Like online shopping, wear fashionable clothes, love to listen to Wang Feng's pop music,
Many people certainly don't believe that this is the habit of an 80-year-old man.
The crew colleagues affectionately called her "young and beautiful girl",
She also boasted that she was not 80 years old, but "post-80s".
Say her name "Peng Yu" If you are not impressed, you will definitely be "suddenly cheerful" when you see her photo:
It turned out to be her!
On the screen, she is a "national grandmother" professional household!
Or kind or stern,
Created a lot of "mother" image close to life.
In life, she has trained both daughters to become excellent actors,
8 years without work, focusing on taking care of her husband who is sick in bed at home, but unfortunately the other party still died.
It can be said that the first half of her life was mixed, she met true love and lost it, and her acting career was delayed.
The second half of his life was full of controversy, at the age of 67, he married his deceased husband and brother-in-law, and did not let the other party take a penny of living expenses, and was willing to shoot a play to "raise" him.
What kind of story is behind this, and is Teacher Peng Yu's old age happy?
Maybe the truth of life is far more tender than we think!
01, the acting talent was hit by the father, and he was fiercely said "shame on the eyes"!
In 1934, a girl was born in the home of an ordinary railway worker in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, and her family named her Peng Yu.
When he was five or six years old, Peng Yu often couldn't help but sing and dance, and initially showed his artistic talent.
Unfortunately, in that era, traditional parents were very repulsive to the "performance" industry.
The collision of generational ideas has also quietly laid the groundwork here!
When he was a teenager, Peng Yu practiced song and dance in the park, which attracted many people to watch.
Everyone clapped their hands and applauded, holding Peng Yu to great pride.
Unexpectedly, my father just happened to see Peng Yu's performance when he passed by, and he went home without saying a word.
Peng Yu, who knew his father's personality, did not dare to delay for a moment, and followed his father back home.
After arriving home, his father had a somber face and said fiercely, "Shame on people", which made the young Peng Yu feel aggrieved.
Since then, she has never dared to talk about "acting dreams" in front of her parents again.
Her mother also hoped that Peng Yu could have a "stable" job in the future, so she let her graduate from middle school apply for Harbin Normal College.
After graduating from normal school, Peng Yu successfully became a primary school teacher.
The ordinary teaching life made Peng Yu feel bored, hidden from her family, and she secretly participated in the amateur drama troupe.
In the drama troupe, she can finally release the dreams of her youth, and she feels extremely satisfied in her heart.
At this time, she is even more determined in her love of acting!
In 1951, the Harbin Repertory Theatre was rehearsing "How Steel is Made," and 17-year-old Peng Yu was given a chance to play the sister of a Red Army.
Although it was only a small role, Peng Yu impressed everyone present with her emotional acting skills, and the leaders of the drama troupe also looked at her with admiration.
The seeds of his dream were ignited again, and Peng Yu immediately decided to re-apply for the reapplying for the drama troupe and was admitted with excellent results in the same year.
After resigning, she lied to her parents that she was just copying the script in the repertory theatre.
Her parents saw that she was so "obsessed" with acting that they had to acquiesce to her choice.
02, the first love that will not be abandoned until death, but it has not reached the end
In the drama troupe, the teenage Peng Yu is very conspicuous, and the two dark and bright braids are the bright scenery in the eyes of many male colleagues.
Among them, a colleague named Zhao Wenxin, felt a bright spot when he first saw Peng Yu.
Since then, he has often saved up snacks and quietly left them for Peng Yu to eat.
Peng Yu, who had just opened his heart, also understood Zhao Wenxin's meaning, and the two young hearts slowly approached.
In that era when it was rare to hold hands, Peng Yu also agreed to go to the movie with Zhao Wenxin.
In 1954, Peng Yu, who was only 20 years old, and his first love Zhao Wenxin entered the marriage hall.
The wedding ceremony is simple, but the life after marriage is extremely sweet.
Soon after, the eldest daughter of the two was born, and the couple named her Zhao Lingqi;
Nine years later, the second daughter was born and named Zhao Jiaqi.
