Recently, netizens in Jinzhou, Liaoning Province, shared an interesting video. In the video, after a little cute baby got angry, she reached out and hit her grandmother. However, what is unexpected is that Grandma did not get used to him, but with a serious face, she grabbed the baby's small hand and beat him back with a disciplinary response. At first, the baby was still unconvinced, and continued to beat grandma several times.
However, after the baby did not hit it, grandma would hit it back as before. After coming and going several times, the baby saw that he was obviously not an opponent, and he hesitated and did not dare to continue to fight. When Dad saw it, he asked him if he was still playing? The baby subconsciously shook his head, and peeked at his grandmother again, looking like he really didn't dare to fight again.
Netizens are also hotly discussed about this:
"Habits are like killing children, the old man's approach is correct, and if the child does not correct it in time, it will hurt him."
"Children must not be accustomed to it before the age of five, if they are not well educated at this time, it will be difficult to re-educate after the age of five."
"Intentionally or unintentionally promote children's bad diseases, no matter who they are, they do not love children, they do not pay attention to cultivation when they are young, and it is difficult to change when they grow up."
In fact, this grandmother's behavior, as long as it is a clear-eyed person can see it, is absolutely correct education, there is no doubt about it. Even if the child's wrong behavior will only bring more bad consequences, it is needless to say. I think the most revealing thing about this video is that it tells many parents that sometimes children are not ignorant, but adults do not understand.
Many parents of bear children always use the excuse that their children are small and ignorant, and indulge them to make mistakes. But take a closer look at the children in this video, the words are unfavorable, the truth that should be understood, a teaching will be. So, is it really a child who doesn't understand things?
What do you think?