The sea is incomparable, the sea brother is not... (I'll tell you the story of Hai Ge)

This is Yizhi's 130th original work

That day I formed a bureau, all of which were my friends, who were not too familiar with each other, and introduced themselves first.

When it was Hai Ge's turn, he said with a serious face, "Well, I'm a duck." Everyone looked at each other, secretly figuring out the meaning of the man's words across from them.

I give Hai Ge a thumbs up and solemnly introduce to everyone: Hai Ge is indeed an expert in making ducks, and he is famous in the catering industry in Fengcheng, and I often dip his light.

As for Hai Ge, as I came into contact with him more and more, I felt that he was a particularly interesting person. Let me take it slowly, maybe you are also interested!

01

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You'll see it for the first time on the road. Remember?

Knowing Hai Ge is a long time ago, it is estimated that it is 2014 or 2016, my memory has always been bad, especially for time, I always feel that it is the matter in front of me, how did it pass five or six years, seven or eight years?!

Time was too hurried, the first sight was blurred and no longer important, and the intersection between us was more and more, of course, thanks to his and her. The Hai Brother I want to talk about today is the Hai Brother of Luo Girl's family, and on the age, it is a little brother, but I also call him Hai Ge, and there are few brothers that I can call him.

At that time, I often rode a bicycle, met the Sichuan girl Luo Girl, and I also had a relationship with Hai Ge. At that time, Miss Luo had not yet played Iron Three, my relationship with her was not as iron as it is now, and her understanding of Hai Ge was naturally superficial.

At that time, Luo Girl was keen on cycling, always thinking that one day Hai Ge would also be fascinated, so soft and hard grinding lured him out to play together. I hope that Hai Ge may one day understand the fun of cycling enthusiasts spitting out their tongues in three days, or climbing the slope with cold breathing.

Unfortunately, Hai Ge came so once, when riding, he was desperate, and he never showed his face again, and I heard that it was many days after returning home that "fart" had nowhere to put it.

Luo Girl's dream of cultivating Hai Ge into a cycling enthusiast was also shattered, and my memory of Hai Ge's first sight stopped here, which was very vague.

02

Goodbye to the taste of beauty. Luckily!

I can't figure out when the relationship with Miss Luo warmed up, and the fate between people really doesn't understand. There is a reason to meet thousands of miles, there is no reason to meet on the other side, then I am naturally related to her.

Anyway, he slowly warmed up with Xiao Luo's personal relationship, and began to move to her house to rub rice from outdoor activities. The memory of the first rubbing rice has disappeared, and there are many places to rub the rice, but there are not many places where the rubbing is uncontrollable.

I can't figure out whether it is due to the warm hospitality of each member of her family, or the superb cooking skills of each member of her family, of course, it is also due to my non-refusal, plus the spirit of being able to take the initiative to give hugs.

No, on every important holiday, my figure always floats around at her doorstep, and nature and Haige have slowly become acquainted, and the fate between us is not shallow.

Now, I go to Hai Ge's house to rub food and drink has become the norm, every time I watch Hai Ge cook, a large table of various dishes, too late to eat and drink, blame my own capacity is not enough. No, as a Guangdong haige, there is no chicken and no table; plus vermicelli abalone, minced pepper fish head, boiled beef, pork ribs thunder shoots, white cut cuttlefish, Cantonese sausage, Sichuan-style glutinous rice noodles、...... Or sauerkraut fish, white-cut beef, Cantonese mushroom pot, Luo-style pot sticker、...... Some of them have been down for so long that I can't remember them, and the smell still exists on my lips.

I can't remember it, but my stomach started to grunt again.

In addition to the food, but also by the Haige family father-in-law mother-in-law's love, especially Xiao Bao's love, every time I go, she will pull me to stay for a while and sit for a while, to deliver food and drink to me; delicately shouting "momo" to me, stay and sleep with Xiao Bao, at this time my heart will melt in it. I'm really lucky.

03

Drunkard does not mean to drink? No, too!

Hai Ge does not like sports, I have deep feelings. In addition to not seeing him again after a ride, but also because once we went to her house to rub dinner, Miss Luo proposed to go to the discussion post to go, he did not agree.

