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Whether a person really loves you or is playing tricks, in fact, there are traces to follow, as long as you choose to be honest with your heart, you can find the real answer, rather than always deceiving yourself.
Many women are always prone to losing their minds when they are deeply in love, even if they know that the other party does not really love themselves, they will try to find traces of his change, and then try to convince themselves: as long as they spend enough time together, as long as I am good enough to him, he will always change his mind.
In fact, it is not, so obsessed, in the end only moved by themselves.
To know if a man really loves you, don't bother to test, just look at whether he dares to ask you the following three questions.
If he asks, it means that he really cares about you and wants to have a long-term future with you.
One: Do you really love me?
Compared with women, men express their love in a more subtle way, they rarely put love and non-love on their lips, feel particularly numb, but are more willing to express it through action. Because of this, if he puts down his face and asks you, it can be seen that he really loves you.
Every time Jojo talked about her husband, her face would involuntarily smile, she said:
"My husband is a little friend in front of me, and from time to time he chases me and asks me if he loves him or not, and asks me if there is anything he has not done well, and I must tell him that he will change it well."
In general, men are confident, they often believe that they can handle a lot of problems, compared to women, it is less likely to be swayed by other people's eyes, let alone care about other people's opinions, he only cares about the views of the people he loves.
For men, if they can get the affirmation of the person they like, then it is the biggest praise.
In addition, sometimes men ask you what you think of him, in fact, they also want to know why you chose him, and getting this answer will make him feel at ease and let him understand his gap and special with others.
So if you happen to like the man next to you, don't skimp on your praise, and talk to him well and seriously about what you think of him.
Two: Are you doing well now?
Loving someone is to put her in your heart all the time, you will worry about whether she is doing well, you will want to know what she is doing, who she is with, this kind of thought will be engraved in the heart, it is difficult to easily disperse.
Zhang Ruoyun had been keeping her in his heart for a long time before he chased after his wife Tang Yixin, and he had a memorandum about her, all of which hid traces of his love for her:
"She loves cherries."
"She likes to be alone, and she also likes birds to cling to people";
"Be her earth, don't be her heaven."
Tang Yixin revealed in a variety show that Zhang Ruoyun planted a cherry tree for her in the yard because she liked to eat cherries, and did not tell her until after the results.
It may not be difficult to plant a tree, but it is very necessary to wait for it to grow and bear fruit, and in this process, the growth of the tree also needs energy to take care of.
Obviously, he could just buy some cherries for her, but Zhang Ruoyun spent a lot of time and energy to make Tang Yixin happy, so that the woman he loved had his own cherry tree.
If a man really loves you, he will definitely care about your mood, and will carefully record your habits in life, so that you can have a very happy time with him, which is a great happiness for him.
On the contrary, the man who is hypocritical to you may pay for you, but this kind of payment is only based on his preferences and routines, and his goodness is not out of love for you, but out of his own needs, it is selfish, it needs you to be able to give back.
Three: Will you marry me?
Some say that there are only two of the most credible ways for adults to express love, either by transferring money or marrying you. But the man who is willing to spend money for you may not really love you, it may also be that he has money and does not care about money, and marrying you is often the most proof of his firmness in your feelings.
Mimi's husband's marriage proposal ceremony has become a beautiful talk in the circle of friends, there is no empty love words, there is no lot of promises, he gave, according to Mimi's planning and like to decorate the house, is the ticket for the two to Mauritius, and Mimi likes the flowers, he said:
"The future you want, I remember, I will achieve little by little." Now, I want to ask you, do you want to go with me to that future? ”
Men who truly love you will not only put you in their hearts, but also put your future in their hearts.
At first sight, it is better to stay tired of it for a long time.
If you can meet a man who asks you what you think, asks you what you like, asks you about your future, and you happen to like him, then women must cherish it well, which may really be a godsend.
The rest of his life is long, always have to be with the right person, in order not to waste this life, as for those who love the wrong, let him stay in the past, as there is a passage in "One Hundred Years of Solitude":
Since it has become a memory, it is destined not to be able to be repeated, no matter how beautiful it was, but loneliness has always existed. Instead of reminiscing about the past, enjoy the loneliness and wait for the next spring.
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