Preamble:
Zheng Shaoqiu, the male god in ancient costumes of that era, his name often reminds people of the image of a young man.
However, his acting career not only left too many classic roles on the screen, but also staged an embarrassing show in his relationship.
The film superstar has been married three times in his life and has four children.
However, his four daughters face very different life situations.
The eldest daughter was ignored by him, the second daughter was left behind by him, and the two younger daughters became the pearls of his palm because of the moisturization of their father's love.
These four daughters are also Zheng Shaoqiu's bloodline, but they have experienced very different destinies.
Why is there such a big gap in the same family?
A fruitless first marriage, leaving behind a helpless eldest daughter
20-year-old Zheng Shaoqiu, handsome and chic, is in his youth.
In the acting training class, he met Lu Huiru, who was also a student.
Both of them are outstanding, and soon fell in love and entered the palace of marriage.
Zheng Shaoqiu has just started the road of acting, and Lu Huiru also has a screen dream.
Soon after marriage, Lu Huiru gave birth to her daughter Zheng Anyi.
However, the good times did not last long, and before their daughter was born, there was a crack in their marriage.
The young Zheng Shaoqiu devoted himself to his acting career, often going out to film, ignoring his wife's hard work in pregnancy.
The wife's worries day and night are also deeply hurt by her husband's indifference.
The sweet period of marriage is rapidly cooled, and the spark of love is also gone.
Eventually, the breakdown of trust led to the end of the first marriage, which lasted only a few years.
The burden of raising her young daughter alone fell on Lu Huiru's shoulders alone.
She had to give up all her dreams and focus all her energy on taking care of her daughter.
And Zheng Shaoqiu still wholeheartedly pursues his dream of being an actor, and rarely has time to participate in the raising of his daughter.
He no longer appears by his daughter's side, ignoring the bits and pieces of her growing up.
After the divorce, Zheng Shaoqiu only paid for his daughter's tuition and cut off contact with the mother and daughter.
Little Cheng Anyi thrives in a single-parent family, and her mother's exhaustion and sacrifice have become her unforgettable memory.
She longed for her father's care and companionship, but she could only sketch his handsome appearance in her mind.
My father had already flown high and no longer looked back to look back at this small family.
Zheng Anyi did not have any light from an entertainment family, so she could only rely on her mother.
And her father has gradually drifted away and no longer cares about her growth.
Relying on the shadow of his lover, his acting career is gradually getting better
After Zheng Shaoqiu left his first love wife, he met the popular artist Sen Sen again.
The two quickly fell in love and drank the sweetness of the ambiguous period for days.
However, this relationship was strongly opposed by the woman's family.
Sensen's mother decided that Zheng Shaoqiu was just relying on her daughter's small role, and repeatedly persuaded her daughter to leave this unpromising man.
In the face of the strong intervention of their relatives, the two lost their love road record class.
In the shadow of the breakup, Zheng Shaoqiu was depressed.
He washed his face with tears all day long, unwilling to give up this unforgettable relationship.
In order to save his girlfriend, he appeared in the newspaper to publicly apologize and apologize, and burst into tears.
It's a pity that the decision to break up has been iron-hearted.
Zheng Shaoqiu could no longer wait for the day when Sen Sen changed his mind.
At this time, Sen Sen's friend Shen Dianxia appeared.
She originally intended to hand over the breakup letter for Sen Sen, but in the process, she was gradually moved by Zheng Shaoqiu's bitterness.
A young actor without any foreign aid can make a desperate bet for love, which moved Shen Dianxia.
She chose to ignore the opposition of relatives and friends and recklessly accepted Zheng Shaoqiu, even if it was against women's reserve.
Shen Dianxia is not only beautiful and noble, but also a pillar artist of a popular TV station, with rich resources and wide connections.
She gave all the wealth and popularity she had accumulated in the circle to Zheng Shaoqiu without reservation.
Relying on Shen Dianxia's help, Zheng Shaoqiu soon became the leading actor in many hit dramas.
He is like a fish in water and has successfully gained a place in the entertainment industry.
The identity and resources of a popular actress made him a rising star overnight.
However, when the relationship between the two became stronger and stronger, Zheng Shaoqiu's heart began to waver.
A newcomer named Guan Jinghua became the germ of his new relationship.
A marriage that is carried away by love and blindly united
The sweet ending of love is just around the corner, but Shen Dianxia did not notice the changes hidden in her boyfriend's heart.
She manages the relationship with all her heart, even when the outside world is constantly questioning.
Zheng Shaoqiu frequently did not return home at night, and the traces of secret dating were clearly revealed, but Shen Dianxia chose to turn a blind eye.
She is reluctant to let go of the love in front of her, even if this relationship has changed its taste.
In order to keep Zheng Shaoqiu, she was over 40 years old and mustered up the courage to give birth to her daughter Zheng Xinyi.
Ignoring the doctor's advice, she gambled with her life.
finally ushered in the birth of her daughter, she thought that the shackles of marriage had finally trapped Zheng Shaoqiu's passing heart.
However, the newlywed only lasted a few years, and Zheng Shaoqiu's love for Guan Jinghua was not broken.
