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There is a paragraph on the Internet that says that the post-70s are addicted to novels, the post-80s are addicted to Hong Kong films, the post-90s are addicted to games, and the post-00s are addicted to more things. Echoing another passage, every generation of people has been "destroyed."
Even more poisonous chicken soup prevailed, "If you want to destroy a child, give him a mobile phone is enough!" ”
Good guys, the major mobile phone manufacturers have fallen on their knees and begged for forgiveness: what is wrong with us, do we change our careers?
Is there something wrong with the phone? Mobile phones are just "tools", but they are used as "toys" by children.
Therefore, in the eyes of many parents, the mobile phone is Pandora's box, and it is completely finished when given to the child.
There are also slightly more rational parents who say: the mobile phone is actually right, the wrong is the game!
But I would like to say that it is never a game that destroys children! It's a "drug" mobile game to be precise.
The game is not "devil", but some games are like "drugs"
Children play games, and parents are allowed. What parents can't accept is that their children are addicted to games! Addicted to online games.
Most children now play games that are nothing more than those two or three national mobile games, and it is precisely these that are addicted to them.
The game is not devil, students study weekdays, it is necessary to learn to combine work and leisure, but the main and secondary stay up all night to play mobile phones, leaving homework, dozing off in class is very scary.
"Eat chicken" or "push the tower". It is not unreasonable to say that these games are "drugs".
Does the child have self-control? Do you have self-control! As a parent you have to admit that the vast majority of children do not have it.
In the face of the great temptation of the game, they have no power to fight back.
The game "drugs", one harms health, the other is addictive. Children put on glasses early, grow dark circles, and become little fat people, which is really too much happening around us.
Let's talk about how mobile games are addictive to kids!
A brief analysis summarizes four reasons:
Why mobile games are easier to indulge than computer games, the reason is very simple, easy to get started, the cost is low, a thousand yuan of smart phones connected to the network can be enjoyed.
Which is like when we went to school after 90, the mobile phone is still a button machine, and when we go home to play the computer secretly, we also have to cool down the computer before the parents go home.
It's so comfortable to play games on your phone! Sit and play, lie down, or fall asleep. That's the first point of addiction!
Second, mobile games are full of "routines". Adults basically know that free things are the most expensive!
Free mobile games are exactly that! Unlike console games, which are difficult to get started with, a game is one or two hundred pieces. Mobile games are free, national mobile games are free, game manufacturers are not profitable?
On the contrary, they are the most profitable, and they are at the top of the list every year. To put it bluntly, it is to sell skins or draw cards! The skin adds a little attribute, and drawing cards makes you deeply trapped in the gambler's psychology. Game manufacturers have taken the study of the psychology of minors to the extreme!
Big data is a killer, and big data is also addictive. Big data must not be used to induce minors to indulge in the Internet and addict to games, and relevant policies have been put on the agenda!
The "routine" of mobile games is not limited to this, we all know that playing online games is either "liver" or "krypton".
Children naturally have a lot of pocket money, but it will be beaten up when they are known to their parents.
So children can only become the "slaves" of mobile games, daily tasks, daily check-ins, weekly cycles, monthly clock-ins.
Break the sign for a day, free skins, free props are lost. After the habit is formed, I panic when I don't go online for a day.
Slightly once played "pesticide" that time is also the same, as a "zero krypton party", the first charge of 6 yuan welfare did not cost money, white prostitution a lot of skin, and later I found that I lost, I lost countless times. After uninstalling, it has never been downloaded again.
Do minors have this awareness? Impossible, they do not realize, this is the game manufacturer's "bad eye" place.
A lot of people are now not playing games, but being played by games. The game was supposed to be relaxing and casual, and the result was that the more you played, the more tired you became.
Only because of the third point: the ranking mechanism!
"I'll take you up!" A wave of kings. ”
"Ask the Great God, take me." Little white begging for belt! ”
Games satisfy people's sense of accomplishment, especially online games.
The low rank is looked down upon, and the high rank is lifted up to the sky. The low segment wants to score, and the high segment wants to keep the position. Thanks to the ranking mechanism, you may not be able to score points, and you may lie down to win.
The ultimate meaning of the game's ranking is that as long as you are willing to give a lot of time, you can be on the throne.
When the ranking mechanism, bumping into the social mechanism, the combination of the two points, addiction is too easy.
The fourth point of mobile game addiction: forced "socialization".
Now it is too simple to enter the circle of post-00s or even post-10s, just one sentence: "Do you play weChat area or QQ area?" ”
Playing one can be very familiar, playing two can scold the street, playing for half a day will be called brother and brother!
Think of today's young people, do not play mahjong, do not play poker, the way of leisure is one: open black. National online games, you do not play one, it seems not to fit in the same way! In the student circle, it is naturally the same, you don't play mobile games, you really don't play with you.
Minors who are forced to "socialize", it is easy to pick up the game, it is difficult to put down the game.
Rejecting the addiction of "mobile games" requires the combined efforts of the three
Parents strengthen the management of children's mobile phones, it is impossible for students not to use mobile phones, and the more you do not let them use them, the more they steal to use.
Strengthening mobile phone management is to help children plan well and supervise parents, so that they can open the mobile phone in the student mode, rather than indulging the child's permission to use the mobile phone. At the same time, learn to accompany the child and find a healthier way to relax with the child.
The school continues to carry out a wealth of social sports outdoor activities, so that students take the initiative to put down their mobile phones and embrace the playground! Organize various types of clubs and clubs to cultivate students' interests and implement the double reduction policy so that students' hobbies are no longer playing mobile phones.
Game manufacturers performing their social duties and cannot harm the physical and mental health of minors for the sake of profit. It is recommended to cancel the "ranking" mode in the game of minors, without mutual comparison, the sense of achievement will be reduced, and it is naturally not addictive.
Parents, schools, and manufacturers work together to guide and help students.
Don't expect your child to be self-disciplined and self-conscious! Unrealistic, unrealistic.
A little bit of a message
As an adult, when you don't play games, you always think about playing games, and after playing games, you always have a sense of emptiness.
This sense of emptiness is the gap between the virtual reality of the game and the reality of society!
No matter how powerful it is in the game, reality may be very weak.
This sense of gap cannot be quickly adjusted by adults, let alone minors.
Quit your gaming addiction and either find a new "hobby" or you need to have a kind of motivation.
For adults: poor motivation, it couldn't be more appropriate. Write now! Playing games does not make money.
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Do you play mobile games? How much time is spent per day? How much money has you recharged?
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