When it comes to being expelled from the school, the first thing that may come to mind is the students with bad character, which makes parents and teachers very headaches, and they will be expelled from the school and choose to make a living for themselves. As the saying goes, there are no rules and no squares, if you violate the school regulations for a long time and destroy public order, then you will face the consequences of being expelled, as a student, the character is the first.
A few days ago, the good news came from men's skating, and The northeast athlete Gao Tingyu walked into everyone's sight, he broke the Olympic record with a score of 34.32 seconds, won the gold medal, and also broke through his previous achievements, which not only made the Chinese people proud, but also showed the strength of athletes to the world.
In skating, the more advantageous are Russian athletes and domestic athletes, because the unique environmental conditions make it easier for them to fall in love with skating and create natural conditions in training. In the case of the northeast, if you pour some water in the winter, you may immediately freeze.
He was removed because of this incident
After the game, the reporters also set their sights on Gao Tingyu and interviewed him, and the untold story behind him also made us admire. Among them, there is such a thing, a reporter asked about Gao Tingyu Primary School, saying that he was removed from the school, what is going on?
Gao Tingyu politely answered the reporter and unveiled this little secret. Gao Tingyu is a native of Yichun, Northeast China, in the third grade, he fell in love with skating by chance, and his family and teachers were also very supportive, at that time he could only train in school, when the school training conditions were relatively simple, and children could only train on artificial tracks. But Gao Tingyu has not given up, or still insist on this love. Later, Gao Tingyu's mother, introduced by a friend, let the child visit the training environment in Harbin.
After that, the school actually demanded the expulsion of Gao Tingyu, the reason was that Gao Tingyu went out to train privately, which had a negative impact on the school and would also let other children follow suit, which was obviously far-fetched and very puzzling. Learning is important, but for students' hobbies, schools should pay more attention to it, the school will skating and other sports as extracurricular activities, practice time is limited, and the equipment is relatively backward, such an environment, how to let children better develop it?
Later, the family simply transferred the child to a professional sports school for formal training. After that, Gao Tingyu's talent was gradually excavated, and he received professional guidance and walked towards the national team step by step. Speaking of this, the reporter asked Gao Tingyu's views, and he said that he was still very grateful to the school, which was also a boost to his success.
Reflections on teaching and educating people
This matter may be laughed after reading it, but it reflects the problems behind education, and the level of education in Northeast China is also far ahead, and many universities are also key colleges. However, in this context, some schools will have xenophobic ideas, thinking that excellent students can only be used for me, not in line with student development. If the children achieve excellent results, the school can also publicize the students, but the opportunity is spent on other families.
True education is to let children fly higher, and in terms of resources, they also learn from each other, take their essence, remove their dross, and be more inclusive.
For example, athletes from many other countries will come to China to learn and learn from advanced technologies and methods, which will not only improve their skills for them, but also provide experience for domestic players. For example, the women's volleyball coach Lang Ping went to the United States as a coach, which also showed the confidence and style of the Chinese people, she unreservedly handed over the practice experience to the Players of the United States, and some tactics can also be borrowed by the country, and the competition is also a win-win situation.
Open growth environment
Gao Tingyu's parents and teachers are also very supportive of children, especially mothers, children like rollerblading at a very young age, Gao Tingyu's mother is also very understanding, in fact, she does not have any unique educational methods, just respect the child's own choices, in learning and hobbies at the same time, children as long as they like to do, usually will encourage children to move forward. Gao Tingyu is usually also very careful, and will notice every detail and buy a lot of intimate gifts for his mother.
Seeing this, the little friends may think that this is someone else's child again, in fact, a person's growth environment is very important. Some parents may tell their children that as long as they study well, others do not have to care, such ideas will just cause the child's dependence, all who can't make up their minds, only promises, when expressing their ideas, if they encounter opposition, they will be hit, lose confidence, such education will bind children.
Parents are the child's first teacher, their words and deeds affect the child all the time, and will have a subtle impact inadvertently, so they must set a good example. At the same time, pay more attention to the psychology of children, after all, their minds are still very simple, sometimes a warm word will play a role in encouraging, more understanding, less accusation, more concern, less indifference, they may become more and more excellent.