Shakespeare once said, "A sloppy marriage is less than a happy marriage." ”
This sentence is somewhat controversial, because he is completely from the perspective of Westerners, looking at the current situation of the whole group.
However, if it is placed in modern society, the concept of marriage between the East and the West is gradually converging, and looking at most marriages in recent years, it will be found that it is not a sloppy marriage that is less happy, but that once the marriage is sloppy, it will lack happiness.
For example, today I want to tell the story of Shen Junyi, who first established a business and then started a family, and after his lover became a sister-in-law, only his daughter was left to accompany him in the year of Hua Jia
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > Shen Junyi</h1>
Perhaps the figure of this old gentleman is no longer common in today's entertainment industry, but for most of the post-90s and post-00s, his face has long been deeply rooted in people's hearts. Worthy of the name of the old drama bone, it is enough to show that Shen Junyi is quite famous in his acting career. But emotionally, he seems to be a little unsmooth, even a little out of place.
When he started a family, he was destined to be at a disadvantage in marriage, and after starting a family, he missed it for various reasons, so his feelings were destined not to be smooth.
The rough face, the fierce facial features, and a pair of wolf-like eyes add a bit of fearful uneasiness to this face, which is Shen Junyi. However, as an actor, Shen Junyi was just an ordinary dragon runner at the beginning. Most people's impressions of his fierceness come from the images he created on the screen in the future, and those images are inevitably related to his origin.
He is not a natural actor,or to put it this way, Shen Junyi's origin is a world of difference from his future work. He was born in a family of cadres, his father was a soldier, such a family environment grew up, the young Shen Junyi is also destined to be inseparable from the word "jun", and sure enough, in 1975, only 18 years old Shen Junyi joined the army and became a sports soldier, and this army life also laid a very good foundation for his future image on the screen.
In 1984, Shen Junyi, who was still a subway signal worker, was favored by a producer and invited him to play the role of a criminal police officer in a TV series, and his excellent image and natural acting skills made Shen Junyi embark on the road of actor. Because of his own image reasons, most of Shen Junyi's roles are not the kind of cream boys, and in the era of not liking tough guy aesthetics, his play path is really a bit narrow.
The roles of generals, bandits, killers, policemen, and scheming courtiers are the most common roles in the film and television dramas in which Shen Junyi participates. But smooth sailing at work does not mean happiness in life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="49" > start a family</h1>
In 1986, Shen Junyi got married, and the object of marriage was an actress who also came from the show business circle - Jenny. Zhan Yanni and Shen Junyi's feelings are very deep, at least when they first got married. When he got married, Shen Junyi entered the industry not long ago, but he already had several works to lean over, and he was also a small actor.
After marriage, the two were very sweet for a while, but in 1987, Shen Junyi, who had been in the industry for only 3 years, starred in the most well-known role in his life and enough to make him a hit - drill mountain leopard. "Wulong Mountain Bandits" is a quite outstanding and famous TV series. Shen Junyi's Diamond Mountain Leopard also won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actor award for him in one fell swoop, even in today's entertainment industry, the popularity is just that.
Shen Junyi, who was famous, decided to focus all his energy on his career, which was inevitable, neglecting his wife and neglecting his family.
Three years after the two were married, they had a daughter to apply for the Olympic Games, but Shen Junyi was too busy to spend time with his wife and daughter. A woman can still bear the busyness of her husband, but a family cannot accept a house without a man, so even if Shen Junyi gives the family a rich life and abundant financial resources, the separation of the two is still so natural.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="51" > Shen Junyi's marriage choice</h1>
Shen Junyi is, to a certain extent, a labor-like existence in the entertainment industry. Although he has acted in many dramas, there are very few protagonists, which prompts him to shoot one film after another every year, and each one does not take up much time. After divorcing his wife, Shen Junyi once again ushered in his own spring, he and Jiani came together, and the two lived together for eight years. It's really like an ordinary couple, but it's not much like an ordinary couple, because they have no name.
Perhaps it is really as Shen Junyi said, he has always felt guilty about not spending time with his daughter when he was a child. In the face of Jani's repeated questioning, he often prevaricated, but how could Jani have been waiting to be his nominal wife. Shen Junyi is Jani's first love, and after being with Shen Junyi, she was deeply influenced by gossip, but she still stayed with him wholeheartedly, and even gave up her work and socializing.
Day after day, year after year of waiting made her spend the best 8 years of her youth, and she didn't want to wait. At this moment, Shen Junyi's friend, Xie Xiaoxin, suddenly began to pursue her at this time. Perhaps a gamble, or a disappointment, Jani married the outsider and soon gave birth to their son. Just two relationships, Jani seems to have experienced wind and rain.
Shen Junyi, who has experienced two relationships, is 43 years old after breaking up with Jiani, and he doesn't seem to want to open a new relationship except for filming. Although her daughter was taken away to live with her mother after divorcing her ex-wife, Shen Junyi still has a deep responsibility and love for the Olympic bid.
Although the Olympic bid has been resentful for a long time, the Olympic bid has also entered the entertainment circle after growing up, perhaps understanding the father's difficulty, the father and daughter seem to gradually eliminate the previous estrangement, often appearing together in a group photo.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="52" > conclusion</h1>
For many of the past events in the entertainment industry that shock people's jaws, Shen Junyi's story is not prominent, not to mention, the image created by the old artist on the screen has long covered up the unsmooth of his life. It's just that Shen Junyi, who has now passed the age of Hua Jia, is alone, and I don't know what he thinks about him in the past?
Any relationship needs to be managed, especially marriage, and it is obvious that Shen Junyi is not managing well. So he is "out of date", perhaps because of coincidence, or perhaps because it is inevitable, at a certain stage, he did not fulfill a certain obligation that should be fulfilled well, which is undoubtedly the greatest regret.