Only because of the difference of a few points, Su Lijie, a girl in Henan, lost her hand with the ideal college Peking University. Unwilling to concede defeat, she was admitted from Henan University to Peking University for graduate school.
But why would such a self-reliant graduate student voluntarily become a "painter" who relies on physical strength to make a living? After the news spread, Su Lijie was pointed out by countless people.
Some people say that she wastes educational resources, and some people say that she is stupid and her brain can't think straight. So what is the story behind this girl who could have eaten with brain power, but had to eat with physical strength? Listen to ziya childlike student observation for you to explain.
Since childhood, he has been "someone else's child"
In 1978, Su Lijie was born in Nanyang, Henan Province, to a working-class family with good family conditions. However, due to her parents' busy work, su Lijie grew up under the care of an aunt hired by her parents when she was a child.
However, even if the work is busy, the Su family's parents have not ignored the growth of their children. The father of the Su family will bring a storybook to the child every time he travels, let his daughter choose at will before going to bed at night, and then tell the story to coax the child to sleep.
As long as the Mother of the Su Family has time, she will take her children out to know all kinds of things, such as zoos, botanical gardens, and ecological museums around them.
Although the facilities at that time were not as good as they are now, this was also a good memory for Su Lijie.
Most parents will have some hope for their children to become dragons and hope that women will become phoenixes, and the parents of the Su family are no exception. Since the children reached the age of school, the two parents began to focus on cultivating their children's good learning habits and living habits.
Su Lijie is also very considerate of her parents' feelings, and she is willing to accept the extracurricular tutoring arranged by her parents and is willing to spend her spare time to study.
Slowly accumulating the basic skills that surpass his peers, coupled with the diligent and hard-working learning state, Su Lijie will soon become the top student in the class and be re-elected as the class leader.
It is also with excellent results that the little girl naturally entered the local key junior high school, and after gaining the trust and praise of many teachers and students, she entered the key high school with great vigor and became a veritable "other person's child".
It was also at this time that after seeing the brochure of the well-known university Peking University from the teacher, the girl with excellent grades set herself a seemingly difficult goal - to go to Peking University and see the scenery of the capital.
For this goal, Su Lijie spent every day in the sea of books, trying his best to absorb knowledge and wanting to run to the beautiful future in his mind.
Time flew by, and soon entered the stage of the senior sprint mock exam, in these several mock exams, Su Lijie's results have been very ideal. Parents and teachers also have confidence in her, thinking that Su Lijie is the next Peking University student. However, Heaven made a huge joke to this little girl.
Because of the nervousness and not being able to exert his full strength, Su Lijie's college entrance examination results were lost by a few points from the admission score line of Peking University.
The teacher and his family felt pity and sadness, and the frustration was also the first time that su Lijie, who had always been excellent and confident, was deeply hit.
Many people around her had outstanding ideas for Su Li and urged her to re-read the voices one after another. But the girl, who had a free heart, eventually decided to go to her second choice, the history department of Henan University.
Realize your dreams in learning and derail in life
In 1998, Su Lijie, who entered Henan University, still did not give up her dream of entering Peking University, she was determined to study hard, and wanted to be admitted to Peking University as a graduate student after four years, realizing the dream in her heart.
The girls who work harder in learning all day give up most of their entertainment and social activities.
In Henan University, Su Lijie still has a very good academic performance, in addition to single-handedly founding the Historical and Cultural Association, and became the director of the student union, becoming a well-known super bully on campus.
In her sophomore year, Su Lijie took the principal's scholarship into her arms with the first place in the whole year, and then she successfully passed the English sixth level and the French primary examination, and successively won various scholarships with the first grade.
Using achievements to achieve his own initial economic freedom, such a Su Lijie has attracted the envy of many people.
Perhaps it is the sense of failure of Peking University that fell on the college entrance examination is too inspiring, and the faith in Su Lijie's heart is growing day by day. With actions to bless her dreams, she took the graduate admissions exam of Peking University in 2002.
Writing hard in the examination room, Su Lijie finally realized his dream of Peking University with the first place.
Throughout his graduate school years, Su Lijie's excellence was obvious to all. She has published her own articles in many well-known journals and has received attention and excellent evaluation from teachers in colleges and universities.
Everyone thought that she would start her own bright future, but the world was unpredictable, and after graduation, Su Lijie ran into walls and had nowhere to make a living. What's going on here?
In 2005, Su Lijie, who was close to graduation, began to think about the future. At this time, because she was too focused on learning in previous years, she was slightly derailed from the outside world, and in the process of intentionally communicating with her classmates, she found that she had some social obstacles.
Do not integrate into the communication environment of others, can not pick up the words of the other party, do not know much about the topics spoken by classmates. All this made Su Lijie a little discouraged.
However, considering her graduate degree from Peking University and her intuition to believe that she could overcome difficulties, she gave up the idea of continuing her doctoral studies and chose employment.
At first, Su Lijie was admitted to the best environmental protection institution in Henan, but the girl who wanted to work hard in Beijing did not go, but insisted on working in Beijing.
Having changed careers before and after, she could neither adapt to the high-intensity work rhythm nor get along with her colleagues very smoothly. When things didn't go well, she wanted to contact the department in Henan that had admitted her, but it was too late.
Enjoy life in your own choices
In 2009, Su Lijie, who ran into walls on the road to find a job, was discouraged, but he was still unwilling. So she took the national civil service exam. This failure made her completely desperate, and then gave up the dream of drifting north and returned to Henan.
Surprisingly, graduate students who graduated from Peking University could not find a job of their choice in Henan.
In the blink of an eye, Su Lijie is 33 years old and still living a life of relying on his parents' financial support. Slowly, the people around him began to "talk nonsense", and Su Lijie was a little afraid of the place where the crowd gathered.
But the girl was also unwilling to eat the old, she wanted to find a job that did not have to contact outsiders much, so she submitted her resume to a painting company.
The teacher at the registration office couldn't help but marvel and ask questions after seeing it, and Su Lijie's tutor since childhood told her that she was not ashamed to eat on her own, and even if she was blocked by relatives and friends, she did not change her mind.
At this time, Su Lijie was suffering from the sneering ridicule of his neighbors, and the original "other people's child" had also become a topic of small talk before and after tea.
Every month with her hard work and not much income, Su Lijie shielded herself from all kinds of voices around her, and she learned to adapt to this life and learn to look down on everything.
Su Lijie's life can be said to have some ups and downs. I once had a dream in my heart, and I was willing to chase endlessly for my dream and do my best.
But inadvertently neglecting the exercise of personal socialization in the process eventually led her to drift away from her ideal path. It is difficult for human beings to truly live in isolation, and where there are people, there will be social interaction.
Being able to adapt to the big family of life and adapt to society is a problem that students should also take the time to consider in addition to learning.
With excellent strength, instinct for themselves, to provide a better life for their families, if because of the word "social" in the end, is it too much of a pity?
But as Su Lijie said, "it is not shameful to earn money by relying on her own ability", although there is still a lot of discussion about her in the society, she said that she lived well after becoming a painter, and also felt the relaxation and happiness of the spirit.
Life is alive, live a happy and joyful life. Since Su Lijie is enjoying life and feeling happy in her choices, why is she not a winner in life?
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