Without Qiu Porcelain Xuan, who can know Yu Xiaoguang?
"For me who have no family and friends alone in my hometown and can only be busy with work alone, your appearance is the biggest surprise given to me by Heaven, and now I am ready to propose to you, in the next life, do you want to marry me too?"
This is what Qiu Cixuan said to her husband Yu Xiaoguang at her wedding in 2019. Nowadays, it seems that one sentence is more ironic than another.
At the Korean wedding scene of Yu Xiaoguang Qiu Porcelain Xuan, Qiu Porcelain Xuan cried like tears in his speech on the spot. She broke the traditional custom of proposing marriage to the woman, and proposed to her husband Yu Xiaoguang on the spot.
I thought that this fairy love Qiu CiXuan had finally found the right person. Until July this year, the media photographed Yu Xiaoguang indulging a strange woman sitting on his lap in the car. The two of you and I are in the car, so intimate.
After the photos of the suspected cheating were posted online by reporters, the matter quickly fermented. Many people accused Yu Xiaoguang of "having no heart", knowing that he had a family and a wife and could not control himself from going out to steal.
Yu Xiaoguang's response was understated: Don't worry, just neighbors.
For a while, all the public opinion on the Internet was pointed out by Qianfu, and Qiu Cixuan was distressed by the whole network. Because the first half of this woman's life was so miserable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > the tragic childhood of Qiu Porcelain Xuan being oppressed by a "son-preference" family</h1>
In 1979, in a small family in Daegu, South Korea, an unpopular baby girl fell to the ground. Before the baby could make her first cry, the baby's grandmother showed a disgusted look: "How is it a girl?"?
This girl is Qiu Porcelain Xuan.
When Qiu Cixuan was just born, Qiu Cixuan's mother was very weak. At that time, the conditions at home were not good, the nutrition of the mother could not keep up, and the birth itself was a matter of "walking a ghost door", it was difficult to carry it over, who expected to work hard to give birth to only one girl.
Autumn porcelain dazzling childhood photos
Grandma Qiu Cixuan watched her daughter who had just given birth and turned around and left, without the slightest regard for the love between mother and daughter. In a small family like theirs, if they can't give birth to a son, they don't deserve the care of their elders.
Qiu Porcelain's mother lay on the bed and left silent tears.
Because it was a girl, whether it was Qiu Cixuan's mother or father, or grandparents, no one liked her. Since she was a child, she would look at the eyes of her elders and try to do more dirty work to please them.
Knowing that her mother was pregnant again, everyone thought that this time she was finally a boy, and as a result, Qiu Cei Xuan had a sister.
Grandma completely drew a line with Qiu Porcelain's mother, and she couldn't give birth to a daughter of her son.
The arrival of her sister gave Qiu Porcelain's lonely childhood a glimmer of light. They played together and dressed in nice clothes together.
At this time, misfortune happened to Qiu Porcelain Xuan again. Her sister went to the river alone to play without an adult by her side.
Out of the child's curiosity about the water, Qiu Cixuan's sister went straight to the deepest part of the water, until the river flooded over her head, and the little people in the water gradually lost their breath.
Her sister accidentally drowned, and Qiu Cixuan's mother could not withstand the blow of insanity, and she angrily scolded the eldest daughter in front of her: "Why don't you die for her"?
"If I had known, I'd rather die for her..."
In this family, there has long been no place for autumn porcelain dazzling. Looking at her mad mother and indifferent father, she decided to go outside.
A girl without the support of her parents, wandering alone, in addition to the craftsmanship, in South Korea's "three stars within one step" small place, Qiu Porcelain Xuan with a sweet appearance was successfully discovered by the scouts.
In 1995, Qiu Porcelain Xuan shot his first commercial.
After making her first money shooting commercials, her life slowly improved. "You can make a lot of money as an artist", but Qiu Cixuan thought to himself.
In 1996, just when Qiu Porcelain Xuan could gradually earn money at home, his parents decided to divorce. She had long felt that her parents were not very loving, and that the family was too cold.
The mother called Qiu Cixuan to the front: "You are still very beautiful, if you have anything you want to do, try to do it."
Hearing this, her tears flowed uncontrollably one drop at a time. This was the first time qiu porcelain Xuan felt the warmth of his mother.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="99" > the acting path of "Two-Faced Goddess". </h1>
After her parents divorced, she had no home at all. Rent in South Korea is very expensive, and she has very little money on hand, but her life will continue, because the agency wants her to star in the youth idol drama "Growing Up Feeling 18 Years Old".
The heroine is the popular "goddess" Song Huiqiao throughout Korea. Qiu Porcelain Xuan tried to memorize his lines. She's memorizing lines while other actors are resting, and she's memorizing lines when other actors are eating. She knows that the opportunity to be able to act is not easy to come by, and she must firmly grasp it every time.
