Kan Qingzi once again connotated Ji Lingchen, broke up for more than two years and was resentful, which was more embarrassing than the emotional injury of the former "loyal and honest" breakup became a "scumbag"? At the end of the relationship, there must be one party who splits the legs for the "scum" and cheats on domestic violence to deceive the humanoid marriage... The real scumbag is still bouncing around, in addition to seeing people with eyes, it is more important to grow from feelings

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After more than two years, Kan Qingzi, who gained 8 topics a day because of the sea in the other party's breakup essay, returned to the focus, and this time her keyword became "co-driver".

Not to mention that this explosive stem was originally from Wang Ju, Kan Qingzi, who was sitting on the melon mat, so it was a bit strange to operate, and the stickiness of this time CUE to the ex-boyfriend also made people really look a little confused:

How much revenge and resentment is this?

Kan Qingzi, who has not been able to let go of his old feelings for more than two years, has also triggered a group of fans to continue to nail his former Ji Lingchen to the "scumbag" shame column.

At the end of a relationship, label the other party as "scum", you can understand this unhappiness, but is it really good to pull yourself in the mire so repeatedly?

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Kan Qingzi Ji Lingchen, a former couple, also really let the melons witness their entire process from sweet honey to BE in the reality show.

The two people quarreled and quarreled with each other and got along with each other, which once derived the golden sentence "Kan Qingzi has a thousand reasons to be angry, and Ji Lingchen has ten thousand ways to coax her", envying countless dust girls.

Kan Qingzi, who always makes a small fuss because of various small situations, and "Ji Da Silly", who does not bend in a straight line thinking but is loyal to the dog rake ears, can inexplicably let people substitute feelings, which was once quite a fan of CP.

In particular, Ji Lingchen was also recognized by Liu Tao and Wang Ke's "loyal and honest" seal.

Liu Tao, who has the aura of a virtuous wife, can't help but praise Kan Qingzi for "having vision and being very good at choosing a boyfriend."

At that time, Kan Qingzi had already clearly revealed his hatred for marriage, and he also successfully took the opportunity of the tenth anniversary of the marriage of Liu Tao and his wife to let them all help themselves to publicly promote marriage.

In fact, it is not difficult to see that this problem is the crux of the problem between this sister and brother couple, Ji Lingchen frankly said that he has a vision of going to Paris with Kan Qingzi to hold a wedding, and it should be said that it is also a communication for the purpose of marriage.

It was only 5 years younger that Ji Lingchen's career was just starting out at that time, but he had to take on all the responsibilities of supporting his family alone, and he did not want Kan Qingzi's quality of life to be demoted due to himself, and many concerns made him not have enough courage to propose at that time.

In the face of everyone's coaxing and urging marriage, although Ji Lingchen was embarrassed to shed tears, he still made a promise: I will definitely propose marriage before you are in your thirties.

However, this time limit was forcibly changed by Liu Tao to "propose marriage before Kan Qingzi's 30th birthday".

In fact, when the show was recorded (September 2017), it was only more than half a year before Kan Qingzi's 30th birthday (April 15, 2018), and by the second year there was no movement, and sure enough, the cp who had been very right finally broke up.

On July 31, 2018, the day the two announced their breakup, a screenshot of Kan Qingzi's circle of friends was circulated on the Internet, and the content was obviously spit out: My youth fed the dog.

So rumors flew around, some said that Ji Lingchen cheated and split his legs and was caught raped, and related news was issued, but it was denied by the man, and it was said that in fact, they had already broken up because of the interest binding.

In the end, Kan Qingzi responded with a simple denial on the social platform, and Ji Lingchen forwarded it and sighed a strong literary and artistic fan", "You like the sea, I loved you", and has been ridiculed all the way since.

That legend is kan qingzi's circle of friends spit words, but also became a certificate to ji Lingchen branded "slag".

