Text: Brahman star heart language
Many friends feel that Scorpio is selfish.
The reason why Scorpios are easy to make such an impression is because they have a lot of brains, know how to fight for their own interests, and know how to make themselves suffer as few losses as possible.
Scorpio's two guardian stars, whether Pluto or Mars, are the opposites of "collective meaning."
Pluto is very far away, wandering on the edge of the solar system, it is lonely, unsociable, like the heart of Scorpio, always longing for a tranquility.
Of course, Scorpio is not as maverick as Aquarius, but their hearts are out of the world.
After talking about Pluto, let's look at Scorpio's other guardian star, Mars.
In astronomical observations, Mars is the first planet to orbit beyond earth's orbit. It can get where it wants to go, untethered.
Thus, Mars is independent, self-contained, and even self-centered.
Although Scorpio is a water sign, it has something in common with Aries in terms of "self", although the two constellations have different styles.
The self-centered person will ignore others and the collective, and naturally will be considered selfish.
Scorpio is not selfless, and even those who do not like to suffer losses will reject the concept of "selfless dedication".
Scorpio can distinguish between the light and the heavy, if you are someone Scorpio cares about and trusts, Scorpio will give everything for you.
Scorpio has a very valuable point, that is, they will mostly turn to their own people on the issue of right and wrong.
Even if one's own people are wrong, and Scorpio is well aware that they are wrong, they will help their own people get through the difficulties, not toward outsiders.
This is also one of the reasons why many people feel that Scorpio is selfish, because it is difficult for them to let outsiders succeed, but try to keep the benefits to themselves or those who are important to themselves.
Because of this, Xiao Fan believes that Scorpio is one of the most suitable constellations for marriage.
People who are too selfless and generous to outsiders may be a good person in the eyes of many people, but such people are not suitable for marriage and family, and are destined to let some resources and wealth that originally belong to their families flow to outsiders.
Although very "selfless", the family is very aggrieved.
After all, outsiders think that this kind of person is a good person, and if the family shows dissatisfaction with this kind of thing, not only will it not be sympathized with and understood, but it will also be considered selfish, small family temperament and so on.
It is precisely because most of the family members choose to swallow grievances, so more people cannot see the harshness and indifference of this "selfless and good person" to their families.
Scorpios are very responsible, they care about their families.
Scorpio is also very subordinate, although the sense of equality is a little worse, but they are very clear about who in life must not be disappointed.
This is also the wisdom of Scorpio, leaving the benefits to those who are important and treating their own people well.
People who are selfless to outsiders may have a good relationship on the surface, but if they lose those who are really good to themselves in life, it is a great sadness.
Perhaps, "selfish" Scorpios do not seek absolute equality in their treatment of people, but they know how to do it more fairly.
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