Miss Luo didn't look at her usual hot and spicy, that time very patiently, doing ideological work again and again. I was embarrassed, I felt disliked by Hai Ge, and he didn't want to be with me. In the end, Hai Ge was still dealt with by Luo Girl (women are really annoying).

Hai Ge really didn't like climbing the mountain, and in the walking up and down the mountain, everyone could see that he was not very interested. After coming down from the mountain, we went to another friend's house for dinner and suddenly found that Hai Ge was intrigued. It is said that the meaning of drunkenness is not in wine, but also between mountains and rivers. It was not at all for Hai Ge, it turned out that his interest was in the wine rather than in the landscape.

It may be superficial to say so, but he is looking for culture in wine. Anyway, after this, he no longer refused to climb the mountain, because the focus of his climbing was not the sweat of climbing the mountain, not the pleasant scenery along the way, not the hip-hop jokes of each other, but everyone sat around the table after going down the mountain, and they were all in good spirits together. Some people are a little dismissive of this, but Hai ge really is.

See the truth in the wine, see the pattern after the wine. Although Hai Ge said that the amount of wine was not good, the wine was very good. Once, when we came down from Xuedou Mountain, he didn't know whether it was because he met a new friend or because he brought his own wine, or because he was too tired to drive his daughter, so he got himself drunk as soon as he came up, and then directly lay down on the sofa, no longer caring about us eating, drinking, singing, laughing and laughing.

I heard that this was the second time he was drunk, the first time on the wedding day. We are also deeply honored. Although, we now advocate drinking to the fullest, not to get drunk. But as the host, at least it shows that Haige likes the atmosphere we have together. Next time we will organize some mountain climbing and other sports, sweat and sweat, and then brag about the skin, wine to help, but also have to be the right benefit for each person.

04

Humor is true. Hi!

In addition to being bold and generous, Hai Ge is humorous and funny, and he frequently sees him jump out of the classic sentences with him, so let us praise him. I would like to give a few examples, because of my age, my memory is not good, and my memory is still a bit blurry. There is a counterexample, but it is impressive. Once he spat out a lotus flower, but we attacked it in groups.

I remember that time we said at the dinner table that every man praised his wife. Hai Ge came up and said that my wife was "atmospheric". We think the summary is good, in our eyes, Sichuan girl Luo girl is indeed atmospheric.

Hai Ge immediately added a sentence, "Lose your temper." This flip caused us to be stoic and ask the question, but it caused everyone to attack him.

The reason for the matter is this: Hai Ge has no other hobbies, likes to play cards, and once he plays, he exceeds his wife's prescribed time, often all night. We are not a good boy who cares for his wife, or a good daughter-in-law who cares for his husband, who will never stand in the position of Hai Ge to help him speak, but praise the "atmosphere" of the girl. This "atmosphere" is also "domineering". We have to stand up. In the face of the sincere teachings and inducements of the big brothers and sisters, I don't know if there is a profound reflection. I think there must be.

In addition to being humorous and funny, in addition to his superb cooking skills, in addition to the Gu family's love for the elderly and children, Hai Ge is also a poet. Flipping through his circle of friends shows that they are all classic quotes.

Hai ge said:

"Feel the beauty of life, no need to go to the stars and seas, no need to look for poetry and distant places, come - find me to arrange!" 」 (Sliced Duck)

"Let him have thousands of troops and horses, all by his hands, hundreds and a thousand!" (Roasted pigeon)

"There is a famous saying: if you can turn cooking into a pleasure, then failure will not find you for the time being!" (Roast suckling pig)

"The direction of the years, all contain growth!" (Wise)

"It's all about the scenery!" (Insight)

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Of course, Hai Ge's story is more than that, and his understanding of him continues to deepen, and it will be slowly filled in later.

Author's Introduction: Yi Zhi, educator / psychological counselor / ambulance trainer / marriage and family counselor / 007 practitioner / Fan Deng reading practitioner / "First To Seize" reading circle initiator, want to change themselves through learning, record trajectory through writing, and grow better through circles.