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When it comes to Ran Yingying, the first title that comes to many people's minds may be "the first wife in domestic entertainment".
Indeed, she once publicly stated that she had been dumped by Zou Shiming twenty-three times in one year.
But he persevered, and finally entered the palace of marriage with the other party.
After getting married, she gave birth to three more children for her husband in a row.
He even deliberately saved "umbilical cord blood" in the hospital in case her husband needed it.
This all aspects may indeed sound like a little woman who completely gives up herself for the sake of her husband.
However, Ran Yingying also has a dazzling aura of former CCTV host, a talented woman from Peking University, and a billionaire woman.
These fragmented identities make her true image a little confusing.
So, is Ran Yingying a "wife" who can't do without her husband or a "big heroine" who pretends to be a pig and eats a tiger?
Behind the "resignation for love".
The reason why many people will crown Ran Yingying with the hat of "wife of internal entertainment".
One of the most fundamental reasons is that she once resigned from her job as a CCTV host that everyone envied at the peak of her career.
After giving up her career, she threw herself wholeheartedly into her husband Zou Shiming's side and worked diligently to become a "boxing king and virtuous helper".
For this seemingly "dizzy" choice, the outside world is naturally discussing.
Especially today, the concept of "women can hold up half the sky" is becoming more and more popular.
There are also many groups of women who claim to be independent who sneer at the actions of little women like Ran Yingying.
However, if you really think that Ran Yingying became a housewife serving tea and water and serving her in-laws after quitting her job.
That's "deceived" by her.
Ran Yingying resigned from CCTV at the beginning, indeed for her husband, but it was not "for love" as the outside world said.
On the contrary, after sober examination and weighing, she discovered that Zou Shiming's career potential is unlimited in the rising period.
So she also became the "partner of the boxing champion" in her own way.
Regarding what exactly Ran Yingying did after leaving CCTV, let's listen to what Zou Shiming said first?
On the talk show "Very Quiet Distance", Zou Shiming, who has always been arrogant, couldn't help but be convinced, and sighed about Ran Yingying's intelligence and ability.
He said that his wife actually took over the work of his own promoter and agent.
Especially when playing games, in order to make the event scale and gain attention.
Ran Yingying also has to coordinate the venue, invite popular celebrities to stand on the platform, and more importantly, pull a huge amount of sponsorship to make the event go smoothly.
Without these, even Zou Shiming would be difficult to play a wonderful game and make a profit.
However, after all, there are countless emergencies on the field, and even the smart and shrewd Ran Yingying can't avoid them for her husband.
In 2017, Zou Shiming was hit hard in the eye during the competition, and his long-standing eye disease has been haunting him ever since.
The doctor also advised him not to continue playing or risk permanent blindness.
That period was the biggest low point in the first half of Zou Shiming's life, and there were many fighters who had to retire due to injuries in the history of boxing.
For example, British boxer Anthony Ogogo, who reached the top three at the London Olympics.
By the time he retired due to injury, he had lost nearly 80 percent of his eyesight and was left with a single illness.
Since then, the scenery is no longer there, no one cares, and Zou Shiming is likely to follow in his footsteps at that time.
Fortunately, at the moment of chaos in Zou City.
Ran Yingying stabilized her mind and personally created a new path of "resurrection" for her husband at a critical moment.
She used her connections to find Ren Quan, who was "supernatural", for help.
The latter was also moved by her, and generously extended a helping hand to organize a high-end wine party where business tycoons gathered.
By the end of the wine game, Ran Yingying had obviously drunk a lot of wine, and it was estimated that there would be no shortage of low-level begging during the banquet.
It may have been the first time she had tasted such embarrassment, so she cried bitterly when she walked to no one's place.
Fortunately, Zou Shiming's way out was thus found, and he signed a huge endorsement contract shortly after retiring.
Later, under the matchmaking of Ran Yingying, Zou Shiming appeared on the reality show "Where Are You Going, Dad".
Officially transformed from a first-line player to a popular sports star.
Some people say that he is a blessing in disguise, but in fact, his "blessing" comes from Ran Yingying's vision and dedication.
And the reason why Ran Yingying is willing to spare no effort is naturally undeniable because of her deep love for Zou Shi.
But at the same time, Ran Yingying is also constantly using this "win-win" marriage to achieve her career and value.
"The King's Woman" or "The Queen Herself"?
Zou Shiming once half-jokingly and half-seriously described his relationship with his wife:
"After I became the 'boxing king', everyone said that Ran Yingying was the 'king's woman', but in fact I was the 'queen's person'."
Indeed, no matter how glamorous and successful Zou Shiming is, Ran Yingying is like a calm and wise queen.
Never completely attached to each other, but always take control of life in their own hands.
Even during her pregnancy and fetus in 2011, Ran Yingying never stopped "cultivating".
She not only successfully landed an MBA from Peking University during pregnancy, but also won a scholarship with the first place.
It shows that it is not the gold-plated academic degree that some netizens say is "full of moisture".
