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The recent Winter Olympics have made the mothers who are busy visiting relatives and friends during the winter vacation and have to help chicken babies write homework collectively breathe a sigh of relief.
After all, if the child is always unwilling to write winter vacation homework, then he can immediately borrow a variety of positive energy role models.
At the Winter Olympics, there is no shortage of geniuses and hard-working heavenly prides, before there is the national idol Gu Ailing, and then there is the snow spinning teenager Su Yiming.
For example:
"Baby, today Mom allows you to watch TV, look, this brother who won the gold medal at the Winter Olympics, he is only 17 years old, has been skiing for 14 years, Oh, is it great!" It's all because he did his homework very seriously when he was a child! ”
This "encouragement" of the child can be combined into hundreds of copies, without heavy samples.
Moreover, their stories are also very useful to mothers.
For example, Su Yiming's mother, the concept of educating children is very impressive.
When he was 7 years old, Su Yiming skied on the snow field.
He was crushed by a super amateur and one or two hundred pounds uncle, fractured thigh, and could only be operated on.
Su Yiming's mother was very distressed about the child, but when the child just woke up, she said to him:
"You can't give up skiing because of an accidental injury. Not because I want you to achieve much on the slopes, but because I don't want you to have the idea and consciousness to back down. ”
Cultivating a child's character is far more important than doing anything.
And she is very clear that each child is born with different shining points, so she does not insist that the child be as good as others, but asks the child not to live up to himself.
Such parents have created truly excellent and independent children.
There is a movie called "FlyIng High with You", the English name is: fly away home.
The name of this original text is touching, entrusting you to take off and wishing you a happy flight, is the family.
01
parents
Amy, a 13-year-old girl, has a pair of artist parents.
Dad is as simple as a child, super hands-on ability, willing to do everything to achieve his dreams.
This can be seen in the outline of the story: the father and his daughter drive a glider together to escort 16 swans to migrate.
This is what a father like him can do.
He made his own refrigerator at home; made a big model of dinosaurs for the museum; drove gliders to himself; heard the sound of people outside the door who were destroying the environment driving bulldozers to push down the woods, and rushed out in his underwear to try to stop it.
How many fathers in the average family can be so fun, so good at playing, and willing to take their daughters to achieve their dreams and go "crazy".
How many people envy to have such a father who is truly romantic in his bones and has the soul of a poet.
To meet such a husband, Amy's mother is not bad.
She loves to travel and always takes her daughter to the world to open her eyes.
It's just that two people, a poet and a longing for a distant place, can be close friends, and can't live together.
When Amy was very young, her parents divorced, and the two artists could not accommodate each other.
Amy's mother dies in a car accident, and Amy leaves her familiar mother and begins to contact "Daddy", who was only a term before.
Later, Amy asked Dad: Why did you separate in the first place?
Dad said: "I didn't have any money, my ankle hurt, it was cold in the house, but I always thought about landing on the moon." But after you left, I regret it.
Later, my father became very warm, and he was inseparable from his original experiences, and he did not really lose his family, and he would not know how to cherish his family.
Many times, love, marriage, children, and everything in life are here to teach us to grow.
02
Be a mom
The wonderful thing is that Amy, a lonely girl at the age of 13, meets a nest of wild goose eggs that have also been left under a tree.
She was bored, so she held the mentality of trying it out, physically heated it at a constant temperature, and began to incubate the eggs.
Unexpectedly, she became a "mother" at once, and there were 16 geese waiting to be fed waiting for her care.
At this moment, Amy, who has always felt abandoned by the world, has regained her expectations for life because she is needed.
In this world, there are always people who need to be needed, and there are people who need to be needed.
Amy, who is a "mother" for the first time, is happy but busy.
The "expert" that Dad found for Amy wanted to cut off the wing tips of the geese so that they could be domesticated and would not fly far.
Amy was furious and locked herself and Goose in the bathroom and slept in the bathtub at night.
When she learned that the geese needed to fly south, Amy was very resistant at first, thinking that it would be good to let the geese stay in the warehouse.
However, once there is love, they want to make the other person better. She will start thinking about the geese and let them experience the fun of flying freely.
Then, when Dad decided to drive the gliding wing to take the geese to migrate, Amy was very active in cooperation, and even for better results, she bravely tried to drive the glider and practiced hard.
In the end, Amy and her father help the geese migrate successfully.
In the process, Amy understood more about what a mature and independent person looks like.
03
aggressive
When Amy first arrived, she was indifferent to her father.
Imagine you would have mood swings with an ant in the yard?
Most likely not because it doesn't matter in our lives.
As Dad said: I try to be nice to her, and I'm fierce to her, and she doesn't care because she doesn't want to stay here.
Fortunately, Dad understands that ninety percent of life's problems can be solved through time.
Just like between family members, as long as they stay together long enough, love can definitely be seen.
He had the patience to wait slowly.
The first opportunity to come is that Amy fell in the bathroom, the water heater broke, and she collapsed and cried.
Dad's girlfriend helped her release her first emotions, which is actually half the credit of Dad, because Dad always nags his daughter that he is reluctant to open his heart.
The second opportunity is that the father works very hard to help his daughter raise geese.
In order to solve the problem of the migration of geese, Dad is very cute to play the big goose, but the little geese ignore him, and the scene is too funny.
Frustrated, Amy tries to fly the glider herself, and an accident occurs.
The father thought that his daughter was in trouble and cried, and Amy hugged the father, which was the first time that the father and daughter were willing to accept each other's love.
Then dad sold his beloved lunar landing craft to his daughter to buy super-good gliders and teach Amy to drive.
She trusted her father more and more.
No matter what happens, always respond to everything with the most positive attitude.
Because, when something happens, using your wit and love to make it a meaningful, playful being is far more meaningful than complaining and hiding.
04
The most touching scene in the movie is that the family encourages Amy and helps Amy to complete the task of helping the geese migrate.
Home is a place where everyone can really do one thing together.
A lot of times we put the cart before the horse.
In fact, no matter what you want to do, you are not alone.
Sometimes to complete the family, but also to complete their own experience.