Kung Fu pays off. "The Feeling of Growing Up 18 Years Old" was successfully broadcast, in addition to the beautiful and moving heroine Song Huiqiao, the audience also noticed the handsome newcomer actor next to Song Huiqiao.
With this drama, Qiu Porcelain Xuan successfully debuted.
In 1997, Qiu Cehuaxuan put aside all distractions and desperately tried to be admitted to the drama department of Dankook University in South Korea. She has long planned her future life path: acting, becoming an actor, and making a lot of money.
When Chinese audiences mentioned Qiu Porcelain Xuan, the most impressive thing was the "Pin Ru" corner of "The Temptation to Go Home".
In fact, before "Pin Ru", she had filmed many Chinese TV dramas, and the male actors who partnered were all big names in the industry such as Peng Yuyan, Chen Haomin and so on.
In 2003, the company informed Qiu Ceceler that she was filming and told her that the other actor was Chinese.
Qiu Cixuan immediately made a mistake.
Language barrier, inability to communicate, inability to understand lines. How can two foreigners shoot a scene together?
But the company specified that Qiu Porcelain Xuan starred, and she was helpless and went to the crew with a hard scalp.
Peng Yuyan Qiu's drama is called "Love Incense". The plot tells the story of a pair of lovers who fell in love in a past life who could not be together for various reasons, until in this life they met again and overcame all kinds of difficulties and finally held hands and succeeded.
During the filming of "Love Xiang", Peng Yuyan Qiu Porcelain Xuan unexpectedly co-produced. The two held hands intimately on the shooting scene, like old friends.
Qiu Cixuan recalled: "Peng Yuyan's figure is really good."
Due to the shadow of her sister's accidental drowning, Qiu Cixuan is afraid of everything related to the ocean. A scene in "Love Xiang" requires actors to dive into the seabed and shuttle through the undersea tunnel.
Qiu Cixuan was so frightened that her whole body trembled, she gritted her teeth, put on her wetsuit and went deep into the seabed, this scene lasted for 3 hours.
No one's success is inevitable.
There has never been a shortage of beautiful women in Korean show business. But all directors who are a little famous like to use a good-looking little girl who has just debuted, and the audience will have a sense of freshness.
After Qiu Porcelain Hyun filmed in South Korea for several years, there were fewer and fewer directors looking for her, and she was angry. Eat by beauty, and eat youth rice forever.
Qiu Porcelain is not dazzling, she has to rely on strength.
In 2011, a Chinese urban emotional script "The Temptation to Go Home" caught qiu celery's attention. Enough dog blood plot and complex character relationships, the humble patience of the heroine in the early stage to reverse the counterattack in the later stage, these selling points are enough to make this drama a big hit.
Qiu Celery chose to play the role of "Lin Pinru" in the play.
At that time, the relationship between the characters in this drama was more complicated. The actor relationship is also complicated. The male protagonist is a mainland actor, the female protagonist Cho Cho Cho Hyun is a Korean actor, and the daughter is Cantonese.
On the set, the three people acted in a language barrier and couldn't understand what the other actor was saying.
Later, the male protagonist of this drama, Ling Xiaosu, was criticized by the audience for his poor acting skills and sluggish eyes. In fact, Ling Xiaosu couldn't understand what his partner was saying, so he always had an expressionless look in the play.
After the broadcast of "The Temptation to Go Home", the ratings rose steadily, but at that time, some people questioned that "The Temptation to Go Home" copied the Korean drama "The Temptation of the Wife".
The two dramas not only have similar plots, but even the wedding dress patterns of the actors when they get married are exactly the same. The main actor in the play, Qiu Porcelain Xuan, has also received a lot of criticism.
The career in China is not too good, and overall it is barely strong.
Qiu Cecele recalls the time when he came to China alone: "It was very lonely, and when he came back from filming, he sat alone on the sofa and had no friends."
Even though he took back all kinds of trophies and got all the honors, but came back without a person who could share the joy, Qiu Porcelain's loneliness is probably "Gu Ying's self-pity after the prosperity falls".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="101" > the man named Yu Xiaoguang. </h1>
In 2012, the light of autumn porcelain dazzling appeared.
This man's name was Yu Xiaoguang.
In 2012, director Ye Zhaoyi took the script "The Happy Time of spicy girlfriends" and found Qiu Cexuan, who was filming in the crew, and she hoped that Qiu Cexuan would play the heroine "Yang Hong" in the play.
Qiu Cixuan gladly agreed. In the crew, she met a "stunned qing" Yu Xiaoguang.
