Preface
Recently, there has been a hot topic among people, and that is the issue of bride price. With the continuous development of society, people's concepts are also quietly changing, and the traditional bride price culture is gradually being re-examined. Bride price, as an indispensable part of traditional Chinese marriage customs, carries the emotions and expectations of too many people, but because of some special circumstances, it has become an insurmountable hurdle for couples before marriage.
1. The bride price has become an obstacle before the couple gets married
Bride price, as an ancient marriage custom, has existed in China's marriage system since ancient times. In ancient times, the bride price was seen as a kind of financial compensation from the man to the woman, but nowadays, the bride price has gradually evolved into an emotional exchange and blessing between families. Whether in the city or in the countryside, the issue of bride price has attracted much attention, and many people have even lost their money in order to raise the high cost of the bride price, and their lives have been in trouble.
However, with the continuous renewal of social concepts, more and more people have begun to question the bride price culture, believing that marriage should be based on love and respect, not money. Therefore, in real life, more and more couples choose not to pay a bride price, they hope to use the money to improve their quality of life, or to achieve more dreams together.
It is precisely because of the different views on the bride price that the married life of many couples has been affected by this, and some even choose to break up. In their view, the bride price should not be an obstacle between two people, but should become an emotional exchange between families. Therefore, they would rather choose to give up the bride price than hurt each other's feelings for the bride price issue.
Second, Xu Ziqi's road to a wealthy family
In today's society, wealthy marriages have always attracted people's attention, and many people are looking forward to being able to marry into a wealthy family and live a carefree life. Recently, an actress named Xu Ziqi has become the focus of attention because of her wealthy career.
Xu Ziqi, this name is not unfamiliar to many people, she was born in an ordinary family, but she was paved by her mother before she was born to marry into a wealthy family. Since she was a child, Xu Ziqi has received all-round education and training, whether it is study or life, she is exceptionally good and outstanding.
Later, Xu Ziqi was sent by her mother to study in the UK, and it was here that she not only met elites in all aspects, but also unexpectedly met her own Prince Charming, Li Jiacheng. Li Jiacheng, as the eldest grandson of Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, met Xu Ziqi, and the latter was destined to embark on the road to wealth.
After a sweet time in love, Xu Ziqi and Li Jiacheng soon entered the palace of marriage, and their wedding was praised by the outside world as a wedding of the century, and the expenditure of the entire wedding was as high as 1 billion, which can be called extremely luxurious.
After marriage, Xu Ziqi did not become flamboyant and arrogant because of her wealthy status, on the contrary, she has always maintained a low-key and loving view of marriage, and interpreted the maturity and persistence in marriage with practical actions. In her married life, Xu Ziqi also ushered in her "life winner" as she wished, she gave birth to two daughters and two sons successively, and became a veritable "100 billion daughter-in-law".
3. Balance between family background and personal development
For Xu Ziqi, being able to marry into a wealthy family has indeed given her great glory and happiness, and it has also made her life trajectory change dramatically. However, for ordinary people, it is not easy to marry a wealthy family, and for the children of wealthy families, their growth path may have some more "burdens" that others do not have because of the special background of the family.
First of all, it is undeniable that for the children of wealthy families, their growth environment will indeed be affected to a certain extent, and the expectations and pressures of the family may become an "obstacle mountain" on their way forward. Whether it is academic or marriage, the children of wealthy families need to bear more responsibilities and pressures, and their every move often affects the nerves of countless people.
At the same time, in real life, we often hear some negative news about the children of wealthy families, who are either controversial because of their family background, or lack of independent personality because of excessive protection. It can be said that the growth of the children of wealthy families is not smooth sailing, and they need to find their own direction in life through continuous tempering and growth.
For the society, it is precisely for these reasons that we should give more understanding and care to the children of wealthy families, and should not simply attribute everything to their "family background", but should look at their growth and choices with an inclusive attitude.
epilogue
The issue of bride price has always been a problem that has plagued countless people, and the marriage of wealthy families has always been talked about. Xu Ziqi's story may give us some inspiration, whether it is a bride price or a wealthy family, it should not become an insurmountable "roadblock" in life.
Whether it is marriage or life, the most important thing is always to stick to your heart and bravely pursue the happiness and joy you yearn for. I hope that in the future, no matter who you are, you can find your own "true love" in the world of love.
Resources
1. [Xu Ziqi marries into a wealthy family] (https://www.sohu.com/a/285032740_100246161)
2. [Bride price becomes an obstacle to marriage] (https://www.sohu.com/a/285032740_100246161)
3. [Pros and Cons of Wealthy Marriages] (https://www.sohu.com/a/285032740_100246161)