He still has a close relationship with Guan Jinghua, and even after Zheng Xinyi was born, the number of times he stayed out has not decreased in the slightest.
Shen Dianxia finally realized that she couldn't match the youthful beauty in front of her.
In order to stay with his sweetheart for the rest of his life, Zheng Shaoqiu resolutely chose to divorce Shen Dianxia.
Quitting the family seemed easy to him, he didn't look back, and put all his enthusiasm into the arms of his new love, Guan Jinghua.
Shen Dianxia gave a woman's most sincere love, but she couldn't exchange it for her husband's eternal loyalty.
She hugged her newborn daughter and parted again in the world.
Years later, when the two reunited on stage, she asked him a question that he didn't insist on, and AS's answer could no longer make up for the wound in her heart.
Not being able to get true love from this man in her life is her indelible pain.
How good my new love treats me, the joy of the two little princesses
Love comes and goes fast.
In a blink of an eye, Zheng Shaoqiu ushered in a grand wedding with Guan Jinghua.
is different from the simple registration with his ex-wife, this time, he is sure that Guan Jinghua is the love of his life.
After marriage, Zheng Shaoqiu took good care of Guan Jinghua and regarded her as the pearl of his palm.
On the other hand, looking back at his past marriage, he can no longer remember his estrangement and indifference to his ex-wife.
He slandered his ex-wife's appearance and talent again and again, and praised Guan Jinghua as his only confidant.
They have two lovely daughters.
To them, Zheng Shaoqiu is a loving father.
The third daughter, Zheng Yongen, has been willful and indulgent since she was a child, and Zheng Shaoqiu is obedient to her and obedient.
She no longer has to endure her father's inattention like her half-sister.
The fourth daughter is the pearl of the family, gentle and knowledgeable.
The love that Zheng Shaoqiu poured into her was enough to compensate for her absence in the past.
Under the warm light of the new love, Zheng Shaoqiu showed the image of a loving father.
There are no painful memories of the past that disregarded the family.
Instead, he cared for the two little princesses like jewels in the palm of his hand.
He used this belated fatherly love to fill up the regrets left in the past.
The mother gave everything for her daughter, but she went back to the old way
If Zheng Shaoqiu was derelict in his first daughter, then he was even more absent in the second daughter Zheng Xinyi.
Shen Dianxia did not hesitate to be humiliated by cuckolding, just to be able to spend one more day with her daughter.
She gave her lifelong maternal love to this daughter, hoping that she would not repeat her mistakes.
However, the good times did not last long, and Shen Dianxia died in a hurry when her daughter was only 21 years old.
Zheng Xinyi was still immersed in the grief of her mother's tragic death, but her father had no greetings and care.
The biological mother's will sealed the property until her daughter was 35 years old, but Zheng Shaoqiu ignored it and didn't care about it anymore.
Zheng Xinyi faced her mother who didn't hesitate and her father who didn't care, and stumbled alone on the road of growth.
She had to interrupt her studies and make a living in the entertainment industry alone.
The surviving mother's love turned into a force in her heart, driving her forward step by step.
Unfortunately, genes and the environment in which she was raised did not let her go.
originally had beauty and talent, but she also repeated her mother's mistakes and suffered repeated setbacks on the road of affection.
She failed to complete her studies and did not make a big breakthrough in the entertainment industry, and her aura faded quickly.
The ending of all this is so similar to that of her mother.
She was growing up with those collisions between love and human nature, how her mother understood and how distressed.
It's a pity that Zheng Shaoqiu no longer has the mental strength to pay attention to this daughter's inner world.
Even a little love from her father may change the direction of her life.
Zheng Xinyi is destined to be alone and complete the final chapter of growth.
Life is a lot of life, and there is a little father's love
No matter how difficult our life experiences may be, the responsibility and gift of fatherly love are always worth remembering.
Zheng Shaoqiu's four daughters, their life trajectories are different, but they are all full of expectations for the father who has been away for many years.
In the years of hard work, he couldn't balance family and emotion.
When he finally found happiness and stability, he could not make up for the debt he owed to his first two daughters.
Each of us is inevitably confused and seeking to grow.
The love of parents, especially the encouraging and supportive gaze of a father, can give a child endless strength.
Zheng Xinyi and Zheng Anyi are both looking forward to their father's love when they are growing up, but they can only describe their father's figure in their hearts.
This shortcoming will always be in their hearts.
Zheng Shaoqiu's story may make people reflect on family and responsibility, and cherish every loved one around them.
A father's love can warm a winter day; The absence of my father will also leave an indelible regret on the road of life.
Every child's heart longs for encouragement and recognition from their father.
Experiencing the sense of responsibility as a father and cherishing every moment with children is a life topic that every man should think about.
Epilogue:
Four daughters, four different lives, the interweaving of their fates has created a family picture of all beings.
Love or not, ask or not, glove and resentment, have all been imprinted.
This is also a bumpy fate that every ordinary family may experience.
Thanksgiving for every encounter in life and carefully managing every bond is the most wonderful wisdom in the world.