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"Don't rejoice when you have a son, and don't sigh without a son." There is no need to rejoice when you have a child, and there is no need to sigh. Due to the multiple factors of society, for some families, the inability to have children is the greatest sorrow, while for some people, the birth of children has become a sad thing.
The comprehensive national strength of the mainland is increasing day by day, and the relations with some major countries are becoming more and more delicate, but it does not affect the transnational exchanges between the people, whether it is economic or cultural exchanges, which proves that everyone must be interdependent. In the process of exchanges between the two countries, there will always be some touching ways of communication, such as the adoption of children across borders. For example, Grandma Shanghai adopted a black boy and made him an authentic Shanghainese. Then there are American couples who adopt abandoned Chinese babies, making them native Americans. So, why are the more than 80,000 Chinese children adopted in the United States in the past eighteen years mostly girls?
The mainland is a country with heavy feelings, Americans actually attach great importance to feelings, they will not turn a blind eye because they are not their own biological children, so when they adopt children, after careful upbringing, they will also have deep feelings, so in the United States, there are many couples adopting children, and many people have chosen to adopt Chinese children across borders.
An American teacher in his fifties once adopted a Chinese baby girl and gave the baby girl an American name, and the two also got along very well like a biological mother and daughter, in order to increase the child's knowledge, the American mother also took the adopted baby girl to travel to many places.
In the United States, in addition to women can adopt Chinese baby girls, men can also adopt, and a man from Mali has adopted Chinese girls. The American man also takes good care of his Chinese daughter and often takes her on trips, saying her relationship with her American father is more like a friend. It can be seen from this that these adopted girls are living well, because they live in the United States all year round and accept American culture, so the children have become native Americans.
The main reason why Americans adopt many Chinese girls comes from the cultures of China and the United States. Chinese base is large, and many Chinese couples abandon their children for different reasons. Moreover, in China, many remote areas are deeply poisoned by feudal and backward ideas, and the idea of favoring sons over daughters is deeply rooted, parents do not attach importance to girls' education, and even girls are abandoned at birth. Believing that only boys can pass on the generations, they continue to have children, just to leave a boy, because the family can not afford many children, so they can only send girls to be adopted or abandoned.
It is precisely because of the many such parents that many Americans have adopted Chinese girls. Americans are keen to adopt Chinese girls and the excellent aspects of mainland culture, China has a history of thousands of years, the traditional culture is strong, compared with the open culture of the United States, Chinese mothers rarely have tobacco and alcohol, so the health level of the children born is relatively high.
From the perspective of the national conditions of the United States, because the United States itself has a small population and few abandoned babies, Americans want to adopt children from their own countries, which is not only costly, but also very cumbersome. Typically, it takes at least five years to adopt a child in your home country, and it costs around $100,000 to adopt a child.
The time it takes to adopt a child from China is relatively short, the fee is relatively moderate, and China's adoption system is standardized, there will be no temporary change of guarantor, and there will be no additional disputes, so Americans are more willing to come to China to adopt children. Many Chinese children have been educated in Western culture after being adopted by American parents, and because they adhere to Chinese and Western cultures, many children will be curious about their origins after puberty.
Their American parents also do not shy away from telling them about their origins, and some parents will instill Chinese ideology and culture into their adopted children from an early age, and live through Chinese traditional customs to help them deepen their connection with Chinese culture. In the past eighteen years, the United States has adopted more than 80,000 Chinese women and children on the mainland, and as the adoption system in the mainland has become more perfect, more and more Americans have come to adopt Chinese orphans.
However, not everyone can adopt Chinese orphans, they must have good economic conditions and educational background, so that children can grow better. Americans come to China to adopt children, not only to make their families more complete, but also to do charity, helping many Chinese children find a good living environment.
It is impossible to imagine what these abandoned babies would become in the future if they did not grow up in a complete court, so adoption would be a good deed for them and a way to change their destiny.