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"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

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She was both one of the top ten film and television stars of the year.

He is also the principal of an art school that trains actors.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

In 1960, Lu Liping was born in Beijing.

When she was a teenager, it was the era when the red flag swept around the capital, so she didn't enter the university door until she was 20 years old.

Lu Liping's dream was to become an actress, and after walking out of the door of the Central Academy of Drama, she was assigned to the Shanghai Film Studio.

Fortunately, just after graduating, she entered the film crew of director Huang Shuqin, who was filming "Childhood Friend" at the time.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

This is a film that reflects the study and life of a group of teenagers in Yan'an during the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression.

In the play, Lu Liping plays Luo Jie.

This is a female eighth route army soldier, but also experienced the Long March, and finally died on the job because of overwork.

This is also the first film that Lu Liping took over after graduation.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Compared with other young film actors, Lu Liping has a high degree of recognition.

Although she is not the kind of girl who is young and beautiful and full of charm, her acting skills are enough to overwhelm everything.

Because of the second film that followed, she won two of the Chinese film awards.

It was the 1987 movie "The Old Well."

At that time, Zhang Yimou was still the main actor in the play.

Lu Liping plays a young widow named Xi Feng in the play.

She and Sun Wangquan, played by Zhang Yimou, finally married in the play.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

From war dramas to rural themes, the transformation of environment and background is not nothing, what is important is the transformation of character identity.

In the last play, she was also a young student soldier plus a soldier of the Eighth Route Army.

In "The Old Well", she becomes a widow in an isolated village.

The transformation of the character's identity brings about the actor's need to have a very accurate control over the character.

Then in 1988, with the role of Xi Feng, Lu Liping won the best supporting actress of the Golden Rooster and Lily awards.

For a newcomer who has just stepped into the film and television circle, this is the biggest praise and affirmation of his acting skills.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Also in 1988, she starred in the movie "Officer in the Year of the Dragon".

It was in this drama that she met her first husband, Zhang Fengyi.

The two worked together for the first time, with Zhang Fengyi playing the criminal police captain in the play.

Lu Liping played his wife in the play.

At that time, Zhang Fengyi often showed the image of a tough guy on the screen.

The two people are typical of the drama of love, and they came together that year.

The wedding was very simple, and it only cost 50 yuan at the time.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Both people's acting careers at this time are on the rise, and the combination of them in the circle is also very optimistic.

The following year, their son Zhang Boyu was born.

Although I had children, the life of the two people at that time was mainly based on filming.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Before and after giving birth, Lu Liping also starred in many TV dramas at that time.

In the TV series "Siege", she is Sun Roujia, and in "The Story of the Editorial Department", she is Ge Ling.

From Chen Daoming to Ge You to Zhao Baogang, Lu Liping, who debuted not long ago,

From actors to directors, the collaborators are all big names, and the works made are also classic and popular works.

Unfortunately, her career is booming, but it cannot cover her marriage with her husband, and there has been a gap.

Just over three years after marriage, the relationship between the two people could not survive.

At that time, his son Zhang Boyu was only two years old.

The outside world really can't understand what is wrong with the need to divorce the child at an early age.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Speculation from the outside world flew by.

Some people say that Zhang Fengyi is too macho, and two people in life will still do something when they have a conflict.

Some people also say that the wife's fame has gradually surpassed her husband, and Zhang Fengyi's face cannot be hung.

No matter what kind of factor, it is inseparable from the fundamental fact that the actor has no time to take care of the family in order to shoot the scene.

Interestingly, when Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi got married,

In the movie "Officer in the Year of the Dragon", the couple played by the two people finally divorced.

In the year that Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi divorced, she happened to star in a movie called "Single Woman".

In any case, from then on, she, a single woman, would have to be alone with children.

At that time, Lu Liping, with the movie "Youth Without Regrets", once again won the Best Actress of the Hundred Flowers Award.

And Ge Ling, the role that Ge You often hangs on his lips, also allowed Lu Liping to win the Feitian Award for Best Actress.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

It can be said that 30-year-old Lu Liping, among the many domestic actresses at that time, was already in a state of solitude and defeat.

