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Once, someone asked Ke Yimin: What is your husband like?
Ke Yimin: Short, fat and ugly, he looks like a toad.
Many years later, Ke Yimin's husband died of illness, and when Ke Yimin sorted out his inheritance, he found that he had been deceived.
When Ke Yimin and her husband Huang Guofu first met, others introduced Ke Yimin to Him as Xu Ruoxuan and Shu Qi's agent.
Ke Yimin: Are they blind and looking for such an ugly one?
Unexpectedly, this person later became Ke Yimin's agent and husband.
Before Ke Yimin got along with her husband, she also said to her good sister Peng Jiahui: I must not look for an only child in the future, and I can't be a fat man or a Virgo, and I definitely don't want a briefcase under the arm socket.
Unexpectedly, her husband Huang Guofu all matched what she said, and when Peng Jiahui knew that Ke Yimin wanted to be with him, she was also surprised.
The reason why Ke Yimin and Huang Guofu are together is because once everyone sang together and talked about lifelong events, Ke Yimin joked: If you are not married in half a year, come to me, I will marry you.
Then the two of them really got together.
But Ke Yimin and Huang Guofu's relationship has not been very stable, because of identity and work relationship, the two often quarrel, in Ke Yimin's eyes, feel that Huang Guofu is too rational, not romantic enough, often regard artists as products.
Later, Ke Yimin planned to separate, but Huang Guofu was seriously ill, and Ke Yimin could not bear it, so he did not go through the formalities, and sent his daughter to his side to accompany him, hoping to let Huang Guofu find the strength to live.
It was also during this period that Huang Guofu suddenly changed into a person, Ke Yimin said that he was very angry, since he was sick, he became very angry, he would buy this and buy that for Ke Yimin, and the feelings of the two gradually changed.
Ke Yimin kept a loveless marriage for 6 years, and Huang Guofu still died. Ke Yimin has been very sad until she began to sort out Huang Guofu's inheritance, only to find that her husband had been hiding something from him.
It turned out that he still had a house in the bank and bet 5 million yuan, and the money was in the hands of another woman. After Ke Yimin knew about this matter, it was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and it turned out that Huang Guofu had always had a lover, but he did not know it.
Ke Yimin was very devastated at that time, she said: For so many years, my husband's medical expenses, including the expenses of the family, were all borne by me, I did not spend a penny on him, he actually gave this money to another woman.
What is even more surprising is that Huang Guofu's mother did not agree to let Ke Yimin inherit Huang Guofu's inheritance, she said: If I knew that Huang Guofu left so early, I should not put all my property under his name.
Ke Yimin wrote on the spot: I automatically gave up Huang Guofu's legacy.
The lawyers all fought for her.
Ke Yimin said: Huang Guofu is gone, or let's do the funeral first.
Ke Yimin seems to be a person with a poisonous mouth, in fact, she is still very tolerant.
Huang Guofu's mother is a very traditional old man, when Ke Yimin and Huang Guofu were together, the old man examined Ke Yimin from head to toe and said a sentence lightly: Very good, there is meat.
The implication is that Ke Yimin should be more capable. Later, when she learned that Ke Yimin was pregnant, she also went around looking for something for Ke Yimin to eat, hoping that she could have a son, Ke Yimin actually knew that it was a girl, but she did not say it, nor did she resist.
After the child was born, Huang Guofu's mother knew it was a girl, turned around and left.
At that time, Huang Guofu was very busy and did not have time to take care of his mother and daughter, or Ke Yimin took care of the children by himself.
Usually, Ke Yimin went out to work, and when she returned, Huang Guofu's mother basically asked three words when she saw her: Earn money? How much did you earn? When to go?
And Ke Yimin would respond with a big grin every time, pretending not to care, she said: I have always told myself, it is better to be old, and everyone will understand each other more and more.
But in fact, this situation has not changed.
Even so, after her husband left, Ke Yimin would still visit the old man and take the old man to visit Huang Guofu's grave.
Once, Huang Guofu's mother finally said in front of Ke Yimin's face in front of her son's grave: Huang Guofu, you can rest assured to go, because you have indeed found a good daughter-in-law.
Ke Yimin has always given the impression of being harsh and not good at talking. But people who know her well say that she only does this in music, because Ke Yimin has her own insistence and never easily compromises on music.
But in life, it is actually a very kind, inclusive and traditional person.
For a while, Ke Yimin was a judge, and was criticized by everyone, and now that I think about it, one is related to her own style, and the other is related to her experience, so she projects emotions on others.
Some people are knife-mouthed tofu hearts, but the words are too much, and they really hurt people.
Even if such a person has done a lot of good things and suffered a lot of losses, he still won't let people worry about her good.
Therefore, it is still very important to learn to communicate peacefully with people.
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