There are many girls who marry their girlfriend's brother when they get married, she and her husband can come together, but also by the girlfriend, in the eyes of these girls, the relationship between themselves and their girlfriends is so good, after marrying her brother, they must be able to live a happy life, the in-laws also like their daughter-in-law, will not make a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the sister-in-law is a girlfriend for many years, and will not produce sister-in-law contradictions, but all the beautiful fantasies are broken after marriage.
After the two people who were once girlfriends became sisters-in-law, the feelings were not like before, and even some hatred was generated, and they could become friends before because there was no interest relationship between the two people, but after becoming an aunt, it was a family, living in a family, it was inevitable to bump into each other, and the contradictions between the sisters-in-law were generated.
It is not a wise decision for a girl to marry an acquaintance, it is not appropriate to marry the son of a parent or friend, in case there is a problem in the marriage of two people in the future, how will the parents and their friends deal? Marrying your girlfriend's brother is also inappropriate, in case there is any conflict between your husband and wife, you will find that your girlfriend is no longer your girlfriend, she is already on your opposite side.
01. Often run to the girlfriend's house to play, met the girlfriend's brother
Wang Min and Li Qian are very good girlfriends, Li Qian has an older brother, but Wang Min has never seen it, because Li Qian's brother has been studying in other places, and after graduating from college, he went directly to become a soldier.
Once, Wang Min went to find Li Qian again, but the door was opened by a young man, Wang Min had never seen it, Li Qian ran down from the upstairs and told Wang Min that the man was her brother, this was the first time Wang Min had seen Li Qian's brother, and he didn't know what to say, so he just said hello awkwardly.
Wang Min learned from Li Qian that her brother had retired from the army and would stay in the city to work in the future, and Wang Min told Li Qian, "That's pretty good, your family can stay together." ”
Li Qian's brother is very good, every time Wang Min goes to Li Qian's home as a guest, Li Qian's brother will be very warm to entertain Wang Min, will also sit in the living room with the two of them to chat, Wang Min and Li Qian always have endless words, but with Li Qian's brother to chat about the day always feel awkward, because the two people are not so familiar, just just met.
02. Introducing a girlfriend to a girlfriend's brother is not successful
One day, Wang Min went to Li Qian's house for dinner again, that day Li Qian's parents were also there, Li Qian's parents asked Wang Min if there were any girls around her who were the same age as Li Qian's brother, and asked Wang Min to help Li Qian's brother introduce a girlfriend.
Wang Min told Li Qian's parents that the girls she knew Li Qian knew, and now for a while and a half she could not think of which girl was suitable for Li Qian's brother, Li Qian asked her parents why she did not let her introduce a girlfriend for her brother, and her parents told Li Qian that she was unreliable.
Wang Min and Li Qian discussed in private, and there were indeed some girls around them who were quite suitable for Li Qian's brother, so the two became red brides and arranged several blind dates for Li Qian's brother.
But after each blind date, Li Qian's brother expressed dissatisfaction with the girls, and later simply did not let them help arrange the blind date.
03. Became boyfriend and girlfriend with his girlfriend's brother
On Wang Min's birthday, Li Qian came to her home to attend her birthday party, did not expect Li Qian's brother to also come, at Wang Min's birthday party, Li Qian's brother confessed to Wang Min, saying that the person he liked was Wang Min, and asked Wang Min if he would like to be his girlfriend?
All this was too sudden for Wang Min, Li Qian secretly said to Wang Min, "My brother told me not long ago that the person he likes is you, thanks to us we have helped him arrange so many blind dates, if he had told me earlier, we wouldn't have to be busy, do you have any feelings for my brother?" My brother is really good, if you become my sister-in-law, I will die happily. ”
There are many people at Wang Min's birthday party, most of them are her and Li Qian's mutual friends, to tell the truth, Wang Min still has a good feeling for Li Qian's brother, she also wants to talk about a relationship, so under the coaxing of everyone, she agreed to Li Qian's brother's pursuit.
