Love requires the efforts and efforts of both parties, and the love that runs in both directions can blossom and bear fruit.
If one party gives without a bottom line, and the other party naturally accepts, to a certain extent, the person who has been giving will turn around.
And everyone who turned away had stood in the wind for a long time. It is not that they do not love, but that they love too lowly, and love so much that they lose themselves.
No one is willing to take the initiative to give up a relationship that has been in business for so long, but if the person who is loved has always been fearless, and someone will accompany him unconditionally, without cherishing or paying, then no matter how much love will choose to let go.
On February 11, in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, a newly engaged couple walked into a mobile phone store, and the boy wanted to buy a mobile phone. In the process of choosing a mobile phone, the two people were unhappy because of disagreement, and the girl turned and left.
The boy took a fancy to a mobile phone, very advanced look, the configuration is also very good, the boy asked about the price, the clerk said that the phone is 18,000. The girl felt a little expensive and advised the boy not to buy it, but the boy insisted on buying it.
The boy said that many of his colleagues use this phone, and if he does not buy one, it will be very faceless. The girl said the phone was so expensive that it wasn't something the two of them could afford, so the boy thought it through.
The boy said don't think about it, you want this one. The girl saw that the boy insisted on buying it, and said to him: "My family wants you to give a dowry of 66,000, I think you are not easy, it hurts you, only to reduce the bride price to 20,000, but you have to buy such an expensive mobile phone." ”
The boy still did not listen to the girl's persuasion, and stubbornly said: "I will buy it today, and it is uncomfortable for me not to buy it." ”
The girl said: "You bought this mobile phone, how big is the burden on the two of us!" ”
The boy said: "It's a big deal to save money for a few months, so I saved the mobile phone money, and I bought the mobile phone." ”
Girls see boys with such an attitude and feel very sad. The boy did not feel sorry for her at all, only to meet his own needs, the girl understood everything in a moment, suddenly her heart was like a backwater, she did not want to say anything, turned and left.
Netizens saw the girl's departing back, and they were all distressed.
Some netizens said: This is still early to divide it, too selfish, and it may not be a moth in the future.
Some netizens said: He is not not distressed, but he will not hurt you, he is not ignorant of human feelings, just do not understand your family, he is not not messy, but not for you, he is not not going to consider the feelings of others, but will not consider your feelings.
Some netizens said: Such a man can leave. It's not that you can't take it, it's that you don't deserve that price in his heart, and the value of a person is not as good as a mobile phone and a face. alas. Now it's no wonder that many girls don't want to get married, and rightly so. Believe that you will always meet the person who cherishes you and loves you.
Netizens feel that their fiancées are angry and run away, and the man is still clutching the mobile phone in his hand and is reluctant to put it, such a man has no fiancée in his heart, is an extremely selfish man, and is not worth entrusting for life.
In this relationship, the two of them are not equal, and the girl obviously belongs to the side that seeks perfection. Considering all aspects of the boy, she felt that it was not easy for him to make money, and voluntarily reduced the bride price to twenty thousand, while the boy did not appreciate it.
A mobile phone of 18,000, equivalent to the bride price of marrying a wife, can only say that this man is really too selfish. Maybe he didn't love the girl at all, but just thought she was cheap and wanted to be with her.
Therefore, when a girl is in love, don't believe too much in the man's rhetoric, he just casually said that he forgot, but it depends on whether he is willing to pay for you and how much he is willing to pay.
The love of hearing is unreliable, and it is necessary to use time to understand a person's character, after all, this is related to a lifetime of happiness.