Not everything has a standard answer.
Looking at the story of the Li family, the heart always mentions the throat eye, their home and the wind and rain, warm and harmonious days are few, and every time the wind and waves are calm, the sun is sunny and sunny, there will always be a storm behind the storm.
For example, this Junjun's "swing fall incident".
After his ex-wife Xiaomei had a boyfriend, Mr. Li was worried that it would be inconvenient for his daughter Junjun to follow Xiaomei, so he took the child to live at home on his own initiative, because of this matter, Xiao Ai also had an unpleasant affair with Mr. Li.
The reason why Xiao Ai did not agree to Junjun's coming to live was very clear, she was very worried that she would not be able to take care of her three children, in case something unexpected was not easy to explain.
However, at that time, Mr. Li forced Xiao Ai to agree, saying that there was a nanny at home, and he, the child would not have a problem, and there was no need for Xiao Ai Guan.
Speaking of this, Xiao Ai had to agree, so JunJun came.
Mr. Li's heartfelt feeling of loving his daughter can be understood, people's hearts are unpredictable, let the daughter live with the stepfather who has no blood, no one will be assured, there is nothing wrong with picking up the child, but the resourceful Mr. Li ignored a problem - Xiao Ai is a pregnant woman.
The three children are all lively and playful, and it is not realistic for a pregnant woman to look forward to three lively children, because the risk is uncertain.
The three children swung the swing in the garden, when the brother pushed Junjun, the younger sister Yingying did not push lightly and heavily in the back, this sudden increase in the help, so that the swing flew high, Junjun fell from above because of fear.
When the story saw here, my heart sank, my heart was broken, Huang Xiaoai's stepmother stall was a big deal.
Sure enough, after seeing the same father and mother Jun jun crying incessantly, Yao Yao immediately called Mr. Li, in fact, Xiao Ai, an adult, would not have the ability to deal with emergencies? Yao Yao called her father, one is that the child instinctively finds the closest person when things happen; the other is that he does not trust Xiao Ai, he is afraid that Xiao Ai will delay Junjun.
Junjun was injured, Xiao Ai was full of self-blame and guilt, so she raced against the clock to take Junjun to the hospital, in order to save time, she did not even care about changing slippers, although the author did not have much ink to describe Xiao Ai's mood, but it is not difficult to understand, she is nervous and anxious, the stepdaughter came and was injured, which makes Mr. Li think? How to explain it to Mr. Lee?
After the doctor's diagnosis, Junjun's hand was only slightly cracked, and it was good to apply the medicine on time and slowly recuperate, which made Xiao Ai's hanging heart a little calmer.
But it was time to hide, Mr. Li seriously asked Xiao Ai how the child was injured, Xiao Ai seriously described the incident, mr. Li blamed Xiao Ai after listening to it, why he did not look favorably on Yingying.
Some things are unexpected, invincible, even if accompanied by a hundred careful, a little negligence will lead to a big mistake, even if Mr. Li was present at that time, it may not be able to overcome the danger, because it is sudden.
The stepmother was difficult to be, did not let Junjun come over, Mr. Li blamed her for being narrow-minded, lacking in love, and not understanding him; the child came, and as a result, she was injured, and Mr. Li blamed her for poor care and lack of responsibility.
Because Yao Yao and Jun Jun are not Xiao AiSheng, as long as these two children have problems, it must be Huang Xiao Ai's mistake, and "stepmother" is the original sin.
Junjun was injured, Xiao Ai passed Mr. Li's pass, at least two more levels, and then Xiaomei came.
Yao Yao called Xiao Mei and told her that JunJun was injured, Xiao Mei immediately rushed over after learning the news, she wanted to take Jun Jun back, she came with an attitude of inquisition, she could ignore the child, but she must not watch the child being wronged here in Xiao Ai.
Because Xiaomei had recently made a big fuss about throwing plates at Li's house, Mr. Li and Xiaomei agreed not to enter the house again, and when Yao Yao learned that his mother Xiaomei could not enter the house, he played with Xiao Ai's temper.
