It is said that now is the national information age, especially live broadcasting has given people more opportunities to express themselves, and this atmosphere has gradually spread to children.
Occasionally brush the website to find some recommended videos for children, click into it and even live broadcast. Most of them are 10-year-old children, but there are also many seven- and eight-year-olds.
Two days ago, I saw the live makeup of an 8-year-old girl, the action is very skilled, and the makeup is judged before and after, which is really a bit complicated.
Leaving aside the issue of values, it is not good for the child's body. Lee Eun-min, a well-known children's Internet celebrity in South Korea, is precocious due to long-term makeup, and finally his height is limited.
In fact, today's children are not only concerned about bo, but also more and more than that, and they are becoming more and more unlimited.
How scary are kids who want to be influencers?
Some time ago, the news of Korean primary school students secretly filming caused a lot of attention.
In order to attract attention and increase fans, he did not hesitate to secretly photograph his parents. At first, it was just a casual pat, I thought it was fun, and in the end I wanted to seek excitement, and even took a private video of my parents.
In fact, there are many such phenomena in the mainland, like the following picture of the video that curses the death of parents and asks for praise, it is really frightening to see.
There are also real cases of secretly photographing mothers taking a bath, specially hiding their mobile phones in hidden corners of the bathroom, and giving tens of thousands of people to watch at the same time.
All of this, just for Bo's attention and fans, is simply incredible. The so-called family thieves are difficult to prevent, who can think that the person who secretly photographs himself is actually a child.
A South Korean mother learned of this and said only one sentence: "Son, you make me feel strange." "It's a lot of emotion.
These children repeatedly break through the bottom line in front of the camera, family affection, morality, personal privacy, for them may not have a clear concept, only know that someone pays attention to it is very exciting. As a result, under the inducement of bad netizens, the children's values are becoming more and more biased.
Who would have thought that one day their photos and videos would be uploaded to the Internet by children, allowing thousands of netizens to observe and comment?
What Lu Xun called "saving children" is also applicable in this era.
Why are children like this?
1) Electronic product abuse
Mobile phones, tablets, computers and other electronic products, so that children are exposed to a more complex world at a young age.
In particular, the unfiltered information brings rich visual stimulation to children. For them, these new things are very tempting, and if there is not enough judgment and parents cannot reasonably control them, the child may be poisoned.
2) Lack of education
Today's children are different from the previous children, if parents do not educate in time, they may blindly explore under the stimulation of society, which is not conducive to the growth of children.
Lack of education may make children not know what to do and what not to do, so they are easily induced and instigated.
3) Vanity and comparison
Children are born with a certain sense of vanity and comparison, and hope that they can be paid attention to and praised.
Therefore, seeing those Internet celebrities on the Internet who are being paid attention to, or some students themselves are doing live broadcasts, they have also thought about addiction, which is very tempting.
Correcting their children's values, parents can not delay
1) Values education and sex education are essential
Parents should not think that their children will naturally understand when they grow up, and they must be guided by the situation, give their children sex education in a timely manner, and instill the correct values in them.
In this way, children can know how to protect themselves and how to respect others.
2) Information control
It is impossible to completely isolate children from electronic products, and as long as they are used properly, children can learn a lot from them.
Therefore, parents must control the time for their children to play electronic products, and carry out information screening to eliminate the stimulation of bad information.
3) Give your child full companionship
To avoid children doing wrong, the companionship and attention of parents is essential. Just because children go to school doesn't mean they can be left at school and left to their own devices.
Pay attention to the changes of children in time, give children full companionship and care, they will naturally not indulge in cold electronic screens.
In the information age, opportunities and crises coexist, and if parents can be properly educated, they will let their children learn more knowledge. On the contrary, it is possible for children to be gradually derailed by various stimuli, and such behaviors with incorrect values will occur.