The Winter Olympics have been successfully concluded, but there is a woman who has re-entered everyone's vision during this period, and the limelight is even closer to Gu Ailing, who won two gold and one silver on the field, which is the "nagging commentator" Wang Meng.
In Wang Meng's words and deeds during the explanation, I saw a misunderstanding of raising a baby: if you want your child to be truly popular, don't let your child be too "real" and "sincere".
I believe that there are friends who have not paid attention to the Winter Olympics, and have also seen Wang Meng's famous scene in other places, when there are players who foul, the game is not over, the referee's report has not come out, Wang Meng first shouted out the other party foul.
It didn't take long for the referee team to actually declare the other side foul, and we advanced.
What I remember is especially deeply the final of the short track speed skating men's and women's 2000m mixed relay, Wang Meng roared: "Dajing! No problem, sprint! My eyes are rulers, and I tell you you'll win! ”
A fierce explanation, directly let Huang Jianxiang into a "praise", Huang Jianxiang said that he needed to look at the replay to determine the result, Wang Meng replied: "Do you not believe me? ”
As a result, as everyone had hoped, Wang Meng's words came true.
After learning about Wang Meng's experience, I found that her personality is really straightforward, not the effect of the program in front of the screen. In this world, there are too few people who can always maintain their true disposition, and Wang Meng did not expect that his own interpretation of the Olympic Games could also be fire.
And her story also made me understand that as a parent, we must cultivate children to adapt to society and maintain their own relationships.
Three popular indicators
Talent, physical attractiveness, sincerity, and are called the three essential elements of interpersonal relationships, we all want our children to be liked by others on the outside, and we always focus only on talent and appearance, but ignore sincerity.
What is sincerity? It is to be true to one's own heart and show what one feels and thinks to the world.
I have seen all this in Wang Meng's body, she will not be deliberately modest, nor will she care about the face of others, she feels unfair, and the angry expression will hang on her face.
This also made me reflect on whether my family education for my children has reserved the space for children to express themselves. Am I only concerned with teaching my children how to be "decent", but ignoring the opportunity for children to express their hearts?
Does sincerity offend people?
I believe that everyone will have a question in their hearts when they see here, will too "sincere" offend others?
Remember when Wang Meng explained the women's 500m group stage, the first place achieved a time of 43.472 seconds, and when the whole audience was applauding, Wang Meng said: "This speed is not fast." ”
Is this a sign of immodesty, inability to speak?
But thinking about it, according to Wang Meng's previous results, this result was indeed not as fast as hers, and she just sincerely said the truth.
Therefore, do not be afraid that your "sincerity" will hurt others, but you need to distinguish, "sincerity" is not a double standard, to see if your ability can be worthy of your own evaluation.
For children, parents should allow children to express their inner thoughts, but also use skills to help children see things in multiple dimensions.
"He's a loser!"
"Why?"
"Because he played for our class and lost."
"Is he great?" Who are you better than him? ”
"Of course it's him, he's elected by us."
"Yes, since you are not as good as him in this regard, but you use the standards you can't do to ask others, this is not sincere, this is harsh." 」
Parents accept the child's true inner thoughts, but also help the child see other aspects of judging others.