At home, Peng Yu has an absolute status, and her husband Zhao Wenxin is tolerant and considerate to her and takes good care of her two daughters, but she is strict with her daughters.
Peng Yu was preoccupied with her career, and her strict self-requirements made her achieve results quickly.
In 1964, Peng Yu participated in her first film "Don't Forget", and at the age of 30, she played an "old lady".
Her acting skills are superb, and the film is a great success, but it is just in time for that "turbulent" era, and everything is unknown.
Peng Yu was sent to the farm for transformation because of this "role", and even her husband was implicated.
Two young children can only be sent to their parents' homes, and this difference is more than ten years!
Returning to the Harbin Repertory Theatre again, Peng Yu is 43 years old and missed the golden decade of an actress.
It was not until 1977, when the drama "Harbin at Night" in which she participated was a great success, that Peng Yu began to become popular again.
I thought that life was getting better, who knew that her husband Zhao Wenxin suffered from cerebral hemorrhage in 1988 and was so sick that he was paralyzed in bed.
Peng Yu, who was thriving in his career, immediately decided to stop all the work in his hands and go home wholeheartedly to take care of his wife.
Everyone advised her to think twice, but Peng Yu told everyone categorically:
"What do I weigh, my husband is the only one I have, only if he lives this home is complete"
This care was eight years, and for eight years she did not let her daughter hire a nanny, and she did everything herself.
Every day, I get up early to buy vegetables and cook, turn over and wipe my body for my husband, and sing with my husband in my free time.
She wants to infect her bedridden husband with her optimism and strength, so that he can not only be taken care of physically, but also mentally happy.
One day in 1996, Zhao Wenxin still died, and Peng Yu was so sad that he couldn't help himself!
In particular, when she found that when her husband saved 40,000 yuan for her before she died, Peng Yu couldn't help but cry bitterly.
The daughters endured the pain of losing their father while comforting their out-of-control mothers.
03, two daughters inherit the mother's mantle, but love makes the mother heartbreak
At this time, both daughters have grown up and have become actors under the influence of their parents.
The eldest daughter, Zhao Lingqi, graduated from the Central Academy of Drama and is a national first-class actor who has played an important role in "The Gate of the Big House".
The second daughter, Zhao Jiaqi, also works in the Harbin Repertory Theatre and is both a mother and daughter and a colleague with her mother.
The sisters saw their mother's lost soul and despair, and together they persuaded their mother to follow them back to Beijing.
First, it is convenient to take care of, and second, it can also allow the mother to pick up her hobbies again.
In 2001, Peng Yu finally ushered in the spring of his career and played the role of "Aunt Niu" in "Northeast Family".
The sitcom quickly became popular across the country, and the 68-year-old Peng Yu also became a household actor.
After that, many "grandma", "mother" and "grandma" characters began to find Peng Yu,
She has affectionately interpreted different forms of maternal love in many film and television works.
In fact, Peng Yu in life is also a wise mother, and she has never interfered in small things and is not confused about the education of her daughters.
After the eldest daughter Zhao Lingqi got married, she treated her son-in-law as a son.
Even after the marriage of the eldest daughter broke down, Peng Yu still kept in touch with her son-in-law, and even took the initiative to invite her son-in-law and current wife to come to the house.
The second daughter, Zhao Jiaqi, looked young and beautiful when she was young, and she also entered the repertory theater early, but she did not expect to fall in love with the boy who set up a stall selling fruit at the entrance of the drama theater.
At first the mother didn't believe it at all, until she later saw her smiling daughter at the fruit stall.
Peng Yu did not disagree on the spot, but only said to the young man: "Now that she is still young, don't wait for her to understand and understand things in the future, and dump you." ”
The young man heard Peng Yu's unspoken meaning and assured him that he had no complaints or regrets and would be responsible for Jia Qi for the rest of his life.
Peng Yu did not stop it after listening, she felt that the material gap was not the most important, just love each other sincerely!
Her attitude towards life and work has deeply affected the children, and both daughters have grown into independent and strong.