Although her career is mixed well, she is a divorced mother with children in life.

When the child is young, he does not understand anything and has to cope with it.

However, as the child grew older and could talk, she asked her father almost every day where her father was.

What she could say as a mother could only grit her teeth and lie to the child, saying that her father had gone to work far away and could not come for a while.

Often when the lie is first spoken in front of the young son, she has to turn her back to wipe her tears.

Moreover, this word cannot be hidden for a lifetime, especially after the child will go out to play alone.

Seeing the families of his neighbors, all of whom have their fathers by their side, slowly he will know that the two parents are separated.

The trauma to the child's heart is great, and gradually, the smile on his face is disappearing.

He doesn't like to talk, and his personality gradually becomes introverted.

Even when he was bullied by children of the same age outside, he did not dare to tell his mother when he returned home.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Lu Liping did not understand this.

So years later, looking at her son, who has grown up, she has publicly stated,

After a family has children, it is best for the husband and wife not to be separated.

Because the pain that this brings to the child's heart is permanent.

Two years after the divorce, Lu Liping won the title of Top Ten Film and Television Stars.

Because she has starred in popular TV series and movies, Lu Liping at this time can be described as a household name.

However, in order to take good care of the children, she gradually went behind the scenes of film and television dramas.

In 1993, she founded a secondary performing arts school in Beijing.

She transferred part of her energy to the cultivation of actors.

But perhaps more crucially, she can spend more time with her children by filming less often.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

The turning point came when his son was 7 years old.

One day, she accompanied her son to the Xiannong Temple to watch a basketball game.

At the scene, she met Tao Wei, a retired football commentator.

She is a film and television star, and being recognized is nothing.

However, the son, the first time he met Tao Wei, he became acquainted.

The child has always lacked an adult man around him, and Tao Wei exudes the strong physique of an athlete,

It seems to have a great attraction to the son.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Since then, she has often taken her children to meet Tao Wei.

Tao Wei also often accompanies his children to play football and carry out various physical exercises.

So during the period of getting along with Tao Wei, the child's body gradually became stronger, and he was also obsessed with football.

It is said that children have asthma when they are young, and their bodies are fat, and they are breathless like cattle when they move slightly.

Since becoming a good buddy with Tao Wei, his fat physique has improved, and his asthma has also improved greatly.

More crucially, the son's psychology became cheerful.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

All this, Lu Liping naturally saw in her eyes.

After 3 years of interaction, Lu Liping and Tao Wei finally came together.

And for this marriage, I am afraid that the happiest is the son.

The child's side finally has a man who can accompany him, and Lu Liping's acting career that has been suspended for several years can continue to begin.

During that time, she took over several TV series that did not star.

As the original love turned into chai rice oil and salt after marriage, the contradiction between Lu Liping and Tao Wei gradually emerged.

She was married for the second time, while Tao Wei was married for the first time, and he had no experience in married life.

Plus Lu Liping and him, both are straight, no matter what happens in life, they will not turn a corner.

In this way, the frequency of two people quarreling is getting higher and higher, and there will be conflicts over some things.

With no room left for each other, the marriage soon bored each other.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Just over a year later, the two divorced.

When she handled the divorce, she also knew how to hide from her son.

However, the son has grown up and sensible at this time, and he can't see anyone when he comes back from school.

And I found that there were a lot fewer things in the house, and naturally everything was understood.

This time, Lu Liping did not hide from her son, but calmly told him the truth.

Tao Wei also married and had children later, but died suddenly in the hotel in 2012.

At that time, it also triggered a property war, which was very embarrassing for a while.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

After divorcing again, Lu Liping plunged into a busy acting job.

At that time, she took over two movies and four TV series in one go.

First, he co-produced the movie "Who Says I Don't Care" with Feng Gong.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

And at this time, she has also taken over the film contract of the TV series "The Burning Years of Passion",

It's just that her scene hasn't started filming yet.

When the film was finished, she rushed to Kunming without stopping.

At that time, "The Years of Burning Passion" had been filmed a lot, and there were not many scenes after she entered the group.

