Now more and more people advocate the so-called freedom, so they choose not to marry and become a "nobleman".
Although not getting married is in line with the personal wishes of some people, it is not in line with the development of society, and all of our concepts of people's ultimate destination is the family, which is a way of life in which marriage is established.
Now people choose more ways, some people choose not to get married, some people choose to get married, usually choose not to marry the crowd, will be misunderstood, why do they have such thoughts? This kind of person is too selfish and so on.
In fact, what we have to do is not to choose to get married or not to marry, but to choose the third way to go with the flow, in fact, we just need to go with the flow.
What is going with the flow? To go with the flow is to respect objective facts and seek truth from facts. Don't marry for the sake of getting married, and don't marry for not getting married.
In real life, we will find that many people marry for the sake of getting married, and they feel that when they reach the age of marriage, or after they reach a certain age, it is more difficult to get married again if they do not get married again.
Many people who want to get married, after reaching a certain age, have a person who is willing to marry themselves, many people will compromise, which is to get married for the sake of marriage.
Not getting married makes people feel panic in their hearts, others are already dragging their families and mouths at the same age as themselves, and they have no one to accompany them, thinking about their hearts will have some desolation.
But there are some exceptions, they directly choose not to get married, live alone, they are free, no one interferes, the pressure of life will be reduced a lot, and they are carefree.
The choice of lifestyle is your own, you can live as you want, and others have no right to interfere.
But a person in a lifetime is a bit lonely and lonely, and many people choose not to get married because they really don't want to get married in their hearts, but because they choose not to get married to escape the pressure brought about by marriage.
In fact, life does not have to deliberately think about marriage or not to get married, and it is the best choice to go with the flow.
Marry when you meet a suitable marriage, and do not marry if you do not meet a suitable marriage, which is to respect the facts and respect yourself.
It is not a wise sign to meet a marriage that is suitable for marriage, and to meet a marriage that is not suitable for marriage.
We do not have to do what we want, but we should respect the objective facts and obey the arrangement of fate, which is not a superstition, but a natural objective fact.
We will meet all kinds of people in our lives, but most people are just passers-by in our lives, so what really leaves a little bit in our lives is the people we should cherish and love.
In terms of personal feelings, some people may meet such a person who can really talk about love in their lifetime.
Isn't it the best time to meet the right person at the right time? Is it still to insist on not getting married and not getting married?
A person cannot solidify himself, and he must live into a dynamic, not static, not that I must decide what I want to be, but to adjust myself according to the state of reality, which is also in line with the objective law of facts.
If my decision does not conform to the law of development of facts, I can adjust at any time, and once a person lives rigidly, his life will be meaningless.
In fact, whether we people marry or not is not something we can decide today, today we only see the past and the present, but what the future will be we do not know at all.
Therefore, it is very unreliable to use past and present experience to firmly determine the future, and it is even more outrageous to be determined and not to change.
Life needs to be planned, but it cannot be rigid, and people's life is ultimately nothing more than the pursuit of bliss and freedom.