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If you want to talk about which champion's quotes impressed you the most during the Beijing Winter Olympics, it is Gu Ailing.
In the face of doubts, Gu Ailing confidently said that if someone doesn't like me, then it is their loss. They can't be Olympic champions.
Gu Ailing, an 18-year-old, is an authentic post-00s, she won the gold medal with a score of 188.25 points in the freestyle ski jumping competition at the Beijing Winter Olympics.
"Be yourself and I'll be satisfied"
Such correct values are worth learning from everyone.
Do you like yourself?
If your answer is "yes", then congratulations, you have a happy and happy life, and the most critical start.
Liking yourself, accepting yourself, loving yourself, is always the beginning of everything.
Accept your appearance, figure, bravely face the situation and experience you are in, maintain the enthusiasm of life, cherish the temperature of the soul, and firmly believe in the power of equality and tolerance, virtue and goodwill.
Other people's mouths will always grow on others, you can't control it, and you can't help it.
Sticking to one's own beliefs is the true sobriety of the world.
In the entertainment industry, there are not a few female stars with similar values.
Their lives are equally wonderful.
(1) Tao Hong, the winner of life, has been praised for her rational values
Tao Hong can be said to be a winner in life.
When she was young, she was a beautiful girl with peach blossom eyes and big silkworms, and she was rushed by China Opera and Nortel.
In 2011, a fashion magazine ran for The Smartest, Sexiest and Most Fashionable Female Idol in China, and Tao Hong ranked first in a row.
A proper teenage idol when she was young, after marrying director Xu Zheng, she also gained steady happiness.
Playing a supporting role in "Little Joy", you can get the magnolia female support, which is really the life of the heroine of Shuangwen.
Sister Tao Hong not only had a good life, but also dared to speak out.
In an interview, Tao Hong said frankly when talking about actresses of the same age that in fact, mature actresses have always had the problem of not acting at a certain age.
She believes that this is not a simple trouble for female stars in the film and television circle, but in fact, it is an act that the entire nation and society ignore or do not respect enough for certain things!
If the culture of young girls prevails, it indicates the immaturity and naivety of men.
Tao Hong was never a little princess who grew up in the greenhouse, but a very thoughtful, independent and sober queen.
In today's society that advocates the "white, thin, and young aesthetics" and the prevalence of girlish culture, she dares to directly say the problems that exist in the core of society and negate the stereotypical definition of female images.
That's the courage that a lot of people don't have.
Sometimes, the so-called standard answers about beauty that society brings to women often limit women's development like a shroud.
Beauty, there is never a standard answer.
Loving yourself and facing yourself is true beauty.
(2) The midlife crisis has never been a problem for Gong Li
For women, midlife crises can cause a lot of psychological stress.
In this age where there are old and young, the face is gradually getting old, and the figure is gradually blessed, ordinary people may have a sense of crisis, not to mention female artists.
Middle age means that the role will be limited, a new group of young forces will be eager to move, and a series of problems will arise.
But for the eternal queen Gong Li, everything is not a problem, even in her world, these things are not worth investigating deeply, and have no impact on themselves.
When Gong Li was interviewed by Yang Lan, she was asked if she had ever had an age crisis.
She confessed: "Never, as long as you are capable enough, you can become an evergreen tree." ”
Believe in your own strength, you will not be washed away by time, and fade the luster.
At the age of 51, she is now more domineering and leaky, and her queen style is at a glance.
33 years after her debut, from The Girl to "Win the Championship", Gong Li has been surpassing herself.
She uses her acting skills to interpret what a real evergreen tree is, and uses strength to prove that age is never a problem, and she has indeed lived the most ideal way for every girl.
Every time on the red carpet, she was the shining star.
Even if they are in love, the other party still respects her and regards her as a treasure in his heart.
Although not everyone can become Gong Li standing on the tip of the pyramid, we all have to work hard to hone ourselves, improve ourselves, and believe in ourselves.