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For the past love, Kan Qingzi has obviously not been able to let go, not only when she returned to "Dear Inn" in 2019, she had a delicate look when she heard Liu Tao mention "the sea".

In many shows, I can't help cue to the past, saying that the ex is too macho and too strong, and I have to compete with her in my career.

He also repeatedly stressed that he did not have a career in drama for a year after he was on a reality show.

Career stagnation, emotional failure, coupled with the increasing sense of crisis after the age of 30, she has always been trapped in resentment and can not get out.

Although verbally saying that he has grown from his relationship and does not want to waste time and energy for his ex.

But whether it's your most wanted birthday present is a marriage certificate,

Or the harsh words of "I want him to turn on the TV and see all I see" and "let him live in my shadow (the mouth scoop says 'I want to live in his shadow forever')", you can see the inner mustard and care everywhere at all times.

Gritting teeth with hatred, although it is understandable, but there is a saying that many feelings can not go to the step of marriage (not to mention that it is not uncommon to get married and divorced), break up, and it is not that only the other party is too scummy.

Feelings are a matter for both parties, whether they are in love or break up, they can never sing a monologue.

Moreover, the influence of their respective families, the different plans for their careers, the barriers to time and space... Piles and pieces will set up obstacles on the love road.

At this point, the old aunt agreed more with The view of Sami Wang Ziwen - life is obstructed and long, even if the other party loosens his clenched hand in the middle, there is no need to say that ta is a jerk.

After the breakup, smart girls will drag themselves out of the mire first, right?

It is said that Zheng Shuang, who is bunk in the same bedroom with Kan Qingzi, broke up with Zhang Han that year, and also let netizens pity because of the fragile sentimentality she revealed from time to time, Zhang Han once even ate a bowl of beef noodles, which would lead to the debate that "Shuangzi is thin like that, you can still eat it, whether there is humanity".

Wanwan did not expect that the fate of the twists and turns of the bizarre plot did not dare to be so choreographed, zheng Shuang, who was once loved by thousands of people, is now stopped because of the pulling career with Zhang Heng, and whenever she encounters twists and turns, the biggest call of fans is still online call Zhang Han out to "save Xiao Shuang".

Zhang Han also rarely talked about his past feelings again, and couldn't help but cry and regret that "missing is missing" and "many things have not been a second time".

This is the same as being identified as a "scumbag" for a long time after the breakup, and it is already a feeling of being in a trance.

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Of course, not all relationships can end gracefully, and there are indeed many scumbags and scumbags who rely on their former relationship to act in the world of two people.

On April 12, the long-lost Liu Zhoucheng once again rushed to the topic list, and it was still his ex-wife Lin Miao who sent him to soar, because Liu Zhoucheng owed his daughter 4 years of unpaid maintenance after the divorce between the two.

At that time, Liu Zhoucheng's domestic violence during pregnancy caused his ex-wife's miscarriage was also a lot of noise, and the boy group Aidou, who almost disappeared in the entertainment industry, was also shocked by the various behaviors of his ex-wife.

Chen Xiang, who also debuted from the "fast man", also personally demonstrated how to make the paste more mushy with the enigmatic operation idea on the emotional line.

At that time, lonely men and widows with other female artists late at night to squeeze acne, mao Xiaotong, a legitimate girlfriend, although she packed her bags and left decisively on the spot, she still saved face for him and declared a peaceful breakup.

Who knew that Chen Xiang's team also hit a rake backwards, which made Mao Xiaotong announce the inside story of the elevator room surveillance video exposure.

Originally, things were embarrassing enough to get to this point, although Chen Xiang still appeared in some variety shows of the old owner, but the lack of popularity was already a doomed trend.

At the beginning of 2021, Chen Xiang was photographed in a new relationship. At this age, falling in love and starting a family is also a common sentiment of people, I thought that the past turned the page, but I did not expect that I did not know whether the old love Mao Xiaotong had risen steadily through the drama career of "Thirty Only", and he wanted to pull the other party into the mud pit, claiming that he had been wronged and framed in the past.

