What power makes people desperate

　　The American movie "The Martian" tells the story of human exploration activities on Mars, in which the male protagonist is left alone on Mars because of an accident during a mission, lost contact with his teammates, and was left alone on Mars. Faced with insufficient supplies and a harsh natural environment, the male protagonist relied on his tenacious will and rich knowledge to persist for more than 500 days, and finally waited for rescue. Although the film is a science fiction film, the tenacious will and optimistic attitude of the male protagonist in the face of adversity are worthy of admiration, especially the ending sentence: "Meet a problem, solve a problem, and when you find that there is no problem to solve, you can go home." "It was very touching.

　　

　　It is not uncommon to have a desperate situation and grow up in adversity: during the Qin and Han Dynasties, Xiang Yu broke the cauldron and sank the boat, causing himself to die and then being born to break the Qin army; during the Long March, the Red Army crossed the Chishui River, flew to seize the Luding Bridge, bravely broke through lazily, and finally completed the great strategic transfer; during World War II, the Soviet army launched a street battle with the German army for more than 200 days when the whole city was besieged and almost ran out of food, and finally successfully completed the victory in the defense of Stalingrad... In short, people can often burst out unimaginable strength and wisdom when faced with difficulties.

　　The source of this strength and wisdom is first and foremost man's desire for survival instinct, which is man's most basic need, so that even the slightest hope will not be given up. It's this positive mindset of trying it out whenever they have the chance that allows people to finally seize that real opportunity. Second, be optimistic. The male protagonist in the movie, whether it is planting potatoes or repairing various broken equipment, will talk to himself, joke with himself, and always maintain an optimistic state, even in the face of accidents, even when encountering life-threatening situations, he can be open-minded. Finally, swift action is a guarantee of the completion of the desperate "counterattack". No matter what kind of situation and what kind of conditions you face, you can make up your mind and act immediately to save and even achieve yourself, and if you don't have strong execution, the opportunity will slip away inadvertently. In addition, the strength that makes people desperate is also related to the ability to resist pressure and frustration. Some people grow up in a relatively poor environment, suffered hardships when they were young, and naturally became stronger in the face of desperate situations when they grew up. Because of this, many parents will send their children to live in harsh places for a period of time to exercise their minds. Under the combined action of these psychological factors, with a little luck, the miracle of desperate life will also come to fruition.

　　For us living in the era of peace, although we will not encounter any desperate situations in our lives, we will always encounter some difficulties when we bump into each other. There is still a way to conquer it in a desperate situation, and what is so terrible about the dilemma? However, in life, when there is a problem, some people first think of not how to solve it, but complain that there are too many difficulties, think that this thing is difficult to do, why are they so unlucky, can not catch a "money more things less" job?

　　In the face of difficulties, at the beginning, people will have a resistance psychology, thinking that how difficulties will fall on them, this resistance will aggravate anxiety and fear, and then be more pessimistic about the whole problem. Therefore, first learn to accept difficulties and accept reality, do not blindly talk about difficulties and make demands, and calm down to seek solutions. Then actively seek social support, that is, to confide in relatives and friends, which is a process of release, to vent the inner pressure and resentment together, to help you restore calm, and then to seek a better solution. In addition, if you often jump out to see your own situation, look at the problem from another angle, you may find that your so-called difficulties are actually not so serious. Finally, when encountering a problem that cannot be solved for a while, put aside, go out for a walk, exercise exercise, moderate exercise can make people completely relax their body and mind, and when they come back, the problem may be solved.