Most of the time, she just watched Sun Haiying act in the crew.

There is a scene in which Shi Guangrong, who plays Shi Guangrong, grows vegetables and then gives them to others.

Sun Haiying shouted while flipping through the dishes on the side.

Lu Liping, who was watching from the side, was stupid, this person had never heard of it before.

How can the performance be so good, and there is no trace of the performance?

At that time, Lu Liping did not know much about this man who was 4 years older than herself.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

The only thing she knows is that Sun Haiying has 10 years of experience in the army.

So playing a soldier is so handy.

Therefore, in the filming, two people play a husband and wife, as long as there is the same scene, he can always mobilize Lu Liping's emotions.

In the past, she played Ge Ling, which became an unbreakable image in the minds of that generation of TV viewers.

In Lu Liping's view, the role of Chu Qin is her favorite.

It is also by virtue of the interpretation with Sun Haiying that the two people have come to life from the play.

Moreover, this TV series also made the two people win the Golden Eagle Award for Best Male and Female Protagonist.

Starring in "The Years of Burning Passion", Lu Liping transformed herself and starred in "Bigfoot Horse Queen".

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

This is a costume drama with a comedic style,

For Lu Liping, who is highly malleable, it is not too difficult to play this role.

And during the filming, Lu Liping and Sun Haiying were in a period of hot love.

People are in good spirits when they are happy, and they are naturally in a different state when they work.

On the contrary, Tang Guoqiang, who played Zhu Yuanzhang, did not want to take on this role at first.

Because he felt that zhu Yuanzhang's jianghu qi was not the same as his own temperament.

Therefore, he recommended Liu Wei to the director to play.

However, at that time, Liu Wei was not available, and he could only reluctantly take over the role.

After the TV series was released, it showed that his cooperation with Lu Liping was still very good.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

In 2002, 42-year-old Lu Liping officially married Sun Haiying.

The son has grown up, and at the beginning, he naturally had a grudge against this new man.

With the passage of time, the child gradually accepted Sun Haiying.

When the child was 16 years old, when Lu Liping celebrated her birthday,

Sun Haiying solemnly said to him, your mother is not easy,

From today onwards, the two of us can no longer let her be wronged.

The child has grown up and has a rough understanding of the feelings of the adult world.

Sun Haiying's words made the child cry.

Since then, Lu Liping has started a happy life for two people, and in the career, the cooperation between the two people is also complementary.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

However, Lu Liping once said that Sun Haiying in life is an acute child, which causes her to often fail to keep up with his rhythm.

And one of the habits she least likes to see her husband is that he likes to go online.

Perhaps it is precisely because of the gradual increase in age, there is a great deviation between the understanding of the Internet and young people,

This led to a move she inadvertently made, which caused a huge controversy.

It was 2011, and Lu Liping reprinted a passage of pastor's anti-gay remarks on Weibo.

Previously, this statement may have only been spread on a small scale, but because of Lu Liping's special identity,

This reprint of hers has aroused opposition from the domestic gay community.

Even Li Yinhe called Lu Liping's reprinting behavior an unforgivable reactionary remark.

In Li Yinhe's view, sexual orientation is open and conservative, which is the most natural choice,

As a well-known public figure, Lu Liping is not suitable to express such a direct attitude.

Subsequently, many media also criticized Lu Liping's remarks that year.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Back in life, Sun Haiying and his ex-wife once had children, but died of illness at the age of 15.

Lu Liping had just been married to Sun Haiying for a few years, and she had always wanted to give him another child.

However, due to each other's age, the wish of the two people to have children again was ultimately not fulfilled.

In the blink of an eye, Lu Liping's children had grown up, and when he got married, his biological father Zhang Fengyi did not attend.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

Perhaps at that time, for Lu Liping, the life and family talent in front of her were the most worthy of grasping.

In her career, her acting career continues.

In particular, her status as principal, the students in the school, also look forward to her continued to be active on the screen.

"Sad" Lu Liping: first marriage Zhang Fengyi, second marriage football commentator, 42 years old married to Sun Haiying

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