Primary school culture grandma with grandchildren, IQ super peers, daughter-in-law: how does the mother know the method of brain experts?
There is a distant relative, the old man is more than sixty years old this year, due to the age and family reasons, he has not studied since elementary school. She grew up in the countryside.
The old man's two sons, who were very successful in education, now buy houses in big cities, and small families are relatively happy.
After the eldest son had a child, the old man was taken to the city to help take care of the grandson.
The daughter-in-law was very dismissive at first, and discussed with her husband to send the child to the early education class, but the old man did not agree: You are not full of money, not to mention that the mother came to bring you the child, is it not assured? You see the brothers are not very good.
When the daughter-in-law heard her mother-in-law say this, she didn't say anything more.
In this way for almost three years, the mother-in-law helped bring up the grandson alone.
When the child went to kindergarten at the age of 3, the teacher's words really surprised the couple.
It turns out that the child is better at "language ability, reaction ability, discipline, thinking ability and intelligence than the children in the same class, and as a child in a small class, in some respects has surpassed the level of the middle class." ”
The daughter-in-law passed on the teacher's original words to her mother-in-law and asked: Mom, how did you teach it? I haven't seen what you've done."
The mother-in-law saw her daughter-in-law say this, took out a set of small story books, and held her grandson in her arms. The mother-in-law took out a book in her hand, and the three-year-old grandson began to read the story with his fingers, word by word, pointing to the text like a decent way.
Grandma asked her grandson: What if I encounter difficulties? Sun Tzu replied: We are not afraid of losing, but we must overcome difficulties.
"Then why do we have to talk about hygiene every day?" "Bad germs make us sick, and nobody likes to play with dirty kids."
Grandma asked her grandson a few more questions, and the little guy answered with a head of Tao, very reasonable.
Daughter-in-law Le blossomed: Mom, you really have a set of teaching children, we both came out early and returned late, we ignored these, and all the credit for the teacher's praise is yours.
The mother-in-law then said to her daughter-in-law: I have read this set of storybooks to my eldest grandson 100 times.
Daughter-in-law: Mom, your parenting method is the same as what the brain experts say, how do you know?
Mother-in-law: Although I have no culture, but since I was a child, I have listened to the stories of the elderly, and I myself know that it is good to read stories to children, the truth in the story, the way to be a person, and the children will understand it as soon as they listen.
Why is reading stories to children the easiest way to raise good children? [Rose] Mama J found the answer in the book "Reading Manual".
The author Trilis, on the back cover, said such an example. In 2002, 400,000 students took the U.S. college entrance examination, and Christopher scored perfectly. Subsequently, the reporters interviewed the mother of the champion on how to raise such a smart and excellent child.
The answer surprised everyone: never attended any training class, but parents insisted on reading for their children every day, at least 30 minutes.
Children are smart because they have strong understanding ability and learn fast. The ability to understand is based on the child's background knowledge and analysis of information.
Reading to your child can increase your child's background knowledge.
Mother J said before that before the child is 6 years old, the brain development is 90% complete. During this period, the child has a good memory, and the knowledge that needs to be memorized later is easy to remember at this age.
Remembering a lot of information can increase your child's intellectual background.
Reading to children can resonate with children.
Parents may have this experience, in a certain matter, the child has been disobedient, but one day suddenly listened to a related story, he suddenly understood things, but also corrected the previous habits.
The explanation given by [Rose] Brain Science is that children find resonance in stories, see the immediate consequences of bad behavior, and are able to migrate to themselves.
Reading to children makes them smarter.
This is easy to understand.
The more you read, the stronger your child's comprehension ability, the stronger your comprehension ability, the more your child likes to read, the more he reads, and then the more he knows, the smarter he is. This is a closed-loop result of reading for children.
J's mother's distant relative, she just tells stories to her grandson, so that her child's IQ exceeds that of her peers. And it's a repetitive storytelling.
Studies have shown that repeatedly reading the same picture book to children will increase their vocabulary by 14%-40%, and the learning effect is relatively long-lasting.
[Rose] The old man read to his children almost 100 times is the "Children's Emotional Behavior Small Picture Book".
This set of books is specially prepared for 0-5-year-old children, to help children with behavior management, emotional management, self-management, time management of small picture books, if parents can read to their children repeatedly, then there are two results: help children become smart, children may be literate.
[Rose] Is a full set of 40 books, each of which is a thematic story.
For example, in the story of "Don't Be a Dirty Child", the piglet is not hygienic, no other small animal is willing to be friends with him, after seeing this result, the child is likely to migrate to himself, which is much more effective than the mother's daily urge to "wash his face and brush his teeth quickly".
The key is to enable parents to teach their children the principles of life and develop good living habits without yelling or shouting.
[Rose] Mother J suggests that parents read to their children repeatedly, and the words in the book are close to life, which can increase the child's vocabulary and comprehension. When reading, you can first look at the picture, then point to the text, and finally try to let the child speak.
If you can stick with it for a while, you'll see your child change.
The full set of books is only 59.9 yuan, 40 books, very cost-effective.
Children's emotional behavior guidance picture book