Yao Yao first blamed Xiao Ai for not looking at Yingying, causing Jun Jun to be injured, and then blamed Xiao Ai for not letting her mother come into the house, Xiao Ai said that this is your father's decision, Yao Yao is very firm to say that my father will not restrict my mother from coming in, the implication is that Xiao Ai blocked her mother.
Yao Yao is very smart, there is something wrong, he knows that his mother Xiaomei came to the house to make trouble, but every time he encounters something, he is on his mother's side, he still has a grudge against Xiao Ai, subconsciously thinking that Xiao Ai occupies his mother's position and destroys the integrity of the family.
The thorn in the child's heart should be pulled out early, hoping that Mr. Li can clearly tell Yao Yao that even if it is not Huang Xiaoai, he will marry other women, only by letting the child recognize the truth, the child can abandon unrealistic fantasies and start a new life.
Unlike Yao Yao's stubbornness, Jun Jun behaved very normally about her injury, she did not blame Xiao Ai and Yingying, this kind little girl said that Yingying did not deliberately push her, she was willing to stay here, did not want to return to Xiaomei's side.
The child's attitude is the most real, JunJun likes this side, indicating that Xiao Ai's stepmother has done a good job, just imagine if Xiao Ai breaks the horse Zhang Fei and loves to ignore it, will the child be reluctant to leave here?
In the end, it was Mr. Li who brought Xiaomei into the house, and afterwards, Xiao Ai asked Mr. Li if he didn't say that he would not let Xiaomei come back to the house? Mr. Li said that for everyone's face to look good, in fact, he was cruel to his ex-wife.
Seeing that her daughter was injured, Xiao Mei also questioned why Xiao Ai did not look favorably on Yingying, and the voiceover was that Xiao Ai did not care about Junjun, and had a suspicious heart, Xiao Ai retorted, you are also going to get married, but want to see how well you and your stepson can get along in the future.
There is no empathy in this world, only I have experienced it, I know the taste, Xiaomei has now experienced the hardships of being a stepmother, so this time, everyone found that no, Xiaomei did not make a big fuss with Xiao Ai.
She left her temper to Mr. Li, who she believed was Mr. Li's decision to divorce, which caused the separation of the children, and also forced her to face the difficult choice of remarriage, suppressing a generous and gentle gesture to be a stepmother for other people's children.
Mr. Li did not hide, did not resist, he let his ex-wife vent, in his heart, there should be guilt for Xiaomei, right? If he hadn't been in a hurry to get a divorce, would the personalities of the two parties have gotten along better as he gets older?
On the occasion of separation, Mr. Li instructed Xiaomei to say two words: First, your personality should be changed, otherwise you will not be happy when you remarry; second, look after your children and wallet.
Despite the divorce, but there is a pair of children, coupled with the cooperation between the two companies, he and Xiaomei will not cut off contact, so he also hopes that Xiaomei will be happy in the future.
Junjun went back, although she didn't like to go back, but she didn't have a choice, nor did she have the ability to choose; Yao Yao seemed to be good for her sister, but in fact she helped.
JunJun was injured this time, Yao Yao, Xiao Mei, and Mr. Li all blamed Xiao Ai for not looking at Yingying, if such a thing happened between relatives and sisters, would everyone have such a big reaction?
Small children bumping into each other in ordinary people's homes is not a big deal, but because it is a second-married family, even the smallest problems will be infinitely magnified, because in the hearts of others, people without blood cannot become one.
This is the embarrassment of a second marriage!
Summary: If you are not married, please choose the second marriage carefully, if in the second marriage, please be confused, a little more atmospheric, a little patient, so that you will be happier.
Friends and friends, Junjun was injured, Xiao Ai experienced Mr. Li's rebuke, Xiaomei's reprimand, yao yao's questioning, but she still has a level to pass? Can you think of what this level is? Welcome to leave a message!