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Author: Seven Seven
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Backstage received a private message from a fan friend saying that love is a difficult problem, no matter how you do the problem, you can't figure out an accurate answer? How to say it, in fact, in the world of emotion, love is originally a relatively difficult thing to understand, making people feel less easy to understand, more difficult to guess things, especially when men and women first began to contact and communicate, the two sides did not know each other for a long time, and they did not know each other much, and there was not much common topic, so the two people would not have much contact at all.
Especially sometimes, whenever you want to further develop with each other, two people know a little more, contact a little more, chat more, talk more, when you talk, you open a topic, but see the other party reply to their own a few words, or a simple meme, the heart instantly cold and half cut, feel depressed.
Therefore, I very much want to know that the person I am looking at, who is thinking about it in his heart, and the one who can't forget it, is not the same as himself, and he also has some interest in himself? In fact, to tell the truth, this is not complicated, the most direct and simple way is to see how the other party contacts you when two people interact with each other, that is, how they love you.
Because in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, the closeness of one person's contact with another person is determined by the degree of liking. Especially for the female group, whenever they really like a man and have each other in their hearts, women will go all out, willing to fight hard, willing to do their best, and even willing to make sacrifices for men, willing to give everything they have.
After all, men are very direct creatures, in real life, if a male friend really likes women, has women in his heart, is interested or interested in women, then men will certainly not ignore women, nor will they be indifferent to women, and they will not always let women sacrifice anything, and will in turn try to protect women, not to let women suffer a little grievance, not to let women suffer a little hurt.
In the final analysis, love a person can not be hidden, feelings are also impossible to hide, if a person really loves you, the heart contains you, then the corners of the eyebrows can be seen, even for your every move, will be full of love, to your words and deeds, will imply affection. You know, how a man contacts you, how to love you, don't be stupid and don't know.
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See if the other party will take the initiative to contact you?
I once read such a sentence, a person really loves you, he will take the initiative to come to you, no exceptions.
Deeply believed, although each of our personalities is different, there may be people with a more introverted personality, quiet and taciturn, always need to be passive to communicate with people, while some people have a more extroverted personality, lively and cheerful, always like to take the initiative to befriended.
However, don't forget that love can help introverts open their hearts, and whenever they fall in love with a person, they will be willing to try to make changes for the people they love, try to change themselves, make themselves active, take the initiative to contact each other, and take the initiative to grasp love.
And a man who does not like women, there is no woman in his heart, and has no interest in women, is absolutely not going to take the initiative to contact women, probably most of the time, men will just wait for women to contact themselves, waiting for women to send messages to themselves, it can be seen from the chat records of two people, maybe every message sent by women to men, men will give a positive reply, but men have never taken the initiative to women, and have never taken the initiative to send messages to women.
In fact, there is no other reason, because men really don't like women, or don't like women so much, so they don't take the initiative to contact, and they don't care about women's anxiety waiting for their contact.
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See if the other person will reply to your message in seconds?
Today's society has a very developed way of communication, but in real life, many people often wait for each other's messages every day, wait for each other's phone calls, and wait until the next day to still not receive the desired message, did not receive the desired phone, and even for several days, weeks did not receive the messages and calls they wanted to see.
Seriously, in today's society where everyone has a mobile phone, no one does not look at the mobile phone for a day, perhaps in the second that they send a message out, the other party will see their own message, but the other party does not like themselves, there is no self in the heart, and they do not care about their own person, so they are not in a hurry to reply to their own messages, nor do they care about their own waiting for a reply to their anxious interest, and it is even possible that when they are waiting for the message, the other party has long forgotten to reply to the message.
And really love women, there are women in the heart, men who care about women's moods will never do this, because men really love women very much, and they are sincere about women, so men will care very much about women's moods and feelings, and they are more afraid of worrying that they are too late to reply to women, women do not plan to continue to chat with themselves, so men will reply to women's messages in time.
Even if when a woman sends a message to a man, the man is busy with work or something, and does not reply to the woman's message in time, he will immediately send a message to the woman when he sees the woman's message, and explain to the woman the reason why he just replied to the message late.
To put it bluntly, this is the biggest difference between a person's likes and dislikes in feelings, only the man who can reply to your message in time, or directly reply to your message in seconds, is really like a woman, has a woman in his heart, and has true feelings for women.
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Seeing if the other party is nervous about you, will you play missing with you for no reason and no reason?
In fact, in the relationship, love and no love are not the same, a real love of women, nervous women in the heart, and even women in an important position of the man, hundreds of years can not do with women all the time to keep in touch, but also will never not reply to women's messages and phone calls, play with women for no reason missing.
To tell the truth, those who often do not reply to women's messages, ignore women's love, can't say which day will disappear, no news of men, obviously do not like women, not nervous about women, do not care about women's mood and feelings, because men do not take women seriously, feel that their whole person is completely free, unrestrained.
No matter where men go, what they are doing, they don't need to report to anyone, especially women, as for when men want to contact women, it is entirely determined by their own mood, that is, when they are lonely or bored, they will be willing to contact women, perhaps in the eyes of men, women's worries about themselves are superfluous, and that is completely a woman's own business.
And the man who really loves women, cares about women in his heart, and has moved his true feelings for women, then no matter where men go, even if they go out to work or eat with friends, they will be willing to tell women and take the initiative to report to women, because only when men love women more, they will pay more attention to women; only when men love women more, they will feel more nervous and inferior, worried that women will think wildly, even misunderstand themselves, and are more afraid that they do not have the slightest sense of existence in women.
Therefore, no matter where you go, what movements you have in your life, you will be willing to tell women in advance, and you will be willing to report to women, to put it bluntly, men love women deeply, they care about women, and hope that this can be used as an opportunity to contact women and chat with women.
Guo Qilin once said such a sentence, what is love? It's simple I like you, I want to be with you, eat together every day, work together, live together, this is called love. I want to get some conditions because of you, that is not pure love.
All in all, in the process of intersex communication, women will understand a truth sooner or later, how a person contacts you, that is, how to love you, and the details can tell you the answer. So you female friends, don't believe in men's honey love words so easily, and don't be so easily fooled by men's sweet words, maybe that moment can make women harvest happiness, but in the long run, it is very unrealistic.
After all, to tell the truth, those who really love women, have women in their hearts, really care about women, are willing to put into practical action on women, are also willing to do some specific things for women, and are willing to keep in touch with women often, and even men will use all kinds of methods to enter women's hearts, to constantly approach women, to integrate into women's lives.
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