Text/Monday Sauce
After 5 days of acquaintance, they fell in love quickly, married for 11 years, and were still as sweet as their first love. The love between Zou Shiming and Ran Yingying seems to carry a fairy tale filter, but it also has little-known difficulties. What have their feelings been through? And how to resist the wind and rain and continue to maintain freshness?
On April 19, 2006, at an event in Zunyi, the two met.
At that time, Zou Shiming was the champion of the World Championships, and Ran Yingying was the anchor of CCTV. At a dinner party, the organizer of the event suddenly said to Ran Yingying: "Or you and Zou Shiming will sing a song." After saying that, he directly sent her to zou Shiming's place to eat, saying that he wanted them to practice in advance.
Who knows, just arrived at the destination, Ran Yingying was dumbfounded.
It turned out that Zou Shiming would be eating with his parents. Ran Yingying saw the situation, was embarrassed, and wanted to leave for an excuse, but Zou Shiming was very generous, not only beckoning her to sit down and eat together, but also frequently giving her vegetables. At that time, Zou Shiming did not expect that this small act of picking vegetables would actually successfully assist for the subsequent confession.
After eating, Zou Shiming sent Ran Yingying home, and it just so happened that the road was the only way she had to go to school when she was a child, and it was also the road he first went to the sports team. Walking on the common familiar road, chatting about childhood memories, the two have more and more in common. Chatting and chatting, Zou Shiming suddenly took Ran Yingying's hand, she was surprised for a moment, and did not shake it off.
Time has passed, and when recalling this past, Ran Yingying smiled and said that the reason why she did not refuse at that time was because of his move to pick vegetables at the dinner table.
She said: "My mother said that to see if a man is good or not, don't just look at whether he is good or not, but also see if he is good to the people around him." He not only clipped dishes for me that day, but also clipped them for the people around him. I think he knows how to take care of people, and he has a good feeling all of a sudden. ”
In this way, after only 5 days of acquaintance, the two established a romantic relationship.
After being together, their feelings have gone through a big test.
In 2007, because he was preparing for the World Championships, Zou Shiming said to Ran Yingying: "In the next period of time, one person sings, one person listens, one person lives, can you?" ”
Ran Yingying's heart tightened, thinking that he was going to break up, did not dare to ask the reason, only asked: "What if I don't want to?" Zou Shiming did not comment and said: "You try it, this is a test for us." Ran Yingying could only nod her head in agreement.
For more than half a year, the two had no phone calls, no information, and completely lost contact.
During that time, Ran Yingying often felt trance- and did not know whether she had a boyfriend or not. This happened from time to time during the four years of love, but in the end, they all persevered.
On February 5, 2011, the two ended their love run and consummated their marriage in their hometown of Zunyi.
At the wedding, Ran Yingying asked: "After marriage, who works in the family and who cares about the money?" Zou Shiming replied emphatically: "I work, you manage the money." ”
After marriage, Zou Shiming fulfilled his promise to hand over economic power to his daughter-in-law, and when she did not have a job, she would also help her share the housework and spoil her lover into a little princess.
And Ran Yingying, in order to support her husband and not let him be distracted by the family, resolutely gave up the career of the rising period and was willing to be the woman behind him. He punched on stage, and she cheered offstage. In the midst of the cacophony of voices, her screams always penetrated everything and brought him a steady stream of strength.
Not only does she fully support her husband, but she will also teach her children to respect their father's efforts.
When Xuan Xuan didn't eat well and wasted food, she would criticize mercilessly: "What is Daddy going to do at night?" "What do you do with punches?" "Make money" "So you wasted your food?" Did you buy it for money? ”
It can be said that her love and dedication to him have penetrated into all aspects of life.
Therefore, the two have been married for 11 years, from the world of two to a family of five, still sweet as their first love.
It is not difficult to find that the reason why their marriage can go more and more stable and stay for a long time is inseparable from the joint efforts of two people.
Ran Yingying gave up the golden rice bowl, took care of the rear, and fully supported her husband's career; and Zou Shiming did not fail his wife, responding with love and gratitude.
Some say that how successful a man is depends on the woman he marries; how virtuous a woman is depends on the man she marries.
This sentence is probably the best annotation to their feelings.
Love each other in ordinary times, walk together when it is difficult, understand each other, and complete each other.
The world of feelings is difficult to support alone, and only by moving forward hand in hand can we reap the harvest.
The long road of life, only by understanding each other's hardships, understanding each other's difficulties, and then holding each other together, completing each other, can we live with relish in the marriage.
It is said that a good marriage needs to be managed.
And the so-called business is: when I am lonely, you can give me a hug; when you are tired, I can take you to see the stars.
For the rest of your life, may you meet a person who understands youself, support each other, complete each other, survive all the difficulties together, and run to a happy future together.
Author: Monday Sauce, a girl who wants to drive a caravan to the end of the world, may we become friends.
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