Everyone's growth is not smooth sailing, many times, because of some practical reasons, forcing us to grow, just like Pisces people, their hearts are often insecure, therefore, they are eager to keep themselves in a safe environment.
However, if they can't do what they want, then they force themselves to become a hard person, then what are the weaknesses of Pisces?
What are pisces's weaknesses that make you hard?
Pisces often have the innocence and happiness of the initial state when they do not experience "darkness", they are also good at giving, and they do not even know how to defend their hearts.
Many Pisces are often kinder, and they are willing to spread their truth, goodness and beauty to the people around them, but in the heart of Pisces, there are also some weaknesses, they want to guard the innocence and softness of the heart, so they have to become hard and decorate themselves with some kind of hard shell.
Pisces also often in this process, become very different from before, they will gradually become complex, a lot of past losses, keep in mind, in order to protect themselves, many Pisces would rather become a "warrior", to fight.
First, emotional abundance, always on the verge of "lack of love"
Pisces people tend to have richer emotions in their hearts, so even if they get a lot of love, they are always on the verge of "lack of love".
They want so much comfort and companionship, as well as a place where they can play a romantic space, so Pisces especially needs a feeling of being pampered.
It's just that love may be beautiful, but it may also hurt yourself, and Pisces always longs to be loved, and it will also make yourself less independent and strong.
After "groping" in the world of feelings, they may be able to understand that loving anyone is less important than loving themselves, and it can be said that in feelings, they can really grow up.
Second, longing for the stability and safety of life
Pisces people are often a little insecure inside, so they also want their lives to be stable, as if there is a lot of support for themselves.
This is not to say that Pisces is a person who pursues stability, on the contrary, they are eager to expand outwards, it can only be said that Pisces tries to use what they get to build a safe haven for themselves, inside, they do not have to worry about the ups and downs of the outside world.
Therefore, many Pisces will leave a person, leave an environment, this is not that they take the initiative to put themselves in the storm, but, continue to stay where they are, waiting for their own storm.
It can be said that this trait makes Pisces also have a realistic side, and they may do their best to occupy more resources and interests.
Third, the heart is full of dreamy colors
Pisces people are often a person whose heart is full of dreamy colors, that is, they love to "dream", this unrealistic feeling, so that Pisces may be in reality, constantly hit the wall.
They pursue their dreams, and they will also substitute everything into a beautiful imagination, so that when they hit the wall, they may not turn back, and use more hope to support themselves to continue to "hit the south wall".
I have to say that this is the persistent side of Pisces, but also their weakness, because their lives can not be without dreams, and dreams are a "buffer zone" for them to resist external harm, so they must learn how to have a grand spiritual world, but also in line with reality, in this contradiction, forcing themselves to grow up.
Fourth, wake up after injury
Pisces is not a person who is not afraid of being hurt, but when they are still insisting on one thing, they often have a spirit of sacrifice and dedication, and are not afraid to go to the moth to put out the fire.
Sometimes, their sanity is sober, and they even tell themselves over and over again to give up, so when they actually "wake up", Pisces feels relieved.
After they are injured, they will forever engrave this scar in their hearts, so that many Pisces will look very different from their former selves, and they will often become realistic and "selfish" in order to avoid repeating the same mistakes.