The bottom line is given by oneself, and it is always their own, and no one can take it away.
(3) Liu Yifei, who "I don't care what you like", is the eternal immortal sister
There is a kind of "I care what you like", called the immortal sister Liu Yifei.
This classic "I'll take care of you" scene appeared in an interview.
Li Jing, the host of "Very Quiet Distance", said that today's boys like the feeling that girls' eyes are particularly pure and empty.
Liu Yifei said directly: I don't care what he likes.
Liu Yifei, who seems to be gentle as water and fairy breath, listened to the host's words, and immediately transformed into a drag sister, a sentence of "I manage you", let people immediately give a thumbs up to her sassy.
I don't know if you have experienced it, there are often some men gathered to discuss, this girl double eyelids are good-looking, waist thin good-looking, the girl's legs are too thick, the face is too big, there is no neck and so on.
They also often give very general advice to girls.
Even papi sauce gives birth to a daughter, will be complained about, how can give birth to a daughter, not a boy;
Yang Liping, who has not given birth for the sake of art all her life, will also be accused of "a woman without children is a failure."
If we care too much about the eyes of others, we tend to cocoon ourselves.
I just want to like it.
To be a girl, or a goddess, just do as you please.
Independent women who love themselves are really the most slay.
Liu Yifei himself has become more and more "rebellious".
Don't you like gentleness like water?
Then I'll give you a hard time.
On the cover of an issue of Vogue, Liu Yifei rarely changed into a cool and handsome leather coat.
And the ultra-thick purple eyeliner makes her look particularly fierce, and her whole body exudes a wild temperament, which is the handsome sister herself.
Including "Mulan", Liu Yifei, who is neutral and deliberately tanned, completely subverts the pure love appearance in the audience's mind.
Leaving the gentle wind of Liu Yifei, she is still the same confident and beautiful.
The sound of complaining is the noise, and following your own inner voice is the most important.
(4) "Age is not my enemy" Wing Mei, elegant and confident
"Age is not my enemy, my story is written on my face, and this face is a tribute to time, to reality." 」
As an outstanding representative of elegant women, the self-confidence that Teacher Yongmei carries in her bones is really a silent power to moisturize things.
In "The Wind Rises in Luoyang", Yongmei almost appears in the camera, with long hair and shawls, and plain white robes, which is such a simple Wu Zetian.
Although there are not many scenes, each appearance is enough to shock the audience.
Talking about the age crisis, Teacher Yongmei calmly and confidently gave the example of the staff to repair their own pictures and often repair flaws.
"Because of the needs of the work, the staff needs to take some promotional photos for me, and if you have some freckles, pimples or wrinkles on your face, they will habitually fix it for you, of course, to make you look more perfect."
Although as an actress, I care about the image to some extent, and I have also experienced an age crisis.
But looking at her own shiny face, she still said that she could not repair the map.
Because, she has reconciled with her wrinkles.
When the young girl was still frantically applying eye cream and was afraid that a wrinkle would appear, Yongmei of 40+ had reconciled with her wrinkles.
Not only will she not feel nervous and sorry for the wrinkles, but she will feel a little proud.
Wrinkles have never been Yongmei's enemies, but have been gifts left to her by time.
In her time, she has experienced a lot, learned a lot, and for Yong Mei, everything cannot be copied and is worth cherishing.
And wrinkles are the medals left behind along the way.
Time is undefeated beauty, giving her the warmth and elegance left by time.
Young girls have the beauty of a girl, and middle-aged women naturally have the beauty of her mature intellect.
epilogue
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, and being your own queen is a cool thing.
When most women can replace the love brain with independent thoughts, the real awakening of the times is coming.
Accept your true inner thoughts, get rid of the worldly vision, and become the person you want to be the most, come on girl!
A large part of the reason for Gu Ailing's success is due to a healthy mentality.
No pressure, no mental baggage, let it go.
What happens if it fails?
What about the buzz?
Go your own way and let others say go.