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Poster of "Our Marriage"
"Our Marriage", starring Bai Baihe, Tong Dawei, Jiang Xin, Shi An, Wang Xiao, Gao Ye and others, is being broadcast.
Up to now, each character has his own personality, which is good to look at separately, but when combined, it is particularly suffocating.
First of all, Shen Huixing, played by Bai Baihe, was originally a high-achieving financial student, and there was a good investment company near graduation that threw an olive branch to her, but she suddenly became pregnant, so she graduated, got married, and had children in one go.
In the following six years, Shen Huixing became a full-time mother, with a baby, laundry, cooking, moving, contracting all housework.
Even decoration, wiring, welding she does a better job than men, can be said to be the top pillar of both inside and outside.
In addition, Shen Huixing can also manage money and play rock and roll, she has never given up her dreams and persistence, and is a particularly cool mother.
But it's such a good mother,
Nothing in front of the self-righteous, well-earned, condescending husband of superiority.
Shen Huixing's husband Sheng Jiangchuan (Tong Dawei), is a new investment star in the financial industry, and he has the title of "Sheng Banzai" in the industry with his unique vision and fierce wrist, and occupies a place in the industry.
Shen Huixing and Sheng Jiangchuan met at the debate tournament,
The two from the campus to the wedding dress, have children, they have a clear division of labor, Shen Huixing first lord, Sheng Jiang Chuan just try to rush forward, take their family to live a good life, and then they moved into the financial street as they wished, and the days got better and better.
But the problem also came, he spent less and less time with his wife and daughter, and what was even more disgusting was that
He also uses all kinds of rhetoric to whitewash his good intentions, and rightly and boldly lists himself as a "good man guide", and the family can live a good life all by himself, which completely negates the full-time mother's efforts and makes people want to clench their fists.
But fortunately, Shen Huixing has always been quite sober, even if she has no workplace experience, even if she is an older intern, she has no hesitation in pursuing her ideals and pursuits.
Two people in a marriage, both men and women, should be equal.
But the reality is often who earns more money, who has more say, full-time mothers' efforts are ignored, which is why more and more full-time mothers want to return to the workplace.
Because they want to be faced up to, to be recognized.
In fact, not only full-time mothers need solidarity, but also full-time fathers.
In the play, Li Yuwen, played by Ann, is a full-time grandfather, and his wife is a sister in the financial industry, Dong Sijia (Jiang Xin), the shoulder handle of Spruce Evergreen.
It is a still of An and Jiang Xin
If in Shen Huixing's home, ShengJiang chuan's sense of superiority and straight male cancer are suffocating,
That Dong Sijia is the male version of Sheng Jiangchuan, they turn a blind eye to the other half's efforts, self-righteously think that they are fighting outside that is called work,
And the one at home is idle and doesn't do anything.
Full-time mother Shen Huixing summed up the words "cool sa" in one word, and full-time dad Li Yuwen is "ruya".
Li Yuwen was originally a senior student in the Department of History, he was delicate in his mind, knowledge of the past and the present, and originally worked in a publishing house.
Because of his love for the family, he chose to fulfill his wife, he picked up books and put on an apron and became a full-time dad.
In educating children, he ignores the world's established concepts, has his own unique side, and lives a particularly transparent life.
For him to be able to accompany the book, it is the quiet years, and to be with Dong Sijia is to get what he wants.
But for Dong Sijia,
Although she has always thanked Li Yuwen for his sacrifice and dedication, she cares in her heart that her husband is a "full-time father" and is pointed out;
She never talks about her family at work, much less does she want to know that her husband is a stay-at-home dad.
Their company was going to attend the venture capital sword festival, and the boss said that she could take her husband with her.
But Dong Sijia promised good on his lips, turned around and went alone.
Dong Sijia has two faces, is fierce in the workplace, and is strict with himself;
When I went home, I was gentle in front of my son, and I respected my husband like a guest, and everything seemed to be happy and peaceful, but in fact, it was full of contradictions.
Dong Sijia thought from the bottom of her heart that her husband was a full-time dad, which was her own problem.
As a man, Li Yuwen himself is very peaceful in his heart, he does not care that others say that he "eats soft rice", nor does he mind that others say that he relies on his wife.
For him, a family needs someone to give, and he is willing to fulfill his wife because of love.
But Dong Sijia's strength is really a bit breathless, when Li Yuwen discussed with her and wanted to wait for her children to go to work after school, what she said was as unacceptable as Sheng Jiangchuan said Shen Huixing.
Li Yuwen wanted to go back to work in a field he was familiar with, which was his profession and his interest.
However, in Dong Sijia's view, the work of the publishing house has no meaning, that is, tossing and turning:
"You want to go to work, either looking for a high-paying one or someone with social status, otherwise..."
Although..., but....
Mutual understanding and support between husband and wife is too important, if they can't communicate with each other equally,
One side is high above and overbearing, or it is like Shen Huixing and Sheng Jiangchuan, who are fighting each other everywhere;
Or just like Li Yuwen, obscure, "swallowing anger", there are many people who see here and are worried that Li Yuwen will be blackened.
Black is not black do not know, but it is certain that their marriage will not be happy in this way.
Dong Sijia, as a full-time mother, is not easy to be true, but as a husband, Li Yuwen also needs to be respected and recognized.
If Li Yuwen hadn't taken care of everything in the family, Dong Sijia wouldn't have been able to fight for her career with peace of mind.
Henry James once said: "The first lesson of marriage is to learn to respect each other's unique way of life, of course, not interfering with the other party is not the same as giving up on the self." ”
I deeply believe that any long-term relationship should be based on mutual respect, which should also be what "Our Marriage" wants to convey to the audience.
I believe that in the end, whether it is Shen Huixing and Sheng Jiangchuan, or Li Yuwen and Dong Sijia,
They will all find a balance between family and career, learn to let go, learn to respect, and cherish each other.
A netizen said that Dong Sijia must have saved the galaxy in her last life, and only married such a good man as Li Yuwen in this life.
That is to say, no matter whether Li Yuwen is blackened or not, those who like him will like him as always, and who calls him An Yan.
I don't know how many people are like this netizen, this evaluation is an affirmation of the role, but also an affirmation of the actor is Ann.
For Ann, there are many people who say that he does not have acting skills, but also looks gentle and handsome, debuted for 25 years, and also starred in many classic hit dramas, which should have been on fire a long time ago, but why is it tepid?
For example, "The First Half of My Life", "Tiansheng Long Song", "Settle Down", "The Ideal Life of Love", "Flowing Golden Years", and "Meritorious Service" all have his wonderful performances.
Stills of the Settlers
Flowing Golden Years Stills
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Actually, It's Ann who isn't not hot, he's just low-key,
He positioned himself as an actor, so the actor only did what the actor should do, that is, to act well.
Therefore, outside the role, it is Ann who does not hype and does not make a fuss, maintains the original intention, and lives transparently and open-mindedly like Li Yuwen.
For work and life, it is orderly and calm, and it does not care at all about whether it is red or not, only cares about whether it is loved by yourself.
If you have to define it by fire or not fire,
Then Li Yuwen was seen, discussed, and liked, was it even an annul?
Let's leave a message about your favorite character in "Our Marriage".
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