In 2007, after leaving a 10,000-word suicide note, a father jumped into the river and committed suicide for the rest of his life, just so that Andy Lau could meet with his daughter Yang Lijuan.
Before that, she did not hesitate to borrow usurious loans, sell houses, sell kidneys, and support her daughter to chase stars.
Yang Lijuan's crazy behavior sensationalized the whole country and left a psychological shadow on Andy Lau.
After 13 years of shattering her dreams, what choices should she make, and what kind of life is she living now?
In 1979, Yang Lijuan was born in an ordinary family in Agan Town, Gansu Province, where her father, Yang Qinji, was a middle school teacher.
When Yang Lijuan was born, her father Yang Qinji was more than forty years old, and he loved Yang Lijuan very much when he was old, and he would try to satisfy whatever she wanted.
Although Yang Lijuan grew up in the doting of her parents, the feelings between her parents were not strong.
When Yang Lijuan's father Yang Qinji and her mother Tao Juying met, she was only a temporary worker responsible for painting the walls of the school.
At that time, Tao Juying was only 23 years old, young and beautiful, and practical and capable.
The 37-year-old Yang Qinji took a fancy to her at a glance and automatically came forward to talk to her.
Tao Juying's family is not rich, her father is a coal worker, and her meager income is difficult to support the living expenses of a family of 6.
In contrast, Yang Qinji is a teacher, with a stable job and a low income, and after careful consideration, Tao Juying reluctantly agreed to Yang Qinji's pursuit.
The 14-year-old age difference between the two makes them look like a couple at all, and they are often treated as father and daughter when they walk on the street, which makes Tao Juying very uncomfortable.
Tao Juying has always looked down on her husband in her heart, but she is not rich, it is difficult for her to find a good family, and she can only obediently admit her fate.
Tao Juying said that her husband was old and she didn't look up to him, and it seemed that this was the only way to save him a little face.
However, what Tao Juying did not know was that the Yang Qinji family also had a terrifying past.
According to rumors, Yang Qinji's younger brother once made a very good girlfriend and was ready to marry her into the family.
During the meal, the younger brother mentioned this matter to his mother, who did not support him, but asked him to give his girlfriend to his brother Yang Qinji.
"You see how old your eldest brother is, and he doesn't have a daughter-in-law, so you just give up your girlfriend to him."
After the girlfriend found out and broke up with him, Yang Qinji's brother was devastated and insane.
The unconscious brother raised his knife and slashed at his mother like a madman, ending her life.
The younger brother was arrested and diagnosed with mental illness shortly thereafter.
The horrific incident quickly spread locally, and since then there have been rumors that the Yang family has a "history of mental illness.".
But Yang Qinji did not tell Tao Juying about this.
The birth of her daughter Yang Lijuan has brought new vitality to the family, and Tao Juying no longer dislikes her husband, but cares for her daughter with him.
When she was a child, Yang Lijuan was brilliant, and her academic performance has always been the first place in the class, and her parents are proud of it.
But under the doting of her parents, Yang Lijuan was pampered and arrogant, becoming more and more ruthless and willful, and few people in school were willing to play with her.
Yang Lijuan has excellent grades, and her homework is completed quickly and well, although her classmates do not like her personality, they often please her and borrow her homework to copy.
After returning home, Yang Lijuan complained to her parents that her classmates "used" her, usually ignored her love and answered, and smiled and squinted when borrowing homework.
At that time, Yang Lijuan, who was only in the second year of junior high school, had the idea of withdrawing from school in her heart, and at the beginning her parents did not agree and insisted that she go to school.
Yang Lijuan did not give up, begged her parents for half a year, and exaggerated her suffering at school to her parents.
Yang Qinji, who was soft-hearted, was reluctant to let her daughter suffer hardships, and actually agreed to let her withdraw from school, and personally handled the withdrawal procedures for her.
Yang Lijuan grew up in the love of her parents day by day, until she was 16 years old, a bizarre dream completely changed her life and changed the fate of the family.
One night, she dreamed of a painting with a handsome man's face, and on both sides of the painting was written: "You are particularly close to me, and you and I have a true encounter." ”
The dream is very real, Yang Lijuan woke up and couldn't help but share this dream with her father, her father only regarded this as a young girl Sichun, did not care too much,
Seeing that his daughter was so excited, he also deliberately teased her: "So coincidentally, I also dreamed." ”
Unexpectedly, Yang Lijuan took it seriously, believing that this was a hint to herself in the clear.
The strange thing is that since then, Yang Lijuan often dreams of this handsome man,
They laughed and played together, like a bunch of sweet couples, and Yang Lijuan was intoxicated.
In 1992, Andy Lau, Li Ming, Aaron Kwok and Jacky Cheung became the four kings of heaven, which suddenly swept the world and became the idols sought after by thousands of young girls.
By chance, Yang Lijuan saw Andy Lau's poster, was attracted by his appearance, and decided that he was the handsome man in her dream.
After that, Yang Lijuan was madly infatuated with Andy Lau, and pasted Andy Lau's posters all over the room, and each of his songs was familiar to her.
She also bought a lot of Andy Lau's albums and treasured them like treasures.
