Miss my good mom

Original music hehe Zhou Rongjun

Mommy my good mom

Today is September 28, 2021, mom's death day. On this day last year, my mother left me, and I miss you very much and my good mother.

My mother's home is in Xiaomiao Commune, Gucheng County, Hebei Province. Born on December 5, 1928, my mother gave it to my father in the summer of 1938, and when my mother married my father, due to the poverty of the family, the clothes she wore for marriage were borrowed from others, but my father's family was also poor, but she also invited four people to bring Huajiao back home. But when I arrived at my father's house, I didn't see my father in the crowd that greeted the bride, and my mother was so strange that someone told my mother that it had been a month since I left Beijing for some reason, and people still hadn't arrived home. It was a time of war. There is no way to hold the wedding as usual, according to local customs to find a big rooster, the mother holds the big rooster to worship the parents worship the heavens and the earth even if they get married. Since Dad didn't come back, Mom went back to her mother's house the next day and waited for Dad to return at her mother's house. Since the two sides had never met before, it was impossible to talk about knowing, understanding, and feelings. So my mother returned to her mother's house, quickly forgot about the marriage, and played and ran happily with her friends in the village every day. A month after the marriage, my father came to my mother with a gift, and then my mother saw her husband's true face. My father was also very handsome, and told my mother the reason why the wedding was not present, because on the way back, he was arrested and repaired the gun tower. The artillery tower was repaired for a month. So it's good to be able to come back alive and pick you up now. Mom reluctantly followed the dad she had just met back to her dad's house. Because my mother was about 10 years old and my father was 13 years old, my father did not stay for a few days, and in order to earn money to support his family, he had to return to Beijing.

Mother's personality is a foreign image, to the new village, Dazhou Village, Jing County, Hebei Province, and soon found new friends, chatting with them to learn to weave and spin thread. At the same time, three literacy classes were added, because my mother was smart, studious, and well-liked. Soon around the age of 18, my mother was elected by the village to become the director of the Women's Rescue Association. And three times increased the activities of beating up local tycoons to divide the fields, of which my second grandfather did not know who offended, he was a middle peasant with a few acres of thin fields, which were tied to pillars and beaten to death and no one dared to take care of them. My mother was very angry when she saw it, and she untied the rope and saved my second grandfather. Otherwise, they would have been killed long ago. Because my mother dared to enforce the law impartially in the village, she was loved by the whole village, and once again recommended my mother to the county to participate in the women's conference, participate in training, and prepare to promote my mother to be the county women's director. Because my grandmother was backward in thinking, I was afraid that my mother would become an official and divorce my father. I quickly wrote a letter to Beijing to ask my father to go back to his hometown and take my mother back to Beijing together. Dad actually wanted to take Mom to Beijing for a long time. Mainly because of grandma's feudal thinking, afraid that his mother would go to Beijing to enjoy the blessings alone, so he was unwilling to let his mother go to Beijing and let him suffer with him in his hometown. Don't give the child to eat the net noodle nest head steamed bun even more, the nest head is with radish wisps, the child eats it and pulls thin. There is no way to survive for the child, can only be full of food for the child to eat, such a situation how to survive the child, the child only lived to the age of three and died. The second child was a boy, and when my mother gave birth, my grandmother was also pregnant, and my grandmother could not take care of her mother and the child who had just given birth for herself. The mother said that the child was born, in her own house, by herself. The weather is cold and cold in the ground, and I am not willing to ask a doctor before dinner, afraid of managing the doctor's meal, and when I invite a doctor after dinner, the child is no longer able to do it. Therefore, the mother gave birth to two children who died prematurely. In this case, dad didn't have time to come back to pick up his mother because he was busy at work, so he asked people to come to 100 oceans and let others take mom to Beijing.

