A person's emotional intelligence is too low, essentially because the ability to love is too poor, and they don't love themselves enough.
People who do not love themselves enough will have all kinds of negative emotions and live a very unhappy, unhappy, unhappy life.
Such a person also does not have the ability to bring happiness, happiness, happiness to others.
He's like a black hole with negative energy. In the relationship, either blindly ask the other party to provide him with emotional value and make him happy. Either they over-give, sacrifice, with calculations, hoping to give a point to get ten, if not, it will immediately turn into resentment, hatred.
With such a person, the other party will feel very tired. Because no one likes to be smoked. After a long time, the other party will leave.
Then, he feels abandoned and falls into victim mode.
Such a person, the road to affection will generally be particularly unsmooth.
However, if he does not awaken and cannot recognize the truth, he will constantly blame the outside world, blame others for being bad to him, and hurt him.
Honey, wake up, who hurt you? All your misfortunes are essentially because you are not self-loving enough. The world is nothing but a projection of your heart outward.
If you don't love yourself, the world won't love you. You love yourself, and the whole world will love you.
The world is beautiful, the world is worth it. May all things in heaven and earth and all sentient beings be auspicious and prosperous!
--Liu Yusi Angela