At that time, there were too many people who were infatuated with Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan was just one of tens of millions of people, she was different from other star-chasing people, she firmly believed that Andy Lau would fall in love with herself and take herself as her wife.
Gradually, Yang Lijuan is no longer satisfied with the poster, she wants to meet Wither Lau and tell him what she likes.
If you change someone else, such an idea is bound to be opposed by your parents.
But Yang Lijuan's father was obedient to her and pampered her, until Yang Lijuan was 20 years old, he was still helping her take a bath.
This is something that ordinary people cannot understand, and the lack of yang Lijuan's home is a small matter that is taken for granted.
When Yang Yunjuan proposed to go to Hong Kong to meet Andy Lau, her father did not object, and even retired early, wholeheartedly accompanying her to chase the stars.
Yang Lijuan said to her parents: "I can't see Andy Lau, I will never marry in my life." ”
In order to satisfy Yang Yunjuan's obsession, his father took out all the family's savings of 9900 yuan, and the family signed up for a tour group to Hong Kong.
However, after Yang Lijuan arrived in Hong Kong, she did not see Andy Lau as she wished, only saw the empty concert venue and a few scattered posters.
Yang Lijuan's family returned disappointed, and the savings saved for many years were thus adrift.
This time the failure experience not only did not make Yang Lijuan give up, but made her have a stronger desire to meet Andy Lau no matter what.
After that, Yang Lijuan began to pay attention to Andy Lau's itinerary, and she would follow almost every place Andy Lau went, just to see Andy Lau.
The star-chasing plane, the hotel are not a small expense, and the family's savings are quickly squandered.
In order to let his daughter continue to chase the stars, Yang Qinji even borrowed money from relatives, borrowed money from banks, and even applied for usury.
After being laid off, Yang Qinji had no salary and lived on a meager pension, Yang Lijuan's crazy star chasing was like a bottomless pit, and no amount of money could be filled.
In 2003, in order to repay the money owed and support his daughter to continue to chase stars, Yang Qinji sold the house and the family moved into a rental house with a monthly rent of 400 yuan.
In 2004, Andy Lau went to Gansu to shoot a play, and Yang Lijuan was very happy, thinking that this was the opportunity for her and Andy Lau to meet.
Yang Lijuan stood on the roof every day and looked down, waiting for the figure of Andy Lau to appear in the crowd, expecting him to come to herself, just like in her dream.
But Yang Lijuan looked through the autumn water, until Andy Lau's crew left Gansu, and could not see his shadow.
In 2005, a Hong Kong media exposed Andy Lau's address, and the news lagged behind, and Yang Lijuan immediately took her father to go and crouched around the house.
Yang Lijuan and her father squatted for a long time until the visa expired, but they still could not wait for Andy Lau to appear.
At that time, they did not know that there was still a big bad news waiting for them at home.
On the way to Hong Kong by Yang Lijuan and Yang Qinji, Yang Lijuan's mother forgot to turn off the gas when cooking, resulting in gas poisoning, but fortunately, she saved her life in time for rescue.
Soon after, she was accidentally hit in the leg by a heavy object, leaving her legs disabled and relying on crutches to live.
With little money left to buy a house and a lot of money spent on treatment, it was even more difficult for the already poor family.
But the pampered Yang Lijuan did not understand the situation at home at all, and still clamored to see Andy Lau.
Yang Qinji is very helpless, while taking care of his disabled wife, he also wants to support his daughter's dream of chasing stars.
But the family could not come up with half a cent of savings, and he was forced to think of selling his kidneys, even if he was old at the time, I was afraid that his life would be in danger.
Yang Lijuan was not surprised after hearing this, but calmly replied: "Selling kidneys is too dangerous, or take a loan." ”
For her father's efforts, Yang Lijuan already feels taken for granted, does not know what to owe, and does not know how to be grateful.
Not long after, Yang Lijuan and her father's absurd behavior was discovered by the media, and they reported on the matter, which soon aroused heated discussion in public opinion.
Netizens have condemned Yang Lijuan, desperate to chase stars, even at the expense of her father's health.
With the continuous fermentation of public opinion, Yang Lijuan's father sold kidneys to support her star chasing, which caused a huge sensation in the country.
All kinds of media have flocked to Yang Lijuan's doorstep, hoping that the interviews will be exclusive and attract the attention of the public.
Tang Lijuan's family is not opposed to this, and they hope to be able to use the pressure of public opinion to let Andy Lau see Yang Lijuan.
In the overwhelming news, Yang Lijuan let Andy Lau know her as she wished, but at this time, his heart was not like, but fear.
Soon after, Andy Lau's studio issued a statement: Fans are discouraged from chasing stars so wildly.
Yang Lijuan is still unwilling, she feels that as long as Andy Lau sees herself, she will definitely change her mind and come to her with affection like in her dream.
In 2007, a media outlet approached Ms. Yang and agreed to help her meet with Andy Lau.
On March 25, Yang Lijuan landed in Hong Kong again with the help of the media and met the "dream lover" she had been pursuing for 13 years.