The daughters are busy with their own family life and career, and sometimes peng Yu is the only one left in the family, and she can't help but miss her husband.
04, out of the trough, and "brother-in-law" into the twilight love
One day in 1999, Zhao Jiaqi's uncle came to Beijing on a business trip and stopped by to visit Peng Yu at home.
When Zhao Jiaqi saw her mother and uncle chatting together, she couldn't help but think of her father, if her father was still there, her mother wouldn't be so lonely.
Zhao Jiaqi had a bold idea in her heart, she secretly contacted the eldest sister and uncle's children, and everyone discussed whether they could match the two old people as a companion.
After that, Zhao Jiaqi told her mother the idea, and Peng Yu could not accept it at first, and Zhao Jiaqi told the truth that the other party's children also agreed.
Peng Yu was still hesitating, "Can the Professor of Surgery of Renjiatang look up to me?" ”
Zhao Jiaqi has called her uncle's mobile phone, and her uncle Chen Jiurong has expressed his willingness to live with Peng Yu.
The first time Peng Yu went to Chen Jiurong's house, he felt that his house was very large, more than one hundred and sixty square meters.
The two families sat down, and Teacher Peng Yu slowly opened his mouth and said to Chen Jiurong's children:
"Children rest assured, I only want your father as a person and will not ask for anything from your family."
In the next ten years of life, she really did it, all the pensions of her wife did not move, and the living expenses cost herself all-inclusive.
Teacher Peng Yu said: "Love, the love of life bit by bit, is not something that can be done in one day, and it will be seen in people's hearts over time." ”
She exchanged practical actions for a sincere love!
In 2001, the two elderly people received their licenses and officially became husband and wife.
Chen Jiurong was a famous brain surgery expert before retirement, and after marriage, he accompanied Peng Yu everywhere to shoot dramas without complaint or regret, and his two lonely hearts had to rely on.
His love for Teacher Peng Yu is all reflected in a small book.
The book records a lot of health knowledge, which Chen Jiurong copied by hand with one stroke and one stroke.
Turning to the first page, here's a message:
To my dear partner Peng Yu, health and longevity, open thinking, more contributions to the people,
The person who loves you the most, Chen Jiurong!
With the company of her lover, the elderly Peng Yu is more cheerful and optimistic, she learns to shop from the Internet, buy clothes and never go to the elderly clothing store, and even she uses Weibo to interact with fans.
She also often calls to care for Chen Jiurong's children, and even buys gifts for the children during the New Year's Festival, and Chen Jiurong's children also affectionately call her "Mother Peng".
The two old people in life are always inseparable, eating together, walking together, reading and playing cards together, and life is suddenly enriched.
At this time, some people said that Teacher Peng Yu made money to support his family by filming, but Chen Jiurong did not pay a penny, which did not sound like happiness.
Teacher Peng Yu said: "I have been mentally prepared before, two people together do not expect to get anything, get feelings, get love is enough."
Her cheerful and open-minded outlook on life and sober and romantic outlook on love are worth learning from young people!
05, the old age life is plain and happy
After marriage, under the care and companionship of his wife, Teacher Peng Yu's career went to a higher level.
She has starred in film and television works such as "Romantic Things", "Unreasonable Family Affairs", "Look at this family", "I married my mother together" and so on.
Her positive attitude towards life and work is worth learning from all young people.
In 2019, after the 85-year-old Peng Yu participated in the movie "Everything Like You", she gradually faded out of the screen, and now she lives with her younger daughter Zhao Jiaqi and the family, and has a deep relationship with her grandson Meng Asai.
Born in 1989, Meng Asai also studied acting, and has starred in film and television dramas such as "Snowy Eagle" and "Cool Daddy pretty mother", in the eyes of Grandma Peng Yu, her grandson is her pride!
January 14, 2022, is the 89th birthday of Teacher Peng Yu, and former friends and relatives at the birthday party have come to congratulate you.
Although the 89-year-old Peng Yu has gray hair, his spirit is very good, and his whole face is full of joy.
I wish her eternal health and happiness!