The third gold medalist of the Winter Olympics, Gu Ailing.
Since the opening of the Winter Olympics, everyone has been talking about the Winter Olympics after tea and dinner. Especially in the short track speed skating men's and women's 2000 meters mixed relay event, the Chinese team won China's first gold, which greatly boosted morale.
The results of the next competition are also brilliant, and everyone is very excited to see it. After all, playing on the territory we are familiar with in Beijing will have some advantages to some extent!
Gu Ailing can be called "Shuangwen Heroine" and easily won the gold medal
When Gu Ailing stands on the field, many netizens may feel very strange, although she has also participated in many games of all sizes, but after all, this 19-year-old will be the first time to board the Winter Olympics.
Moreover, when she made a mistake in the second jump, many people would even scorn her. Even at the juncture when she was at the bottom of her peak, she finally won the first gold medal, the third gold medal of the Chinese team.
Officially, because of her calm and calm attitude after the mistake, we want to know more about her, what makes this young general so "sophisticated"?
Gu Ailing's growth experience, her mother has become a strong backing
Perhaps we can detect it in her delicate face. Her face is very different from many Chinese girls, perhaps less beautiful and more atmospheric. She is actually of mixed Chinese and American descent.
Her mother was a Beijing chick, her father was American, and her parents settled in the United States after marriage, so naturally she was born in San Francisco. But the good times did not last long, and her parents finally chose to divorce, and she and her mother depended on each other.
Even so, her growth has not been affected in any way, and her mother has given her full help in life and study, thanks to her mother graduating from Peking University.
When the mother first discovered that Gu Ailing had athletic talent, she was very supportive of her daughter's efforts for her hobbies. As long as Gu Ailing is willing, her mother will always accompany her to train.
Similarly, Gu Ailing did not disappoint her mother, not only performed well in her studies, but was admitted to Stanford University. He has won numerous awards in skiing.
And even if her mother doesn't force time management for her, she can perfectly arrange the relationship between training and learning. The study and training time must be 100% focused.
The admission of Chinese nationality shows Gu Ailing's different patriotic spirit
When Gu Ailing was 16 years old, she asked her mother to help her become a Chinese citizen. Maybe it was influenced by the divorce of their parents, or maybe they were more obsessed with Chinese culture. The end result was that she became a kind of Chinese citizen.
In the face of her practice, many people will think that she is too stupid, after all, she grew up in the United States, and will continue to study in the United States in the future, why give up the preferential treatment policies of the United States?
But Gu Ailing does not think so, even if it is to study and train as a holder of American citizenship, don't you still have to rely on your own real ability? As long as you are good enough, you can do whatever you want!
Gu Ailing's mother is a master parenting master
Even though Gu Ailing was born in the United States, every day she hears about American culture, attends American schools, eats American meals, and receives American training. Mom would still lead by example as much as possible, teaching her Chinese and giving her traditional cultural stories.
Moreover, the mother never denigrated the United States in the slightest, respecting her daughter's cultural choices. It is this atmosphere and freedom that makes my daughter more obsessed with everything about China.
Moreover, when the daughter made the decision to practice sports, the mother did not question it a little and gave her the greatest support at the first time. I would also like to say to all those who have doubts: the interest of children is indelible.
From Gu Ailing's mother's approach, parents must reflect and learn
Nowadays, there are very few parents who can respect their children from the bottom of their hearts, and most parents will still be paranoid that their children are their appendages, and everything about their children must be fully responsible for themselves.
When the child puts forward his own ideas, the parents will only blindly suppress and deny. When the child becomes more and more inferior and more and more withdrawn, he still does not know.
If parents can have more respect, how can children see parents as class enemies? If parents change their "one-word" approach, the child will definitely confide in you!
Today's Topic:
Have you respected your children enough in your parenting process? Will your child be willing to talk to you from the heart? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!