At first, the two people who entered the crew did not speak the same language, and each brought a translator to communicate.
She found that Yu Xiaoguang's eyes were always looking at him in a daze.
Qiu Cixuan thought that Yu Xiaoguang was not a serious person, and he hardly communicated with him in the crew except for filming.
There is a scene where the male and female protagonists go to the beach to play, and the atmosphere is that the two want to kiss. The kiss scene is not difficult for Qiu Porcelain, but Yu Xiaoguang obviously has no experience on the other side.
The male protagonist took the initiative to kiss the female protagonist, the director shouted "start", and Yu Xiaoguang's ears were all red and did not come over.
After trying this five or six times, Yu Xiaoguang never dared to kiss Qiu Cixuan. The director shouted "click" over and over again, and Qiu Porcelain Xuan was a little angry.
She ran over to the director and said, or I will take the initiative to kiss him.
The director thought about it, and it was not impossible.
The kiss scene at the beach was the first time Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Porcelain Xuan kissed, and later talked about the topic of "first kiss" in "Same Bed and Different Dreams", Yu Xiaoguang revealed that he was really nervous that year, and did not dare to kiss Qiu Porcelain Xuan.
Pure love men win the heart of their sister the most, and this sentence is indeed correct.
Since the crew had physical contact with Qiu Cixuan, Yu Xiaoguang was like opening a trick, pestering Qiu Cixuan every day to ask this and that.
The two slowly became acquainted in the crew, and at this time Qiu Cixuan knew that Yu Xiaoguang was originally from 1981, two years younger than himself.
Yu Xiaoguang did not need a translator to communicate with Qiu Cixuan in the later period, he said: "Qiu Cixuan can understand his eyes."
"The Happy Time of the Spicy Girlfriend" was soon finished. Qiu Porcelain Xuan gathered his spirits and prepared to devote himself to the next drama.
I thought that I and Yu Xiaoguang would no longer intersect, but Qiu Porcelain Xuan, who returned home late after filming, could always get text messages from Xiaoguang on her mobile phone.
He greeted him on the other side of his phone, sent good morning on time in the morning, and sent goodnight on time in the evening.
A person who has been lonely for a long time is always eager to be cared for by others. Chatting with each other every day and night, Qiu Cixuan began to feel that Yu Xiaoguang was different from others.
She will take time out of her phone to reply to someone's message during her break, and she will also be frustrated when the phone does not receive a message.
Qiu Cixuan actually cared very much, the two people were exotic, and she was two years older than Yu Xiaoguang.
Yu Xiaoguang said such a sentence: "Age is not a problem, love depends on feelings, it is eye contact." Qiu Porcelain Xuan was instantly at ease.
After being in love for a long time, I want a proper name.
China's Spring Festival is coming soon, Qiu Cixuan because of work or do not go to South Korea, she has no relatives in South Korea, back to go back is still alone.
Yu Xiaoguang asked Qiu Cixuan: "Is it necessary to see your parents during the Spring Festival?"?
"Yes".
"Then come home with me to see Mom and Dad."
Yu Xiaoguang's parents listened to What happened to Qiu Cixuan and were very sympathetic to the girl their son brought back. They decided to treat Qiu Cixuan as their own daughter.
In "Same Bed, Different Dreams", Qiu Cixuan is in the same frame as Yu Xiaoguang's parents, and Yu Xiaoguang is the one with the worst family status. If there is anything delicious, the mother-in-law will leave it for the daughter-in-law to eat first, and Qiu Cixuan will affectionately call the mother-in-law "mother".
She really regarded Yu Xiaoguang's parents as her own biological parents.
The affection that she did not get in her childhood lies in Xiaoguang's home, and she feels the warmth of the family.
"Interactions that are not carried out for the purpose of marriage are hooligans." Yu Xiaoguang's care for himself and the warmth given to him by his family made Qiu Porcelain feel that he had finally found a sense of belonging.
She said, "If I were to get married, I would have to marry this person."
Yu Xiaoguang was full of anticipation and preparing to propose. The two people went through a lot of hardships to come together. Qiu Porcelain Xuan traveled thousands of miles from South Korea to China to develop, and Yu Xiaoguang just met Qiu Porcelain Xuan in the crew of "The Happy Time of spicy girlfriend".
All coincidences are like fate.
Before proposing, Yu Xiaoguang prepared a lot of words, he wanted to tell Qiu Cixuan that it was not easy to come this way, to talk about his love for her, and as a result, the two people looked at each other, and Yu Xiaoguang cried.
All the links of the marriage proposal during the rehearsal process were useless, and the two people handed themselves over to each other in tears.
