When it comes to the marriage of Zheng Shaoqiu and Shen Dianxia, it can be described as "it is not appropriate to dissolve the wrong family".
For this seemingly entangled relationship, it can actually be said that it is the result of the "persistence" of the two people.
As for Guan Jinghua who walked to the end with Zheng Shaoqiu,
It has always been regarded as the "culprit" who "ruined" Shen Dianxia's marriage.
But from another point of view, the two can be in agreement for so many years,
Nor is it an impulse to "cheat" for the sake of "cheating".
Shen Dianxia grew up in a privileged environment, and she was born in 1947 in a tobacco merchant family in Shanghai.
She has 3 older sisters and two younger brothers.
Although there are many children, plus the parents are a total of 7 people,
But it was affordable for her family.
And it was very happy.
On the contrary, Zheng Shaoqiu's childhood is very different from her.
Although his father was a university teacher, his life was very unruly.
He also did not care about the affairs of the family, let alone the education of his children.
Not long after such a day, his mother and father divorced, and Zheng Shaoqiu lived with his mother.
Maybe it's because of this family environment,
This led to the tragedy of the two later, a stubborn effort and a stubborn acceptance.
At the age of 11, Shen Dianxia and her parents moved to Hong Kong to settle down, because of the family relationship and her positive personality.
He was favored by Shaw Film Company early on, smoothly stepped into the entertainment industry, and has not lacked film contracts.
In 1967, the newly established Hong Kong Radio station invited her to be the ace host of Happy Tonight.
Because the show was so popular, it didn't come to an end until 1994.
Shen Dianxia's hosting style has won the love of many viewers, and even TVB has identified her as the "pillar" of the station.
It is precisely because of this personality that Shen Dianxia's circle of friends is getting wider and wider, and Xie Xian and Deng Guangrong have become her brothers-
Rowan is her life-and-death friend, and even Jacky Cheung is her dry son.
And Zheng Shaoqiu because of the disintegration of the family,
He had to bear most of the family burden.
Zheng Shaoqiu, who grew up in a family of scholars, was not proficient in academia.
Not even much interest in reading.
However, he is very passionate about acting and is quite willing to learn about it.
Fortunately, Zheng Shaoqiu's appearance is very handsome and outstanding, and his figure is also quite standard.
Therefore, when he was 16 years old, he was admitted to an acting training class and embarked on the road of acting.
At that time, because he didn't have any background, he could only run dragon sets or make cameo roles.
But it was at a time when there was no fame like this that a girl saw his goodness.
The girl's name was Lu Huiru.
Maybe it's because of the urgent need for security, it didn't take long for Zheng Shaoqiu and Lu Huiru to get married.
And gave birth to a well-behaved daughter Zheng Anyi.
But it seems that this relationship came too quickly, and the decision was made too quickly,
Because of the friction of personality and the immersion of daily life, the two lost the romance when they were in love and completely fell into endless quarrels.
Therefore, this seemingly happy marriage lasted only 3 years before it ended.
1970 was also an ordinary year, but it changed the lives of Zheng Shaoqiu and Shen Dianxia.
This year, Zheng Shaoqiu signed a contract with TVB, and became a partner host with Shen Dianxia and Sensen.
Began to appear on various variety shows.
Zheng Shaoqiu, who was single, fell in love with the beautiful Sensen and chased after her.
However, Sensen did not accept it immediately, because she already had a boyfriend at that time, and he was Bruce Lee's younger brother Lee Zhenhui.
Later, because the two places separated Sensen and Bruce Lee's brother ended up breaking up,
It just so happened that Zheng Shaoqiu filled this vacancy, and the two became lovers.
But because Zheng Shaoqiu did not tell her the fact that he was married at that time,
When Sensen learned of his past, he was very angry, believing that he had deliberately deceived himself.
Therefore, he decided to break up with Zheng Shaoqiu very decisively.
Because Zheng Shaoqiu was filming at that time, there was no way to communicate in person, so he wrote a letter to him and asked Shen Dianxia to help hand it over.
Maybe that's the beginning of the sinful fate.
At that time, Shen Dianxia thought it was a love letter, so she was very dismissive of it.
It turned out that when she was partnering with Zheng Shaoqiu, she did not look up to him very much.
Shen Dianxia felt that he was too good-looking, probably the kind of person who picked flowers and weeds.
However, when she learned that this was a parting letter, Shen Dianxia suddenly felt guilty.
When Zheng Shaoqiu was so sad, he used this irresponsible angle to define him.
It is that he is too sloppy and too good at looking at people.
Because of this kind of thought, Shen Dianxia began to comfort Zheng Shaoqiu,
Not only do they take care of them on weekdays, but they also often eat and watch movies together.
It was this kind of back and forth that Shen Dianxia began to have feelings for Zheng Shaoqiu, and soon after the two established a relationship.
Although Zheng Shaoqiu has an outstanding handsome appearance,
But compared with Shen Dianxia's success in his career, he is still a "rookie" who has just started.
At the moment when the two were in love, Shen Dianxia began to put all her enthusiasm into this handsome man.
In life, Shen Dianxia personally cooked soup and sent him to the crew.
In addition, in her career, Zheng Shaoqiu was able to star in Jin Yong's martial arts drama "Book of Swords and Enmity", also because of her hard work.
Shen Dianxia belongs to the kind of person who has love and will go all out,
She did not hesitate to recommend all her resources to Zheng Shaoqiu to complete his grand career.
And Zheng Shaoqiu himself was also quite angry, and later took over a number of TV series, such as "Chu Liuxiang" and "Joke about Qianlong".
