Speaking of Venus, everyone is certainly not unfamiliar, using Venus to introduce himself to humor, "Before the age of thirty, I leaned on my legs, and after the age of thirty I relied on my mouth." We know that Venus used to be a dancer and later changed careers to become a presenter. Venus's host has his own unique style, and Venus's "poisonous tongue" is a household name.
And everyone also likes Venus's hosting style very much, and likes his "poisonous tongue" speech. Many people were impressed by Venus's classic remarks and admired by his outspoken courage. Because it's very offensive.
One of the stars introduced to you today was jokingly called "no Venus's life, but there is Venus's disease" She is Ke Yimin. People who know Ke Yimin and Venus should not say this. It should be "no mouth of Venus, but do the work of Venus" to play a word "looking for death". As the old saying goes, "Don't work with porcelain without diamonds", don't do it without ability. It's really "drawing a tiger and not becoming an anti-dog"
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="44" > First, Ke Yimin, who failed across the border</h1>
Ke Yimin is a Chinese singer and actress born in Malaysia. In 1991, he was the runner-up of Voices of Asia. Later, he entered the entertainment industry, and has always been mainly singing, and has achieved good results. Before 2002, it was basically developed in Malaysia, and only developed in The country after 2002, and it has always been mainly music-oriented. It can be said that he is also a powerful musician. There are also certain fans in China, and they are very recognized by the songs and albums she has sent.
In the entertainment industry, multiple identities are normal, such as Venus before being a dancer and later being a host. Ke Yimin was a pop singer, but also an actor, and more importantly, she later became a judge. It can be said that he has three positions. And there are more stars who wear several jobs, each with a very large span. It can be said that the current stars are all-rounders. But no matter how many positions you hold, as long as you are competent, others will approve of it.
Ke Yimin is because he also wants to develop a lot, but no one can't afford this responsibility. Or it is a lack of ability, cross-border play fails, and the result is to play yourself to death. Let's see what kind of mistake Ke Yimin made that led to the current situation. So much so that everyone's evaluation of her is so low. Some people actually questioned her quality.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" > second, good intentions do bad things</h1>
Ke Yimin debuted in 1991, and Ke Yimin graduated from the Royal College of Music. It can be said that he is from a scientific class, and his professionalism in music is not questionable. And Ke Yimin basically developed abroad in 2002, and since his debut, he has basically released an album every year.
It can be said that Ke Yimin's popularity has played the role of professor in the field of music. Or the responsibility of the judges is competent and qualified. However, Ke Yimin made some inappropriate remarks when he was a judge of the program, and the result was that Ke Yimin was considered to have no quality.
After 2005, the domestic cultural and entertainment industry has developed rapidly, and various talent shows have sprung up like mushrooms, appearing in many types of drafts such as "Super Girl", "The Voice" and "The Masked Singer" on major television stations. At that time, when the "Super Girl" talent show came out, Ke Yimin appeared at the draft scene as a judge.
At that time, "Super Girl" can be said to be the first large-scale music talent show in China, aimed at the grassroots class of the public, and the basic contestants are not graduates of professional classes or have studied.
"Super Girl" can be said to have given some non-professionals who like to sing but have no way out at that time, giving them a chance to debut and show their musical talents. At that time, at the scene of the competition, Ke Yimin was facing each contestant, and he was very strict. And the comments are merciless, pointing directly to the wrongs, and the speech is not embellished, and soon got a nickname "poisonous tongue" Ke Yimin.
But there was a player named Li Nan in the game, and because of the nervousness, Li Nan spoke a little incoherently. And the sound is also very small. At that time, Ke Yimin directly interrupted Li Nan and said: Are you stuttering? When Li Nan did not sing two sentences when she began to sing, Ke Yimin interrupted Li Nan again and said to her: "NO! Does not pass". Li Nan was in a hurry at that time, and directly retorted to Ke Yimin: "Teacher Ke, you are too disrespectful to people. But Ke Yimin did not say anything more, but gave Li Nan a defiant expression. And Li Nan began to sing from scratch. This time her singing wowed the audience.
However, Ke Yimin was rated as unqualified by many people and the media because of his attitude towards Li Nan, and was rated as a "poisonous tongue". I don't know how Li Nan, the party involved in this matter, commented on this matter afterwards. But as a bystander, if you calm down, you may understand the intention behind this matter.
Everyone carefully recalled that Li Nan was different on the stage at that time. Li Nan stuttered when he first came to power, and as a result, under Ke Yimin's two interruptions, Li Nan directly refuted Ke Yimin to the end and surprised the audience. In fact, this is all the credit of Ke Yimin. Ke Yimin saw that Li Nan was very nervous, so she made a joke with Li Nan, but Li Nan still did not adjust, so Ke Yimin only had to find a way to make Li Nan forget to be on the stage, or to arouse her fighting spirit.
To arouse a person's fighting spirit, one is to speak well and persuade, and the other is to provoke the other party. At that time, it took the shortest time to provoke the other party, and the effect would be the best. Therefore, Ke Yimin directly added expressions to Li Nan, who was sober and sang, winning the applause of the audience, but Ke Yimin left a bad impression. But Ke Yimin estimated that he didn't think so much at the time. So during the "Super Girl" selection period at that time, she was known for her fierceness and directness.
Therefore, the judges of "Super Girl" were finished, and Ke Yimin's reputation was negative because of his role as a judge. At that time, many networks were criticizing Ke Yimin, but no one seriously thought about the reasons behind Ke Yimin's actions at that time, Ke Yimin did a good job but became an evil person. Good intentions turn bad things.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="42" > the art of speaking</h1>
In fact, we review the scenes of each judge in Ke Yimin. We can see that Ke Yimin actually reviews every time from the perspective of a professional leader, and there is no doubt about her as a musician, but her way is a bit fierce. As the saying goes, for every sick person, we can't use strong drugs, we may need to give different drugs according to the patient's physical condition. And the amount and form of the agent also need to be considered. Not a thousand people.
In the same way, what Ke Yimin lacks is the art and humor of speaking, but this art and humor need to be learned. Like Venus, she is recognized as the host of "Poisonous Tongue", and he speaks with art and humor every time, but even so, Venus has not escaped the fate of offending people. Although Ke Yimin is "poisonous tongue", Ke Yimin speaks more directly and more bluntly every time, there is not much processing, and there are more people who believe that Ke Yimin has offended.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="36" > summary</h1>
Not every time the kindness will be recognized by the other party, not every time your intentions can be fully understood and accepted by the other party. And the art of language is very rich and powerful, and the same words are expressed by different tones, and the meaning is completely different. So in the absence of strong language art and humor, it is best not to play language art things, otherwise it will always hurt yourself.