For families with children or children, pets have always been a sensitive topic, and most people are very concerned about whether the existence of pets will affect children or threaten the personal safety of children.
If there are pets and children in the family, then we must do some corresponding protective measures, on the one hand, we cannot think that this pet is what I have kept for a long time, and I am very obedient to human nature, so I think that I will not cause any danger to the child. After all, pets are not human beings, and some of their behavior habits are beyond our ability to figure out.
But at the same time, having a pet at home is also a good thing for the child, you can cultivate the baby to love small animals from a small age, explore the nature of nature, you can also cultivate the baby's love, while finding a small partner for the baby, you can also play with him.
A friend of mine, Xiao Zhang, after getting pregnant, thought about it and decided to send the pet dog to his girlfriend's house.
She said: "Although it is now said that raising cats and dogs at home does not affect pregnancy and babybirth, I am still afraid. Although the relationship with it is also very deep, it is only a pet after all. But even if they are going to be separated, I hope that it can find a owner who loves it more than I do. ”
After having children, it is not only what you think about where to go with the pets in the family, but also the attitude of family members. We must learn to respect every life, but also to respect the person you love around, everyone to find the most reasonable solution, do not take a thing that is originally full of love, to the end of the unhappy scattered.
In any case, we must learn to respect the people around us, everyone has the right to make their own choices, can not feel that I am for your own good, just impose their own ideas on others, and even make their own decisions for others, which is actually very hurtful to the feelings of the two of you.
"Pregnant, throw the dog away" "No, it's been with me for eight years"
Xiao Su and her husband got pregnant after more than half a year of marriage, which was originally a happy event for the two families, but when she came to Xiao Su, there was a problem that bothered her even more.
Xiao Su has an Akita dog by his side and has been following Xiao Su's side for 8 years. Her relationship with this dog is very deep, it can be said that she completely treats it as a family, even when she married from her mother's family, she was reluctant to give up, and finally decided to take the dog with her and take it with her to marry.
8 years ago, Xiao Su's parents divorced, and during that most difficult period, it was this puppy who accompanied her all the time. Xiao Su gave it a name called Coke, Coke is a male dog, especially smart, and a little naughty, but he listens to Xiao Su very much.
It was during that time with coke that Xiao Su was able to come out of the shadow of her parents' divorce, and without Coke, it was difficult for Xiao Su to imagine how long it would take her to get rid of this shadow.
She has always regarded Coke as a family member, and warned her boyfriend when she confirmed his marriage: "Coke means a lot to me, not just a dog, but my family." In the future, no matter where I go, I will take it with me, even if we have our own children in the future, we can't discard Coke for the sake of the baby. ”
After getting married, at first the in-laws had no objection to the dog, but after Xiao Su became pregnant, they began to show the idea of throwing the dog away.
The first time the mother-in-law mentioned this matter to Xiao Su, she was strongly rejected by her, she said: "How can it be? My baby is in my belly, and Coke is my family. And Mom, you can rest assured, I have consulted a lot of information, as long as you take Coke to the injection regularly, keep his personal cleanliness will not be a problem. And Coke is also very well-behaved, it seems to have a spiritual nature, knows that I am pregnant, and often puts its head on my stomach. ”
The mother-in-law skimmed her lips and said very dismissively, "Whatever has spirituality, no matter how well-behaved, it is also a beast." ”
Xiao Su did not speak again, but in her heart a few more eyes, reminding herself to be more alert, must protect the personal safety of Coke, she also wants to wait for the baby to be born, and Coke to become good friends.
Second, "After three days of traveling with my husband, the dog became a pot of soup"
When she was four or five months pregnant, the pregnancy reaction gradually faded, and Xiao Su wanted to go out to travel once, saying that after giving birth to a child, the mother was bound, and she could not go anywhere, and there was no freedom.
So she wanted to take advantage of the fact that she had not yet had a child, go out for a walk, and her husband agreed to Xiao Su's proposal, so they arranged a time and went to Japan for three days.
Those few days, Coke happened to have enteritis, and he was afraid that the long-distance bumps would be very unaccustomed, so after thinking about it, Xiao Su still decided to leave Coke behind. Fearing that the in-laws would do bad things to the dogs, they did not choose the elderly, but decided to send Coke to their husband's cousin's house.
After going to Japan for three days of fun, back home, Xiao Su couldn't wait to dial her cousin's phone after a little rest, saying that she had returned and would pick up Coke later.
Who knew that the cousin told her in a hurry: after the in-laws knew the news that they were traveling, they quickly guessed that the dog was here with the cousin, and came to pick up the Coke yesterday.
Xiao Su immediately had a bad premonition, quickly pulled up her husband, and took a taxi to her in-laws' house.
Seeing that it was my mother-in-law who opened the door, she directly asked: What about my Coke? The mother-in-law was a little embarrassed, but the father-in-law was in a good mood and said: Right here, just now you are also here, do you want to come a little?
Following the direction of his fingers, Xiao Su only saw a steaming pot of soup on the dinner table, and heard his father-in-law's voice in his ear:
"I've wanted to dispose of your dog for a long time." I heard that you went out to play, and I guessed that you put the dog in his cousin's place. This dog is still dealt with early, otherwise after the child is born, sooner or later there will be an accident. ”
Xiao Su only felt a whirlwind of heaven and directly fainted. Waking up again was in the hospital, seeing her husband's anxious face, two lines of hot tears flowing down her cheeks, she turned her face away and said only one word, I want to divorce you.
Hearing this news, the mother-in-law also rushed to the hospital and expressed disbelief: for a dog, do you want a divorce?
Xiao Su said: "Coke is not only a dog, but also my family, it has been with me for 8 years. How many 8 years of life? It's not too young, so why are you doing this to it? The baby in my belly is a life, coke, isn't it a life? ”
Don't use your own ideas to make decisions for others, and the same is true for your family
At the end of the story, Xiao Su really beat up the child and divorced her husband. There may be many people who are sorry for the unborn child, but for Xiao Su, in this incident, she lost not only the child in her belly, but also the Coke that accompanied her for 8 years.
Probably only people who have owned dogs will feel the same way, the longer they spend with themselves, the more they are like a child, a family, they are your most loyal friends and partners, and they will not abandon your little life at any time.
Such a dedicated life, instead of receiving the respect it deserves, ended his life in such a cruel way. Even more hateful is Xiao Su's in-laws, who never really listened to their daughter-in-law's ideas, but instead self-righteously made decisions that they thought were right, and deprived a dog of its life without her consent.
No matter when, no matter for anyone, we should not impose our own ideas on others, everyone has their own right and wrong, everyone has their own right to make their own choices, all we have to do is respect.