Middle age is difficult, not without a way

At lunchtime, colleagues gather together to eat.

Coincidentally, there were four people in a table, two of whom had recently undergone similar surgery, ovarian, and were similar in age, about forty.

Chatted about feelings.

The position did not wait for anyone, although it was not a department, and invariably only rested for a few days.

Minimally invasive, open abdomen, the knife edge is not as small as imagined, the pain is severe, sitting on a chair, almost unable to support, visible to the naked eye, sweat oozing from the forehead layer by layer.

Step ladders, can only move less every day, go downstairs to eat, drink water to go to the bathroom, are also urgent problems.

Talk about the reasons, on the one hand, because of the pressure of work and life, on the other hand, it is related to the lack of exercise in their own physique.

A child is in high school, needs to take care of three meals a day, is in adolescence, there is not much effective communication, grades are up and down, and the mood of the whole family is also fluctuating.

The old man was fine, the brothers and sisters took turns to take care of it, and the next time it was a month later, otherwise, it would be another pool of bitter water with nowhere to complain.

The other just added a second child for less than a year, the child's resistance is weak, the weather changes, colds and fevers are also common things, and it is not day and night to take care of it, fortunately, the old man has been stable recently.

Sighed, not to middle age, do not know that life is so bitter, even dare not get sick, there are old and young, there is no ridicule that I have heard before.

Age, physical condition and youthfulness are no longer a concept.

After several months of surgery, the body is still weak, in the end it is hurt, and I don't know which aspect of regret I did not do well.

In the end, it can only be said that middle age is difficult, the physical condition is even more difficult, and the pressure of work and life is squeezed from all aspects, and even distorts the face.

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