On the stage of the meeting, Yang Lijuan looked at Andy Lau obsessively, looking forward to wiping out the spark of love.
Andy Lau just took a photo with her like a normal fan.
When Yang Lijuan eased up, she had been squeezed aside by a crowd of fans, and Andy Lau also left him.
Although I met Andy Lau, the time for the two to meet was only a short 10 seconds, which was not enough for Yang Lijuan to tell her love.
Yang Lijuan was remorseful and once again made a fuss to her father to see Andy Lau again, and to make her love for him clear.
In order to meet his daughter's wishes, Yang Qinji used the media to shout to Andy Lau to let him see his daughter again.
He thought that the last time was not a meeting, and hoped that the two people could sit face to face and have a good talk.
There is no doubt that Andy Lau refused his request.
The next day, tragedy struck.
Because he could not get a response from Andy Lau, Yang Qinji jumped into the river and committed suicide, and before he died, he left a 10,000-word suicide note at a convenience store, full of accusations against Andy Lau.
"Andy Lau, you are too selfish, you have failed my daughter's 13 years of youth."
Yang Qinji believes that Andy Lau's opportunity to meet his daughter is too short, and many give her a little time to talk about the things in his dreams, he will fall in love with his daughter, and her daughter's efforts over the years will be rewarded.
However, Andy Lau refused his request, and their family's 13 years of efforts were in vain.
He hoped that his death would make Andy Lau "wake up" and promise to meet his daughter.
In an instant, Yang Qinji's suicide note appeared in the newspaper, causing an uproar in public opinion, and Andy Lau was also pushed to the cusp of the storm.
After Yang Qinji committed suicide, singer Yang Chengang donated 20,000 yuan to Yang Lijuan to bury his father.
I thought that I had paid such a big price, Yang Lijuan had given up and was ready to calm things down.
But in an interview, she still firmly stated that her father's wish before his death was to let himself see Andy Lau again, otherwise he would not be blinded.
Yang Lijuan's mother also supported her daughter: "Husbands can't die in vain. ”
The mother-daughter duo's actions have once again become the focus of the media, and the incident continues to heat up.
For a time, Andy Lau was pushed to the cusp of the storm, which had a huge impact on his career.
Some people think that Andy Lau should see Liu Lijuan, and even regard him as the "culprit" who killed Yang's father.
Some people also supportEdu Lau not to see Yang Lijuan, which cannot promote this crazy star-chasing behavior.
For Andy Lau, this was simply a senseless disaster, which he could not accept for a while.
In the silent time of Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan and her mother came to the villa area where Andy Lau was located again.
Because they do not know the specific house number of Andy Lau, they can only knock on the door one by one and check house by house.
But until they searched the entire villa area, they could not find Andy Lau's residence.
During this time, the mother with limited mobility even almost collided with a motorhome and was frightened.
Instead of comforting her mother, Yang Lijuan gambled because she did not find Andy Lau and left her disabled mother alone.
In the end, with the help of the police, Yang Lijuan and her mother resolved the conflict.
Two days later, Andy Lau held a press conference and made it clear: "I will never see Yang Lijuan again in my life." ”
Andy Lau's words gave Yang Lijuan a blow, her father died, no one gave her money to chase stars for free, and her dreams for many years were shattered.
Yang Lijuan, who stopped, was finally willing to look back at her family, her father died, her mother was disabled, her money was squandered, and her originally warm family became full of holes.
Yang Lijuan became angry and blamed All the reasons on Andy Lau, accusing Andy Lau of ruining her life.
In 2008, Yang Lijuan took Andy Lau to court, demanding that he compensate 1 million yuan for mental damages.
This act of hers was tantamount to a beam-jumping clown, and the result was beyond doubt, and she eventually lost the case.
Desperate, Yang Lijuan could only return to her hometown with her mother, and finally woke up after 13 years of dreaming.
But what she didn't know was that Andy Lau secretly helped her to give her father Yang Qinji a loan shark.
After returning to a peaceful life, Yang Lijuan understood her father's love for him.
She began to learn to work to earn money and share the pressures of life for her mother.
The next time I saw Yang Lijuan on the screen was in 2014, on the stage of "Oriental Live Room",
On the stage, there is another crazy fan of Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan used her own experience to persuade her after debuting.
Talking about those past events, Yang Lijuan expressed great regret that her ignorance made her lose her loved one.
Today, Yang Lijuan works as a shopping guide in a supermarket, earning 2,000 yuan per month.
Although the salary is not high, it is enough for her and her mother's living expenses, and she is satisfied with this.
She and her mother live in a low-cost rental house with an annual rent of less than 1,000 yuan, the floor is mottled cement, and there is no decent furniture except for beds, sofas, and cabinets.
Today, Yang Lijuan is still alone, and the only thing she wants to do is to take care of her mother and live well.
Yang Lijuan's unrealistic fantasy, Yang Father Yang Mother's unrestrained doting makes this family into the drama too deeply,
They spent 13 years weaving a beautiful dream, and finally ended up with only the destruction of their families.
When the people who loved her left and the burden of life fell on her shoulders, Yang Lijuan woke up and realized that those mistakes could only be paid for by her.