Raising children and preventing old age, this saying can no longer be established in the minds of most people.
Because raising a son may not necessarily prevent aging, on the contrary, it may become an old man. Because of this, for some people, it does not matter whether they have children or not, or even whether they have children or not.
But, without children, will there really be no regrets?
Look at the family affairs of Wang Yongqing, a wealthy businessman in Taiwan, I am afraid that after reading it, I will really sigh: life is desolate.
Wang Yongqing married three wives in his lifetime, Yang Jiao, the second room, gave birth to 5 children, and the third room Li Baozhu gave birth to 4.
But as the original Guo Yuelan (Wang Yuelan), he has nothing to do all his life, and he is alone until he dies.
Guo Yuelan was Wang Yongqing's adopted daughter-in-law, at that time, the Wang family was not so rich, according to the tradition of the times, it was very normal to raise a child bride for their children.
At least, no matter whether the family has money or not in the future, the son will not be unable to get a wife.
But Wang Yongqing's father, Wang Changgeng, did not expect that his son not only did a good job, but also had the ability to marry three wives at once, which was also a kind of comfort.
But because of this, Guo Yuelan suffered a lot of grievances in this marriage. Married for many years without childbearing, it was eventually concluded that it was infertile. For this reason, she was snubbed by Wang Yongqing.
Later, Wang Yongqing met his second wife Yang Jiao outside.
Yang Jiao is an ambitious and proud person, and after discovering the reality that Wang Yongqing has a wife, she resolutely refuses to marry him.
Wang Yongqing, as a businessman, is the most capable of moving his mouth, and he told Yang Jiao that as long as he marries himself, he will definitely divorce Guo Yuelan. Yang Jiao believed it to be true, and as a result, she married the past.
But at this time, Yang Jiao found that she was sloppy.
Wang Yongqing's father, a Christian, thinks divorce is a bad thing and does not let up at all. Moreover, Guo Yuelan grew up in the Wang family and has certain feelings with the Wang family's parents, and now that she is divorced, where do you let her go?
Under the opposition of his parents, Wang Yongqing had to postpone the divorce again and again.
Later, slowly Yang Jiao didn't care, after all, her children were born one after another, but Guo Yuelan couldn't give birth to any of them.
It can be said that Guo Yuelan watched her husband marry one after another, and there were a lot of flowers outside. But she could only watch, had no right to speak, and did not have the right to veto.
A person, pure heart and widowhood with the Buddhist hall for a lifetime, although Guo Yuelan is in the rich, but lived a clear life.
It was not until 2008, when Wang Yongqing died, that Guo Yuelan had an arrangement for her own posthumous affairs.
In this regard, Wang Wenyang Pingsu, the son of the crown prince, had the best relationship with Guo Yuelan, saying: "When my father passed away, my aunt specially explained that the funeral should be arranged according to the Christian model, in addition to the burial, it must also be buried with her husband. ”
Come to think of it, for Guo Yuelan, the only wish in her life is nothing more than that. Becoming the daughter-in-law of the Wang family from an early age, although she has no actual status in her life, her name must be kept.
In fact, Wang Yongqing died at that time, leaving behind 60 billion yuan of family property.
As the original match, as a big room, Guo Yuelan accompanied Wang Yongqing to suffer and also kept it for a lifetime, so she should take the big head.
This is just like Wang Wenyang said: after the death of his father Wang Yongqing, the big mother is the biggest parent and also a great woman, and after the death of the father, he left nearly NT$60 billion, half of which belonged to the big mother.
But the question is, Guo Yuelan has no children, no daughters, no relatives, what is the use of wanting so much wealth?
Naturally, as the biggest parent, she is expected to put her hopes on her adoptive children, such as her own aftermath.
To this end, Guo Yuelan really did this when she died, Wang Wenyang told the media: "The aunt is very relieved to give half of the 30 billion yuan to the second and third bedrooms, including all the children and grandchildren in the two rooms, all of which are allocated to gifts." ”
However, no one expected that after accepting Guo Yuelan's inheritance, there was a mistake on the issue of her burial: the second room agreed to bury guo Yuelan with Wang Yongqing according to Guo Yuelan's will, but the third room did not agree.
This matter was once in the news, after all, people showed all their sincerity and scattered all the family property. But taking people's money, but not doing things for others, this is a bit of a bullying feeling.
Wang Wenyang, on behalf of the second room, was obviously in opposition to the third room, and he insisted that Guo Yuelan be buried with his father.
His friend also said: "When Wang Yongqing was buried, he reserved space for Guo Yuelan's coffin, so that Guo Yuelan could be buried with him, so that the case of joint burial would not disturb Wang Yongqing." ”
However, the three rooms also have a saying that they did not come forward themselves, but invited the so-called Mr. Feng Shui to let him come to the joint burial or not.
As a result, Mr. Feng Shui said: Originally, Mr. Wang's tomb was designed as a single cave, and the joint burial was not suitable.
You see, this is embarrassing, one room said to be buried together according to the will, and the other room said that the joint burial would disturb Wang Yongqing, and it was not suitable for joint burial treatment.
If Guo Yuelan had a son and a half daughter, why was she bullied like this?
The people themselves are the bosses, and they have been guarding the Wang family in peace and security all their lives, so why not let the family be buried with their husbands?
The daughter of Li Baozhu of the third room said this when Guo Yuelan died: "It is sad, she (Guo Yuelan) is the father's yuan match, and everyone regards her as another mother." ”
But since she is a mother, why can't she be buried with her father? This is clearly an official perfunctory.
Although Wang Wenyang and Sanfang have obvious disputes over the right to speak, they have taken the right path: respecting Guo Yuelan's last wishes.
Wang Wenyang obviously wants to have three rooms and one army: Our two rooms have unanimously approved this matter, including Guo Yuelan's maternal relatives, since we are not opposed, why are the three rooms opposed? The time of the grandparents' death was also decades apart, and the father did not bury the grandmother and the grandfather together? This is the tradition of the Royal Family!
For this, the third room did not respond, but there was a saying inside Thermistal: Wang Yongqing's tomb was indeed a single cave, and there was no room for his ladies to be buried together. And the tombs of Wang Yongqing's parents are also two, one is buried first, and one is buried next to it after death. In this way, the outside is a whole tomb, but inside it is actually two tombs.
Giants are so unexpected, it is not easy to live, and it is difficult to die. There are so many sayings about wanting husband and wife to be buried together.
It seems that the reality that Guo Yuelan wants to be buried with her husband can only end in regret, but unfortunately, those riches were given away in vain.
If you had known that this was the result, I am afraid that Guo Yuelan would have to re-plan for his own narrative, even if there is no biological son, there are also people who speak for themselves after inheriting an adopted son, right?
However, it is not without reason that Sanfang did not agree to Guo Yuelan and Wang Yongqing's joint burial.
Because later it was pointed out that after Yang Jiao's death, the second room made an overall plan for the cemetery. As a result, the large room and the second room occupied the entire tomb of the Wang family.
In this way, it has become the reality that Wang Yongqing's large room and the second room are buried together, while the third room has nowhere to bury.
This can probably be seen that sanfang has her plan to hold the opinion of not opposing or agreeing.