The starting point of fate.
Many things are ambiguous.
Two people are in the "blind spot".
You don't know if the other person loves you.
In the same way, the other person does not know what you really think.
Most of the interactions between the two sides are carried out in self-speculation and careful temptation.
If it goes well, the men and women may clear the fog.
From then on, the fate of two people will usher in an opportunity for sublimation and make the relationship between each other more stable.
There is also a possibility that two people may have many misunderstandings in their speculation. In the end, the fate of each other came to an abrupt end, and this situation is really a pity.
The relationship between men and women has "crossed the line", and the subconscious can't deceive people.
If you encounter these situations, then everyone, you must know that the two sides are no longer ordinary friends.
01
There are too many non-essential appointments
Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang are colleagues.
They often work together, work late, and share lunch.
Even on weekends, we meet frequently.
Although they insisted, it was pure friendship.
But colleagues and friends can feel that the two are dating.
Shakespeare said:
"When each other occupies an important position in life, it is no longer pure friendship."
If there is frequent, unnecessary contact between men and women.
This contact may take the form of frequent phone calls, social interactions, or frequent meetings.
The interaction between two people has gone beyond the normal scope.
Such frequent contacts may suggest that the relationship between the two sides has long "crossed the line".
02
Psychological dependence
When the relationship between a man and a woman "crosses the line".
Both parties tend to become emotionally dependent.
For example, they tend to confide their inner thoughts and feelings to the other person.
This kind of interaction, beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends, represents entering a deeper emotional level.
There is such a case:
Xiaoli and Xiaozhao are college classmates, and they help each other in their studies.
Over time.
Xiaoli finds herself more and more dependent on Xiao Zhao, whether it is happy or sad, she wants to share it with Xiao Zhao.
And Xiao Zhao is also willing to listen and give her comfort and support.
Ms. Yang Jiang once said: "One of the manifestations of emotional sublimation is psychological dependence. ”
When dependence becomes habit, then men and women are no longer ordinary friends.
03
Physical contact is frequent
Freud said:
"Body language is the mirror of the mind."
Changes in physical contact can most directly reflect the subtle changes in the relationship between men and women.
For example.
Xiao Liu and Xiao Chen have been friends for many years.
All along, they have been referred to as "buddies".
However, at a recent meeting, they noticed that they began to touch each other's arms and shoulders frequently.
This kind of physical contact makes them feel a little embarrassed, but it is also difficult to resist.
Physical contact is a sensitive part of interpersonal relationships.
When a relationship between a man and a woman "crosses the line", their physical contact tends to become more frequent.
This change may start with a slight touch and gradually develop into more intimate gestures such as hugging and holding hands.
"Crossing the line" is a complex topic.
However, by observing three subconscious signs:
Frequent non-essential contact, emotional dependence, and subtle changes in physical contact. Through these, we can accurately judge the true state of the relationship between two people.
At the same time, everyone should also be aware.
True friendship and love need to be based on mutual respect and understanding. When a relationship "crosses the line", we should face it bravely and seek the right way to interact.
Emotionally original, warm words. From the perspective of psychology, I analyze the thousands of emotions and hope that my article can bring you a different feeling. Thank you for your continued attention, and having you by your side on the creative road is the biggest motivation.