They have become classic images that cannot disappear in the hearts of the audience.
At that time, many people were not optimistic about this pair of lovers,
Shen Dianxia's brother Deng Guangrong also told her: "Be careful, people are using you." ”
However, Shen Dianxia, who was in love, could not listen to such a warning at all.
Until one day, something happened.
In 1984, Zheng Shaoqiu met Guan Jinghua during the filming of "Chu Liuxiang's New Biography".
At that time, Because of her excellent acting skills, Guan Jinghua was added by the director to become the second heroine.
And her fascination with Zheng Shaoqiu also began at this time,
And Zheng Shaoqiu did not refuse to come and began to secretly associate with her.
At that time, Shen Dianxia had just returned from the United States and was going to Japan, so she went home to get her passport.
Then it was such an ordinary act that made her discover that something was "wrong" in the house.
The code for the combination lock of a safe that had been used for a long time was replaced.
Perhaps out of the woman's intuition, she did not tell Zheng Shaoqiu, but she spent a day trying the password.
When she finally opened the safe, what she saw was evidence of Zheng Shaoqiu's cheating with Guan Jinghua.
Under the facts, Shen Dianxia waited alone in the hotel for Zheng Shaoqiu to return to give herself an explanation.
However, when Zheng Shaoqiu returned home and saw Shen Dianxia's swearing questioning, he still pretended to calmly deny it.
Moreover, in order to prove his "innocence", he simply said: "If you do not believe, we will marry immediately." ”
The two people know that the other is cheating, but choose to forgive, and the other is for self-respect, and force themselves to prove their "innocence".
In January 1985, Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu married in Canada.
Shen Dianxia recalled this history when she was alive: "If I have another chance, I will not desperately look for that answer." ”
Moreover, she felt that the marriage was "unlucky" from the beginning.
In 1987, Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu's daughter Zheng Xinyi was born.
This child was also born by Shen Dianxia at the risk of his life.
Two years later, it was all over.
Zheng Shaoqiu has decided to move out of the two people's homes, this time it is Shen Dianxia who took the initiative to propose a divorce,
And it was this year that Zheng Shaoqiu married Guan Jinghua.
Later, after the two divorced, Shen Dianxia also specially invited Zheng Shaoqiu to her own show, and was the guest of the first program.
At the end, maybe it was because Shen Dianxia was not willing to pay so much,
She asked Zheng Shaoqiu a question, and she said: "In these decades, have you ever tried, and you really like me." ”
Of course, in the face of the TV, Zheng Shaoqiu must have answered in the affirmative. He said, "I really like you, you treat me well." ”
However, even Shen Dianxia herself understood that all this was a lie.
However, in the emotional entanglement between Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua, a trace of mysterious background elements was added.
It turned out that at that time, Tang Guangrong, who was very senior in the Hong Kong circle, learned about his righteous sister.
It was during the days when Shen Dianxia was about to give birth, and he found that Yi Mei was always unhappy.
I began to ask her why, and only then did I know that Zheng Shaoqiu was cheating.
Indignant, he went straight to Zheng Shaoqiu to settle the account.
However, Shen Dianxia still loved Zheng Shaoqiu in her heart, and she did not want Zheng Shaoqiu to be hurt.
So he said something to defend Zheng Shaoqiu and prevented Deng Guangrong from going to him.
And Deng Guangrong asked her if she was the official Jinghua who was seducing Zheng Shaoqiu, and Shen Dianxia acquiesced.
For the sake of his sister's marriage, Deng Guangrong did not hesitate to give up his job and run to Taiwan to find Guan Jinghua Theory.
Deng Guangrong met with Guan Jinghua at the company, and he scolded her at the moment.
And Guan Jinghua also had his own temper, and was not frightened by his sharp words, but said that this was his private affair with Zheng Shaoqiu.
A fierce dispute ended with Guan Jinghua's crying,
And Deng Guangrong was not good at coping with this kind of scene, so he had to stop it.
But things did not end like this, the next day five or six men in black came to Deng Guangrong's hotel,
He put a gun to his head and asked him why he was bullying "Miss Himself." ”
It turned out that Guan Jinghua's father was Guan Yingming,
In addition to being once born in the National Army and later becoming the elder of the Bamboo Gang, Chiang Kai-shek also recognized him as a dry son.
With such a big background, no one in Taiwan dares to provoke.
However, Deng Guangrong was also quite witty, and when he made the gesture of making an incision in the empty door, he immediately blinded these men in black.
Finally, these men in black invited their own cousins, and this person happened to know Deng Guangrong.
Such a false alarm passed, and Deng Guangrong returned to Hong Kong unharmed.
Until Shen Dianxia's death in February 2008, Deng Guangrong was still dissatisfied with Zheng Shaoqiu.
On March 2 of the same year, the Hung Hom Sports Centre in Hong Kong was overcrowded because it was a memorial service for Shen Dianxia.
And Deng Guangrong scolded Zheng Shaoqiu under the stage at the scene,
He said: "Why did Zheng Shaoqiu appear at this time?" And today's scene, but also thank you to the friends of Hong Kong TVB Broadcasting Co., Ltd., what is your contribution to Shen Dianxia. ”
However, Zheng Shaoqiu did not indifferently accept such accusations.
Instead, he took the stage with his daughter Zheng Xinyi and explained why he had not come forward.
The deceased is gone, the living will continue to live, and when is the so-called retribution for wrongs?
As Shen Dianxia said, this is an "unlucky" marriage, which was wrong at the beginning.
No matter how people question or explain it now, everything seems to be a floating cloud for her.
| Nancy
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