In heaven wish to be compared to a winged bird, in the earth wish to be a branch. ——Bai Juyi, "Long Hate Song"
Ren Chengwei's name is known to many people, especially in the film and television circles in the mainland, and there are many classic works in which he has starred. For example, there are,"Zhiqing Family", "Chu Han Contending for Heroes", "Breaking the Ice", "Zhan Changsha", "Zhiqing Family" and so on. Every role in it is deeply rooted in people's hearts, so in 2001 Ren Chengwei was also named the audience's favorite actor award.
But what many people don't know is that behind his brilliant career, it is his more arduous rise.
And behind his hard work, his wife also paid a lot. Ren Chengwei also understands it, so after he became famous, Ren Chengwei was better for his wife Huang Lei, and the two have now become a model couple in the entertainment industry, and a pair of daughters are very happy and enviable.
At the age of 26, he married a drama classmate
Ren Chengwei, who graduated from the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy, is in particularly good shape and has a good appearance in the school. There is a kind of school sunshine male god appearance.
During college, he also met his girlfriend Huang Lei, a classmate of the theater. The conditions of Huang Lei's family are very good, born in a cadre family, and the economic conditions are also very good.
In comparison, Ren Chengwei has some poverty, after all, his monthly living expenses are only 50 yuan, and he can't even eat enough, not to mention taking his girlfriend on a date to buy things. But Huang Lei never said anything, and also took care of his life in a way that did not hurt Ren Chengwei's self-esteem, such as giving ren Chengwei his meal tickets in various ways.
Ren Chengwei knew in his heart, but there was no way to reciprocate. So once when the school gave soap to students, he wanted to give this soap to Huang Lei. At that time, the economic conditions were not very good, and many students would use this soap to go to the store for some snacks, but he gave it to Huang Lei.
After Huang Lei saw it, she actually stuffed the two soaps back into his box during the holidays and asked him to go back to his mother, after all, soap was also very scarce in this era. This made him very touched at that time, and he promised to treat Huang Lei well after earning money in the future.
After a while, they finally graduated, and the school assigned him to a very good unit, the Central Experimental Drama Theatre. Huang Lei, on the other hand, was assigned to the Youth Arts Theatre. The two came to beijing to live, but there were too many well-known people in the unit at that time, and none of them developed particularly well.
Until the age of 26, everyone urged the two to get married, but Ren Chengwei was slow to move. He didn't even have a deposit of 500 yuan, he couldn't even do a wedding and a banquet, how could he take the initiative to tell Huang Lei that he wanted to marry her? But after Huang Lei knew, she said that she only wanted to get a marriage license.
It is precisely because of her empathy that Ren Chengwei was also very moved, and then the two received a marriage license in the case of naked marriage, in this way, Ren Chengwei married a drama classmate at the age of 26 and lived his own small life. But I didn't expect that the life of the two people after marriage was still very hard, and there was no major improvement because of the efforts of the two people.
Hard married life
At that time, the house assigned to Ren Chengwei by the unit could not be regarded as a house, it could only be a basement, and it was only nine square meters, and I did not expect that it was such a room, which was the marriage room between him and Huang Lei. Not only is it dark and damp, but the living conditions are also quite harsh.
Under such circumstances, their daughter was born. But there is one more child, the burden on the family is also very heavy, in order to make the child's living conditions better, Huang Lei had to let her wean, and then sent to Harbin for her parents to take care of.
At that time, Ren Chengwei's salary was only more than 270 yuan a month. There are not many dramas to invite him, even if there is a supporting role, it can only be a few dollars of living allowance. Coupled with the fact that Ren Chengwei still has his mother and brother to support, in fact, there is not enough money to spend a month.
In order to improve their living conditions, they wanted to take some film and television works, but only Huang Lei received them. Huang Lei not only filmed, but also dubbed TV series. At this time, Ren Chengwei's career was very sluggish, but Huang Lei took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of burdening family life.
People around them are becoming famous, moving away after they become famous, and every once in a while there are people coming in and out, which is a stark contrast to their poor lives.
Rely on your wife's support for success
Fortunately, Ren Chengwei has such a considerate wife, coupled with personal efforts, and then their lives are slowly getting better.
With the encouragement of his wife, Ren Chengwei has also received many TV series, including "Inside and Outside the City", "Lovely China", "Underground", "Family Big Business", "Wenzhou Two Families", etc., and has been active in the film and television circle. Slowly, his fame also grew.
At that time, there were also many actresses who liked him, but Ren Chengwei still did not have any changes, and he was more cautious about the object of communication. He felt that the temptations of the entertainment industry were too much, but he never forgot that he still had a wife in his family waiting for him to come home.
He was a husband and a father. If you accidentally get lost in the entertainment industry, the harm to them is difficult to repair. So although he has been famous for so many years, he has not had any scandals after 26 years of marriage, and his clean and self-respecting personality has made him more liked by everyone.
After becoming famous, he loved his wife more
Although he is a famous actor in the eyes of many people, he returns home as an ordinary husband and father. He would kneel on the ground and wipe the floor with his wife, and would teach a pair of daughters to play the piano and send her to and from school. And such a personality also makes him rarely appear in public after filming, and his life is very low-key.
For life and work, Ren Chengwei is particularly divided, so sometimes because he rarely talks about his wife, people wonder if it is because the two are divorced. But whenever he encountered such a thing, he would say very seriously that this kind of joke could not be made casually.
And Ren Chengwei admitted that his wife helped him particularly much, is his benefactor, the two people are also suffering together until now, this life will not be separated, after becoming famous, love the suffering wife more, a pair of daughters are very happy. His attitude has touched many people even more.
After becoming famous, his feelings for his wife not only did not fade, but he loved his wife more and was more grateful to her. It may be precisely because from poverty to the present, let them pay more attention to each other's feelings, this is really a rare good man in the entertainment industry, how do you feel? Feel free to let us know in the comments below!