Since then, my mother has lived a short and happy life, why is it a short happy life, because in the next 10 years, my mother has given birth to seven children, five women and two boys. The first six were all born at home, and only the youngest sister was born in the hospital, because the mother had to be sterilized at the same time as the birth of the child, so my sister was born in the hospital. Seven children, each with a small age difference of less than two years old. Now it is difficult for a child to raise you say how to raise seven children, in order to raise seven children, my mother also went to work, our family is the big with the small, the big let the small. The whole family is very united under the leadership of Mom and Dad. Mom and Dad never had as many idle children. Some families have no children and want to adopt my sister. My parents did not agree, especially if the family conditions were good, such as doctors, my parents were reluctant to give their sisters to them. Every day at noon, my mother rushed home to cook stir-fry vegetables and cook, and after cooking, there was no time to eat, so she took the nest head and pickles and ate them while walking. Every year during the Dragon Boat Festival, we were wrapped with browns to eat, and one year the browns were cooked, and I accidentally injured one of my feet when serving the pot. At that time, the feet were covered with large blisters. It scared us all to cry, and my mother really didn't care and said that it was okay, just put some purple potion on it. The next day, my second brother pushed her bicycle to the unit, because if she was sick and could not take full attendance, I would deduct two dollars. Mom gritted her teeth and insisted on going to work for two dollars. Spring Festival is the most important festival of the year, we were small at the time, the family life is difficult but every day thinking about the Spring Festival, looking forward to the Spring Festival, because only during the Spring Festival can we put on new clothes, eat delicious, big wide fish, big fat pork. Peanuts, melon seeds, mixed sugar. But at that time, I did not expect that my mother would be tired in order to meet the requirements of seven children, and my mother would have to prepare for the next Spring Festival after this Spring Festival, because cotton shoes were handmade by herself. It's impossible to think about now, but Mom did. She put the rotten clothes and pants we wore, cut the material, and then made the paste, and put them together, about three or four layers, with leather plates, cool dry. Then the most primitive shoe making process began. Mom is taking advantage of the night we all sleep, she picks the lights night battle, cut the material, sodium shoe soles, upper shoes, smashing button eyes, and finally there are shoes and other processes. It took seven days to make a pair of shoes after this string of work. The shoes of the nine people took two or three months to complete. We also had to add a new dress to each of us, and we couldn't ask for pants to get a top, because life was too difficult, and my mother always obeyed at work and didn't consider adding a new dress to herself. In order to have new clothes for every child to wear during the Spring Festival, my mother also fought all night to put on the clothes for us on the thirtieth night of the Spring Festival. We put on new clothes, jumped, danced and blossomed, and my mother looked at us with joy and smiles.

Gradually we grew up, the eldest brother went to the northeast to join the team for ten years, and my mother thought about it for ten years and cried for ten years. My mother finally retired at the age of fifty, my eldest brother took over my mother's class, and we all worked overtime. Living conditions gradually improved. After her mother retired, the street asked her mother to be the street director, and her mother was very happy to agree. After retirement, my mother helped to bring her grandchildren, granddaughters, and grandchildren. Mom was busy. The body can't stop like a string, every day is happy to live, in the blink of an eye to 92 years my mother is 63 years old. Dad was 66 years old, and Dad died of lung cancer for half a year. Mom was very sad and cried to death. There is no way that people cannot be resurrected from the dead. The mother focuses on the spirit, for the sake of good health, not to cause trouble to the children. She resigned as street director and let the young man take over. My mother walked every day to the Temple of Heaven Park to hang out. Listen to singing and watching the dances, and live every day happily.

In 2001, after the demolition of our home, we went back to the New Jingjiayuan Community, we moved back to my mother a three-bedroom apartment, my mother was very happy in this three-bedroom apartment, very happy, everyone said that I lived in a three-bedroom apartment, three-bedroom is my name, bring the old neighbors I know to the house to see. Looking at the happy appearance of the mother, each of our children is also very happy and happy. Each of us had time to come and spend time with Mom, who was the happiest and happiest in the three-bedroom room for the last twenty years. The most beautiful. Before the age of 88, she did not need to be accompanied by anyone, and went to the Temple of Heaven Park, Beihai Park, and Jingshan Park to play by herself. After the age of 88, she slipped around on her own in the Xinjingjiayuan community where we lived, and because the community was relatively large, it took two hours to bend every morning, in short, she did not let others help her own ability. She could walk and never lie down. Every child is worried about their mother, every day someone gives their mother clothes, cooks, wipes his body to sleep, chats with him, sends good food, and sends fruit. Holidays, New Year, birthdays, the whole family seven children are given money to the mother, less to 1,000 yuan to give more than 10,000 yuan to accompany the mother to the hotel to go to the festival, birthday, let the mother enjoy the last good time. In short, my mother's old age is very happy. Our seven children also gave their best lives to their mothers. Her mother did not suffer a single sin until she died, and she fulfilled her promise to live healthy and healthy, not to lie down and live, and it was meaningless to live in bed for ten or eight years. Mom suddenly left on this day last year. She didn't drag us down, but we couldn't stand it, and we wanted her to lie and live for years, even for a few days. But there was no chance. If you want to feed her for a few more days, you won't have a chance, and you won't have a chance to call your mother again.

My mom was an ordinary mom, a hero mom, and a great mom. Because the seven children she raised are all filial children, all like our mothers, although each of them is very ordinary, but they have made due contributions in their own jobs and their families. Salute to Mom, learn from Mom, and ask Mom and Dad to bless our whole family of thirty people in Heaven, health, unity, joy, happiness. May Mom and Dad live forever!

Miss your seven children.

September 28, 2021