Peng Yu is a famous actress in mainland China, who debuted in 1964 with the movie "Don't Forget", and played the role of an old lady at the age of 29.
If you don't have good enough acting skills, you can't act that effect.
It is enough to see that Peng Yu, when he was young, already had solid acting skills.
What's more, she has been in the acting industry for nearly 60 years and has long become an old drama bone.
"Don't Forget" is based on Cong Shen's drama of the same name, which was a far-reaching film for the film industry at that time.
Not only was it published in major newspapers, but when he performed in Beijing, the actor Peng Yu was also received by Premier Zhou.
The 29-year-old Peng Yu has only been recognized by people, and his father said:
"My girl is very honorable"
In fact, when Peng Yu wanted to engage in the actor industry in the early days, he was looked down upon and said by his father that it was "humiliating".
Therefore, when pursuing your ideals, no matter what obstacles you encounter in the middle of the way, no matter how many people look down on you, don't give up, and prove yourself with strength is the most important.
Peng Yu is such an excellent and hard-working person.
However, her marriage is often mentioned, married to her first love at the age of 19, and then Peng Yu died of illness when she was 61 years old, and Peng Yu married her brother-in-law of her deceased husband 6 years later.
In a sense, at that time, they were more or less related to each other, so at that time, Peng Yu also suffered a lot of opposition.
So what did Peng Yu go through and why did he make such a decision?
After marrying her "brother-in-law", how is Peng Yu's living situation now?
01
In the spring of 1934, an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, heard a cry.
It was a daughter, her eyes were not very big, but they were as bright as jade, and her parents named her Peng Yu.
At that time, the family could not watch TV, and Peng Yu's father was a railway worker, and he had nothing to do with art.
However, Peng Yu, who grew up in such an environment, became interested in singing and dancing.
If it were not for the limitations of the background of the times, Peng Yu might have become famous earlier.
When he was in school, Peng Yu could always serve as a literary and artistic committee member in the class, and it was often a matter of organizing students to participate in debriefing performances.
But in that conservative era, the actor's job of often showing his face outside would be looked down upon.
So although Peng Yu likes to sing, dance and perform, his parents have always been against it.
Once, when Peng Yu was secretly dancing in the park, he happened to be bumped into by his father, but he didn't say a word.
At that time, Peng Yu did not know that such behavior would cause his father to be dissatisfied, and when he returned home, his father coldly said four words to him:
"Shame on you"
In order to prevent Peng Yu from engaging in the actor industry in the future, his father gave him a way.
In the future, I will enter a normal school, because the profession of teacher has always been respected and has a stable income.
Therefore, under the advice of his father, Peng Yu was later admitted to Harbin Normal College and successfully became a teacher after graduation.
At that time, she was respected and her parents were satisfied, but she did not want to stop there.
It can be seen that when he was young, Peng Yu had a strength not to accept defeat, even if this strength was contrary to his parents.
In order to be able to do what he likes in the future, Peng Yu secretly signed up for the teachers' literary troupe.
Occasionally, he will go to the performance with the troupe, not only can he grow insight, but also hone his acting skills and courage.
At the age of 17, fate took a turn.
At that time, an amateur literary troupe was filming the drama "How Steel is Made", and Peng Yu, who had experience in acting, was selected as a marginal figure.
Although it is a small role, she is unambiguous and takes the role very seriously.
It is this serious energy, as well as the unique talent for performance, that is favored and recruited by the professional literary troupe.
I thought that my parents would be furious after they knew about this matter, but who knew that they were silently supporting Peng Yu behind their backs, and their daughter liked it so much, how could they obstruct it in every way.
Not only did she not object, but she was often asked if she had enough money to spend over there.
For the sake of his own ideals, and in order to be worthy of his parents, Peng Yu also decided to make some achievements for them to see.
After entering the professional literary troupe, Peng Yu got up early every day, studied seriously, and often read some books on psychology to figure out the heart of the character.
At that time, Peng Yuming had bright eyes and teeth, a generous and beautiful appearance, and became the goddess of many male colleagues in the school.
