generous, and cover your wallet.
Maybe you will wonder, old people, how to get rich? I don't have the ability to make a lot of money, and how much pension I have is not up to you.
In fact, the best way for the elderly to seek wealth is to cover the money bag and let the money in their hands slowly increase in value.
If you look closely, you will find that the same thing, in different places, the price is different. Spend some time, shop around, and you'll be able to spend the least amount of money on what you like, so you're "making money."
That is, turn boring time into "money". Don't be fooled casually, and don't treat businessmen as relatives and friends.
Zhihuli, netizen "Zhang" said that his parents, every time they go on a trip, will buy a lot of souvenirs, which was very happy at the time, but these things have no practical use. Therefore, the family is very troubled.
The downhill path of life also means that wealth decreases and loopholes for spending money increase. Therefore, we must know how to "check for omissions and fill in the gaps" and not let wealth disappear quickly. Or you can rely on thrift and thrift to make more deposits.
06
Those who have been in the mountains know that there is nothing else behind the mountain, but a mountain. This mountain looks up to the height of the mountain, it is desire; turning over one mountain beam after another is life.
The years cannot be turned back, and people are destined to grow old. Since it is impossible to increase the length of life, it is necessary to increase the breadth and height of life. Born as a human being, we must continue to be good in order to win to the end; we cannot live as a "tiger's head and tail".
For the rest of your life, the old Ji Futuo, the old man has done something, don't sigh.
The sun sets in the west and reflects the red sky, and the dead wood spits out green buds in the spring.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.