Qiu Porcelain's mother-in-law took out an heirloom. She put a large gold bracelet on her daughter-in-law's hand at home: "You two must be happy and happy, and go on well."
In 2015, the two officially received their licenses and did not hold a wedding immediately due to work reasons.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="173" > "good man" set collapse</h1>
In 2019, the Korean reality show "Same Bed, Different Dreams" invited Qiu Porcelain To participate in the recording.
The show begins by revealing details of the couple's upcoming wedding.
"Same Bed, Different Dreams" is probably the peak of Yu Xiaoguang's career, during which he is not hot at all in China.
Qiu Porcelain Hyun brought him to the show, and the two quickly became popular throughout Korea through sweet and loving marital interaction.
Yu Xiaoguang's plastic Korean and his good man image made Korean audiences crazy for him for a while.
With "Same Bed, One Dream", he also filmed the first car endorsement advertisement in South Korea. You know, shooting commercials in South Korea is a treatment that only top Korean actors can have.
At the age of 37, Yu Xiaoguang became a first-line Chinese actor in South Korea with his wife Qiu Porcelain Xuan, similar to the grand situation of Lee Min-ho on China's Spring Festival Gala that year.
In the variety show, Yu Xiaoguang contracted all the laughs of the whole show.
Yu Xiaoguang: "I will not work in the future, and I will take care of you and your children at home."
Qiu Cixuan quickly shook his head: "No, husband, I like you to earn money."
Another time, Qiu Cixuan saw that her husband was unhappy and ran over to ask him what was wrong.
Yu Xiaoguang bowed his head and did not speak.
Qiu Cixuan asked again, only to see Yu Xiaoguang rubbing his fingers to make a movement of counting money: "I want to increase pocket money."
Qiu Cixuan sat on the edge of the sofa and looked at Yu Xiaoguang very wordlessly.
In "The Same Bed, Different Dreams", the two ushered in a small life named "The Sea".
Qiu Cixuan wanted to eat Chinese breakfast during her pregnancy, and Yu Xiaoguang got up early in the morning to buy small dumplings and soy milk for him.
Looking at the degree of care and love for his wife in the show, he couldn't imagine that Yu Xiaoguang would cheat.
In the variety show, Qiu Cixuan asked Yu Xiaoguang, if you cheated on other women, what would you do?
Yu Xiaoguang swore an oath and replied: The same will end. He also reassured his wife that he would not cheat.
In fact, as early as 2016, Yu Xiaoguang was photographed by the media holding hands with another strange woman. The palms of the two are clenched, and the relationship is very close.
At that time, it was only one year before Qiu Cixuan and Yu Xiaoguang received their licenses.
As early as the show, Qiu Cixuan wrote a marriage contract, which stated that if divorced, the house would belong to himself and his children.
She said that Korean men say that men change after marriage.
Yu Xiaoguang made Qiu Cixuan believe in himself. Qiu Cixuan responded firmly: No, I don't believe you.
Yu Xiaoguang's face was a livid blue, maybe he was sad that his wife didn't believe him, or maybe he was thinking about the stupid things he had done.
As the saying goes: always walk by the river, which can not get wet shoes.
What a woman can't accept is not that her husband cheated in marriage and fell in love with another woman, but when the two people were in love, they clearly said that they only loved me in this life, gave him hope and warmth, and finally turned around and saw that all this was a joke.
After the derailment incident, Qiu Cixuan came forward to respond: Yu Xiaoguang's behavior will indeed be misunderstood, I have criticized him for his improper behavior and behavior, and he himself is reflecting and blaming himself.
Yu Xiaoguang apologized: I know that no matter how this matter is explained, no one will believe it. Qiu Cixuan loved me and tolerated me so much, but I made her sad. As a husband and father, I will pay more attention to my words and deeds in the future.
Yu Xiaoguang's good man set up collapsed overnight, and all Chinese netizens were upset about Qiu Porcelain.
After south Korean netizens learned of this matter, they supported Qiu Porcelain Xuan and criticized Yu Xiaoguang for not being responsible for the family and not worthy of being Qiu Porcelain Xuan's husband and father of the child.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="178" > conclusion</h1>
I have seen a topic before: what kind of performance will girls who lack love behave in love.
Warmth and affection are things that a girl who lacks love has never felt in the first half of her life, so when she first starts a relationship, she will hesitate and be unconfident.
Waiting until she really starts to trust her partner means that she feels safe from the other person, and she wants to give her life to the man in front of her.
The story of Qiu Cixuan is the story of a girl who lacks love and thinks that she has found true love, but she is scum and scum by the other party.
The feeling is that there is basically no one right and who is wrong, feeling that the other party says that they don't love you anymore, and you don't even have a way. You have to remember that if you can give it up, you deserve better.