When she was 19 years old, the theater organized them to go to the movies, and a male colleague sat next to her.
At the end of the movie, the male colleague opened Peng Yu's hand, handed her a roll of sugar, and asked her if she wanted to eat it.
Perhaps in those days, this was the equivalent of a confession.
To ask is to agree, not to be rejected.
The male colleague finally said:
"Waiting for your reply in three days"
After saying that, he turned and left.
Peng Yu was also stunned at that time, although the love at that time was very simple, but because of a roll of sugar, this kind of thing was fixed for life, and it actually fell on his head.
Looking at the sugar in his hand, Peng Yu did not have the good sense to refuse.
Later, Peng Yu still agreed to him, and the male colleague was named Zhao Wenxin, who was her colleague at the Harbin Drama Theatre.
Less than a year after falling in love, the two held hands and entered the palace of marriage.
After marriage, she gave birth to two daughters, the eldest daughter was named Zhao Lingqi, and the second daughter was named Zhao Jiaqi.
The two daughters later entered the entertainment circle under the influence of their parents.
However, to say that the influence of her daughter on the biggest Peng Yu is her second controversial marriage.
02
Getting married at the age of 19 is not too early for Peng Yu.
At that age, although neither husband nor wife became famous, the income was not high.
But they didn't get by it badly, but they were sweet.
In the first ten years of marriage, they all had a very uneventful life.
It was not until 1964 that the 29-year-old Peng Yu finally ushered in another turning point in his life.
At that time, Xie Tieli was directing a film "Don't Forget", and sent An invitation to Peng Yu to participate in the role of an old lady.
Playing an old lady at the age of 29 is a big challenge for Peng Yu.
But art comes from life, and if you want to play a role well, you must find inspiration from life.
After taking over this role, Peng Yu thought of her mother-in-law, who was exactly the same age as this role.
Therefore, Peng Yu carefully observed her mother-in-law's actions every day, as well as the look in her eyes, and so on.
After reading it, she followed the study, and with the encouragement of her husband, she learned more and more likely, whether it was walking posture or expression movements, she learned to look like it.
When Peng Yu treats the profession of actor, he is very dedicated, not only to others to feel good, but also to be satisfied with himself.
After studying for a while, Peng Yu had the confidence to participate in Xie Tieli's "Don't Forget".
Sure enough, Peng Yu really played the role of an old lady at the age of 29.
It was also in this year that Peng Yu was received by Premier Zhou when he entered Beijing to perform.
What she promised at the time has finally come true.
She was recognized by the people and became an honor in the eyes of her father.
Just when Peng Yu thought that his career was about to reach its peak, he suffered unequal treatment one after another.
Peng Yu and her husband were sent to the countryside because of their status as actors, and their two daughters also lived a difficult life.
When Peng Yu returned to the actor industry, it was the period when the drama was thriving, and Peng Yu was on the stage.
The husband was sick and had to lie in a hospital bed.
In order to be able to take care of her sick husband, Peng Yu did not participate in a film and television drama or even a drama in those years.
Whoever sent her the invitation, she refused.
Peng Yu is a person who attaches great importance to feelings, especially when looking at his relatives, no matter how busy he is at work, he values his family.
It can only be said that the talent is not timely, if these things had not happened at that time, perhaps with Peng Yu's strength, he would have been able to stand at the peak of his career long ago.
But she did not forget the help and support of her husband in the early years.
Now that her husband is sick, how can she stand by and stand by, Peng Yu does not want to lose her husband than to lose the opportunity to become famous.
In this way, Peng Yu took care of her husband lying on the hospital bed for 8 years.
She often enlightened her husband, hoping that he would not be sad because of illness, so she sang to him, danced, and bought him new clothes.
Wear even better clothes than they did before getting sick.
"I am a very traditional person, I think that love should not be reciprocated, but should be paid at no cost, not seeking results"
Indeed, as Peng Yu said, during that time, she has been paying without asking for anything in return, not asking her husband to return anything to her, only hoping that his husband can live well and his health can get better.