After Zou Shiming's transformation into business activities.
She seized the opportunity to earn herself a new identity as the president of the World Boxing Council in China.
At the same time, she also put what she has learned from the MBA program into practice and manages more than 10 companies under her name in an orderly manner.
According to conservative estimates, Ran Yingying's net worth may have already exceeded 100 million.
Such a means, vision, and career Ran Yingying.
Where is the need to hide behind a man as a "king's woman", she is simply "the queen herself".
As Ran Yingying once said when educating children:
"Mom has come to where she is today by studying hard."
Every time I see Ran Yingying's growth path, I can't help but think of Li Xiang, another "well-known rich woman" in the entertainment industry.
Although her marriage is not as successful as Ran Yingying's, the courage of the two to kill decisively in their careers is the same.
This can be seen when Li Xiang was in middle school, when she gave up the qualification to a certain university.
insisted on squeezing the college entrance examination of "thousands of troops crossing the single-plank bridge", just to achieve the goal of being a host.
After becoming the "host sister" of the Mango variety show, she chose to leave her halo behind and start a business from scratch.
When she was less than forty years old, she had already become the vice president of 360, and later worked in real estate and a live broadcast company.
Every step is firmly on the tuyere.
Like Ran Yingying, she has both a vicious vision and the courage to make trade-offs.
As He Jiong said: "Follow in the footsteps of Sister Xiang, you can make a fortune."
These words may also be Zou Shiming's heart: as long as you are a good "queen's person", the direction of progress will always be wrong.
"Wife" and "Big Heroine"
In recent years, many traditional Chinese words have been given some special ironic and even ironic meanings.
"Wife" is one of them.
Especially for many female stars who have had successful careers, it seems to be a shame to give up their careers to marry and have children.
However, if you compare several actresses in the entertainment industry with the name of "beautiful wife" together.
knows that the key to deciding whether to lose people is not how many children he has and how many careers he has sacrificed.
But to see if you end up on an "uphill road"?
In this regard, Tang Yan, who is only one year older than Ran Yingying, is a good example.
In the entertainment industry, Tang Yan's starting point is undoubtedly much higher than Ran Yingying.
Back then, "Fairy Sword 3" became popular all over the country, and Tang Yan became the hottest "85 Flowers" because she perfectly created the role of "Zixuan" with all kinds of charms.
Although her later acting path was relatively narrow, with the popularity she had accumulated before, Tang Yan still acted in one popular film.
The salary is full of money, and he made it to the Forbes list in his early 30s.
However, after Tang Yan and Luo Jin got married, this glory soon disappeared.
Not only is she filming less and less, but her already relatively bland acting skills have even begun to decline.
In 2020, a "Yanyuntai" turned a "strong woman" like Empress Dowager Xiao into a "silly white sweet" again.
Perhaps feeling powerless, since then, she has almost retired from the screen.
At the age of forty, she became a "little wife" behind her husband, taught her husband and children at home, and lost her identity as an actor.
Of course, it doesn't mean that such a choice is wrong, but compared with Yang Mi, Liu Shishi and others in the same period.
Tang Yan, who has a good hand of cards but plays as plain as water, really can't help but make fans feel pity.
Many younger, higher-starting actresses often fall into the same situation.
For example, Miao Miao, who starred in "Fanghua" and became famous, originally had an infinitely brilliant star journey.
But before she had time to stabilize her career, she couldn't wait to marry Zheng Kai.
gave birth to three consecutive pregnancies in three years, and almost all of his career was put on hold.
Now Miao Miao can only rely on her husband, and even her parents and sister have been taken to the couple's home.
The family has to rely on the man to live, and Zheng Kai also has a lot of complaints about this.
He complained in public on the show about how inconvenient it was for him to live with his father-in-law and mother-in-law, completely ignoring Miao Miao's face.
Coincidentally, Ran Yingying also gave birth to three sons for her husband, but Zou Shiming's attitude towards her is very different from Zheng Kai's attitude towards Miao Miao.
Especially when it comes to having a second or third child.
An important reason why Ran Yingying insisted on giving birth was that she wanted to keep the precious "umbilical cord blood".
In this way, if the husband suffers from diseases such as Perkins in the future, he can also be treated in time.
Zou Shiming was moved to tears by this, and the "boxing king" who never bowed his head on the field deliberately knelt down to offer flowers.
He also shouted to his wife, "Please take my knees." ”
This also proves once again that Ran Yingying is not the "No. 1 wife in internal entertainment" as everyone says, but the real "big heroine" in this marriage.
Because whether it is in career cooperation or life companionship, the person who is more reluctant to leave may be her husband.
epilogue
A powerful woman like Ran Yingying, who is married to a celebrity husband, may be destined to have a mixed reputation.
The outside world will say that they are too strong and utilitarian, and even give her the unwarranted name of "wife".
But Ran Yingying definitely doesn't care about this, because she knows what kind of life she wants, and she knows how to get there.
She has used her strength, hard work, and sobriety to respond most forcefully to the disturbances of the outside world.