When a child finishes a stage of learning and is ready to enter a new stage, not only will the child feel nervous inside, but also the parent's heart. Because this means that the child will have to say goodbye to past friends and classmates, go to a completely unfamiliar place, and start a new beginning.
One netizen posted a post on the Internet about his child's changes after entering junior high school, which attracted the attention of many netizens.
In the post, the netizen told that when his child first entered junior high school, he was bored with school, because after entering junior high school, not only the subjects to be learned increased, but also the difficulty of the curriculum increased.
Coupled with the fact that almost all of them are unfamiliar classmates and teachers, this makes the children feel very uncomfortable, become afraid to go to school again, and their grades have plummeted.
Finally, after about half a year, the child gradually adapted to the life of junior high school, and the grades slowly improved. So what should we, as parents, say to our children to motivate them when they are facing the beginning of school season?
A letter written by a father to his child is "worth ten thousand gold" and is worth every parent to show his child
Do not be affected by your surroundings
Children, after you enter junior high school, you will see a variety of people, different class learning atmosphere is also different, perhaps around you, some students have an extremely tired of learning, think that reading is worthless, it is better to spend time on playing games, and even advise you that you do not need to spend so much time on learning.
But if you believe it, then you will understand how naïve and naïve this idea was when you really entered the society in the future.
In fact, each stage of learning is a screening process, once you slacken, someone will eliminate you.
Most of the real strong people are lonely, and only by studying hard at every stage can they make themselves more excellent.
Don't change your own mind because of other people's ideas, don't be a person who goes with the flow, be a person who goes against the current.
Recognize what are the friends you should really make
In the previous learning stage, maybe you have made a lot of friends, these friends with you day and night, eat together, go to school together, and make you feel reluctant.
But I want you to have time to think about what are your true friends and what you deserve to make with your heart.
In Dad's view, friends in this world can be roughly divided into two categories, one is that they can talk very well when they are together, but once they are separated, the friendship between them slowly fades, and finally becomes a "stranger" lying in the call list.
The other type of friends is that they have the same three views as you, and in many things, they have the same views as you, and they can really hit it off.
This kind of friend may not be in touch with you usually, but it will not dilute the friendship because of time, and can be truly accompanied by a real companion.
Don't waste your most precious time on being in love
As you get older, you may have a crush on the opposite sex, which is actually a normal phenomenon, and Dad will not blame you for it, but Dad wants you to understand that at this stage is the most precious learning time of your life, which determines the upper limit of your future life.
It is absolutely correct to choose to study hard at this stage, but it is not necessarily right to choose to fall in love at this stage.
Because you can't be sure whether the person you have a crush on now is the one who can accompany you for the rest of your life, the two of you have not really lived together, do not know the personalities of both sides, and are not sure whether you will change your heart over time, your admiration for him may be because of his handsome face, or it may be because of his athletic posture at the Games, which is actually more superficial.
At this stage, all you should do is make yourself better and better, and in the future, you will have more choices.
In the school season, parents should do a good job in these points to help their children "close their hearts" and study well every day
a Provide a good learning atmosphere for children
After the start of school, the learning tasks are often relatively heavy. What parents should do at this stage is to provide a good learning atmosphere for their children, first of all, to adjust their children's schedules, because children have just experienced a holiday, and their schedules are often more chaotic.
Therefore, parents should adjust their children's schedules a few days before the start of school, so that children can rest in strict accordance with the schedules stipulated by the school, so that children can not be mentally weak after the start of school.
In addition, parents should also create a good learning atmosphere at home, do not be in a very noisy and chaotic environment when the child returns home to do homework, and try to create a quiet and suitable learning environment for the child.
b Make a learning plan for your child
The study plan is very important for children, because at the beginning of the new semester, children are often blind and do not know how to allocate their learning time.
At this time, parents make a more detailed learning plan for their children, so that children can learn strictly according to the plan, which can not only help children save time, but also help improve children's self-control.
Communicate more with your child
When the child enters the new school, surrounded by unfamiliar environments and strange people, coupled with heavy academic work, the child's heart is actually very helpless during this period.
In the face of this situation, parents should communicate more with their children, keep abreast of their children's situation in school, and if they find that their children have psychological problems, they should guide and comfort their children in time.
In his spare time, parents can talk to their children more about topics that interest them, such as games and TV series, which can effectively enhance the relationship with their children.
epilogue
The beginning of the school means that the child has entered a new stage, and parents should pay attention to the psychological changes of the child during this period, guide the child in time, and let the child grow in a good direction.
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