As a result, Mao Xiaotong revealed the audio recording evidence that he had been keeping, which made him dumbfounded, and at this time, he regretted that he could not eliminate everything he had done.

The enigmatic operation is also the good boy contestant Guo Jiaming of the tomato table next door, who exposed his divorce connotation to his ex-wife, but also tied up Hao Lei to hype "true love".

As a result, not only was it thrown out that hao lei, a good sister who betrayed and promoted herself for the sake of profit, but also hammered out that she had an ex-boyfriend and an ex-boyfriend, and the amount of information was so large that people were unstable, and really could only say a word.

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After all, the scumbags who are obviously morally deficient like the above are still a minority, and more emotional BE may be due to the personalities of the two sides and different ideas. As their own fans or friends, you can stand on your side, but emotional matters always require two hands to applaud, and even a fight requires both sides to work together to disperse.

Speaking of this, I really think of Li Yinghe and Xian Yu Yinshu, senior artists divorced due to misunderstandings and trivialities in "We Are Divorced", who accepted the invitation to spend a few days together one-on-one after more than ten years of separation, trying to face the doubts, anger and resentment accumulated in the past in their hearts, and seeking a clear answer.

Although some of the problems are inevitably a little embarrassing, they are really the real daily life of husband and wife.

For example, Li Yinghe, who loves his friends, even goes with a group of partners for his honeymoon, his wife begins to separate after she becomes pregnant, and she still cooperates as usual with other female artists who are hostile to and provoke her wife, etc., all of which have been stuck in the heart of Yin Shu.

These thorns have accumulated a lot, which will undoubtedly make the more sensitive party hurt unbearable, and Xian Yu Yinshu once wondered whether Li Yinghe's love for him had faded, his feminine charm had ceased to exist, and so on.

Little by little, it is these seemingly trivial details that make the former lover go to the divorce.

But after reuniting after such a long separation, the two people have obviously reflected on the past, and the thick-lined Li Yinghe learns to listen to Yin Shu's wishes, tries to plan a late honeymoon trip to make up for the regrets of that year, takes his ex-wife to Jeju Island to see the sea, take a cruise ship, eat a big meal, and sing for her, and the romance really makes people's eyes wet.

Yin Shu also showed amazing bravery and directness, not only did she carefully dress up every time they met, compared to the shyness of the past, now she dared to express any idea frankly.

Although the chances of two people reuniting in their twilight years are not large, it can be seen from the details of getting along that there is still a flow of feelings.

Their dialogue does not make much sense, but each sentence can feel the experience and introspection of life, as well as the trust, tolerance, understanding and respect that are willing to stand on the other side's side.

When I went to divorce, my feelings must have been broken, and reasonable speculation was inevitable to argue and confront. But fortunately, instead of clinging to their own one-sided experiences in a resentful and hostile mindset, the two sides tried to open their hearts again to communicate.

The other young divorced couples in the show also felt each other's hardships in the marriage relationship more than before when they reunited, and many times apologized for not doing well.

The end of a relationship is sad, but life is like this, and it is inevitable that the gathering and dispersion will continue to play out.

Instead of simply and rudely labeling the other party as "scum" and "bad" but unable to let go of the pain of the past, it is better to put down the knot and try to listen to the real thoughts of the other party, or put yourself in the other person's place to feel the other party's experience at that time.

It really can't be done, you can also be different and two wide and never mention it, at least you don't have to repeatedly uncover the scars and repeat the pain on the one hand, on the other hand, it is inevitable to provoke the doubts of the consumer ex, let the past pass.

Maybe I have really been hurt by feelings, but the only person who can make the wound scabbed is myself. Right?

This article is written by the author as a special author of "Headline Entertainment Jun", today's headlines to see entertainment, a little bit of material depth ~