After learning that Wang Min was with Li Qian's brother, Li Qian's parents were very happy, and said that they had always regarded Wang Min as a daughter, and if Wang Min could become their daughter-in-law, it would be perfect.
04. Years of girlfriend love are ruined, and only the sister-in-law is left
Wang Min and Li Qian's brother talked about love for more than a year, and then came to the step of talking about marriage, the age difference between the two people was seven years old, Wang Min was still young, but Li Qian's brother was more than thirty years old, and it was time to get married.
The wedding of the two people is very solemn, and Li Qian's parents still attach great importance to Wang Min's daughter-in-law, but there is only one requirement, that is, they cannot move out after they get married.
After Wang Min married Li Qian's brother, he lived with his in-laws and sister-in-law, Wang Min and Li Qian became sister-in-law, in Wang Min's view, the two people just changed from friends to sisters-in-law, they are still girlfriends, but did not expect that the girlfriend between the two people has changed.
One morning, Wang Min got up late, she went downstairs to find her in-laws, husband and sister-in-law eating breakfast, she hurriedly sat down on her seat, after breakfast, the mother-in-law let the sister-in-law wash the dishes, but the sister-in-law was angry, "Parents, why let me wash the dishes, the sister-in-law should wash ah?" Sister-in-law got up late. ”
Listening to what the sister-in-law said, Wang Min said, "Parents, I'll wash the dishes, I got up late today, it's really my fault." ”
In the process of washing dishes, Wang Min did not expect that the sister-in-law would say this about herself, the two people used to be such a good girlfriend, but since she married her brother, the two people are not as close as before, she never calls herself when she goes out to play, and often says that she is a married woman and can't play with them.
After Wang Min married her husband, she lived in the room where her sister-in-law lived before, because her husband was not at home, so the sister-in-law lived in the room with better lighting, and the husband did not ask the sister-in-law to change the room back after she returned, but after Wang Min and her husband got married, the in-laws let the sister-in-law give that room to them and the couple to live, and the sister-in-law was dissatisfied.
The sister-in-law did not have too deep resentment towards her brother, but blamed all this on Wang Min's body, Wang Min felt that the sister-in-law's resentment towards herself was somewhat inexplicable, when she and her husband were together, the sister-in-law promoted it, and now the sister-in-law is making trouble?
Wang Min obviously felt that since she married her husband, the girlfriend love between her and her sister-in-law was disappearing little by little, and the two people were no different from the sisters-in-law in other families, and even had hatred.
Wang Min told his parents, "The stupidest decision in my life is to marry my girlfriend's brother, ruin the girlfriend's love, and have more sister-in-law vendettas, why should I marry an acquaintance?" ”
Parents advised Wang Min, "Your sister-in-law is not unmarried, she can't stay in her mother's house all her life, then she won't become an old girl, consider what to do with these things, as long as the husband is good to you, the in-laws like your daughter-in-law, you can relax your heart and live a life, your sister-in-law and sister-in-law were still so good girlfriends, what deep hatred can there be, don't think so much." ”
If the friendship between girls and girlfriends wants to be long-lasting, it is best not to have interests involved between the two people, and there are no other relationships, simply be friends, friendship can be more lasting, if you have another relationship in addition to the friendship relationship, such as becoming an aunt, the friendship will definitely deteriorate, driven by interests and affection, friendship seems to be less solid.
Girls should never think too strongly about the friendship between themselves and their girlfriends, everyone has their own things they want to protect, they all have things that they think are important, the friendship between you is very important in your eyes, but in the heart of your girlfriend, maybe not so important, when you and her brother become husband and wife, and there is a contradiction between your husband and wife, do you think your girlfriend will definitely help you?
The girlfriend has become a sister-in-law, and has become a family in the relationship between friends, from that time on, you should treat the girlfriend as a sister-in-law, not as your own friend, otherwise the contradiction between the two people will definitely become deeper and deeper.