I know that many friends don't know what to talk about when chatting with girls, so today I will give you a trick, believe me, learn these girls will take the initiative to come to you! So what are you waiting for? Let's take a look at this article I brought today - what topics should be discussed when chatting with girls!
1. Establish your own framework
Sometimes girls will ask for value (red envelopes or gifts) from boys, and what you need at this time is not to give but to reasonably reject her with no need, and at the same time let the girl meet your requirements before satisfying her request, show your framework and high value, and do not show your low bottom line in front of girls.
Girl: You send me a red envelope.
Boy: Okay, I can send it to you, but I want to ask you a question, you tell me your full name, I'll send you a red envelope.
2, do not fall into the "trap" of girls
When a girl asks you why you look for her every day, don't answer directly because you are interesting or I like you, this way of chatting will show your flattering framework in front of the girl, we must understand that the girl is asking this is to test your attitude towards her.
What we have to do is not to enter the girl's test, keep our chat framework unchanged as the core of the way of reply, use jumping thinking, let the other party think through, and properly maintain a sense of mystery to increase your attractiveness. Like what:
Girl: Why didn't you talk to me today?
Boy: Isn't it, no one but me to message you?
Girl: No, but it's very rare.
Boy: There is a saying: You don't care about me today, tomorrow...
Girl: Can't climb high?
Boy: No, there are thunderstorms tomorrow, remember to go out with an umbrella.
Girl: Haha, I thought you were going to routine me, thank you for caring.
Boy: Actually I was thinking about a question about you.
Girl: How old am I?
Boy: No, I just think it's a pleasure to talk to you, I think you have the potential to be funny, and your curiosity is still very heavy.
Girl: Why do you say that?
Boy: You see, always ask me questions.
3, control your gains and losses
When asked by girls, "When you are not routine with me", I always feel that your attempts are discovered by girls, afraid that the other party does not like themselves, and will be crazy to show sincerity, and you need to put away your gains and losses and adhere to your principles. Like what:
Boy: Actually, I am a very heartfelt man, and every sentence is a feeling from the heart.
Girl: Oh, really? Feel like you're tricking me?
Boy: How can such a bright and upright person be a routine?
Girl: It feels like you're just playing tricks on me.
Boy: If it is a routine, it is also the highway to happiness that I have built for you.
Girl: Little brother, you are so good at flirting, why don't you have a girlfriend yet?
Boy: I don't want to settle down like you.
Girl: I didn't, I just couldn't put it down.
Boy: Then hurry up, I will use my power to heal your wounds.
The above is what topics should be talked about when you chat with girls for everyone today, have you learned?