But fate tricked him, and one day in 1995, her husband never opened his eyes again.
Looking back on the experience of so many years, the two have experienced the wind and rain hand in hand from the drama theater colleagues to the husband and wife, and have gone through 42 years of married life.
Now that her husband has passed away, Peng Yu can't hide her sadness, this year, she is 61 years old.
03
In 1995, when Peng Yu's husband died, both daughters had become actors in the entertainment industry.
Although he is not very famous, he has inherited the mantle of his parents.
Seeing that the mother has lost her lover, the two daughters have become more and more sensible, and everything is in accordance with the mother.
The second daughter, Zhao Jiaqi, once said:
"I have hardly ever fought with my mother in my life, my sister and I have followed her, so I hope to cooperate with my mother to perform in the future, one is convenient to take care of her, and the other is to be practical in my heart."
The understanding of the two daughters also allowed Peng Yu to slowly come out of his sadness.
In fact, for this marriage, Peng Yu has no regrets.
Because she did her best, she did everything she could.
Moreover, she also knew her husband's illness in her heart, and she could only say that she had done her best to obey the destiny.
After the husband left, the two daughters saw that their mother was always alone at home.
Afraid she would be bored, he suggested that she return to her old business.
In 1997, Peng Yu came to Beijing and took on two plays a year.
She played the role of "Peng Yu" in "Family Has a Difficult Scripture", yes, her own name, and participated in the "Waiting Hall" directed by Yingda.
These two plays made Peng Yu find the feeling of being an actor again.
Since then, Peng Yu has often cooperated with Yingda to shoot dramas, such as the later "Northeast Family".
After coming to Beijing, Peng Yu not only returned to the screen, but also had two daughters who could take care of her at any time and live happily.
If you want to say what the disadvantages are, that is, there is no old partner to accompany, and you can only go out to the park in the afternoon.
In 1999, two years after coming to Beijing, Chen Jiurong, the brother-in-law of her deceased husband Zhao Wenxin, came to beijing to attend a conference and stopped by to visit Peng Yu.
Zhao Jiurong is not only the president of the university, but also a brain expert, although he is older, but his temperament is very strong.
When the children returned, they saw that the two were getting along well, and they had the idea of matching the two of them.
Peng Yu's brother-in-law is the daughter's uncle, and the aunt is also gone, just missing a companion.
So Zhao Jiaqi first made it clear to her uncle, and then ran to talk to her mother.
Under the guidance of their daughter, the two slowly came together.
After the two were together, they did not blush, Peng Yu said:
"I've been mentally prepared before, two people together don't expect anything, get feelings, get love is enough"
In 2001, Peng Yu took Chen Jiurong and stood in the palace of marriage again.
This year, Peng Yu is 67 years old, and they all cherish this twilight love.
At the beginning of the marriage, there were various voices of doubt, and the reason was because of the inextricable kinship.
But after the two got married, there was actually no essential change in life.
Peng Yu worked harder to make the film, and her husband was also busy with his work.
When there is time, they will get together and have a companion for each other.
Slowly their feelings have also been recognized, in fact, in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with such a marriage.
Although they are related, they are not related by blood.
And they're all old, just looking for a companion for each other, and when they visit the park in the evening, there's a talker, someone who shares their story.
It is said that the past should not be mentioned again, but when I really reach that age, I have not taken those past events as a reason for sadness, but a story that makes me grow up.
In fact, after getting married, Peng Yu paid more attention to her career, and judging from the frequency of filming in her past few years, she really liked the profession of actor, even if she had reached the age of more than sixty years, she was unwilling to give up.
Until 2019, after Peng Yu starred in the movie "Everything Like You", he gradually withdrew from the film world.
Today, Peng Yu is 88 years old, and his two daughters are also married.
If you ask her what romance is, maybe she will say
Daughter-in-law held flowers to the station to pick me up, after returning home, my wife and children quietly waited for me at home, and then went to the beach to hold hands, I call this "holding hands"
Romantic is not romantic!