Thirteen years later, there is a memory that is still beautiful:
A pure girl dressed in white stood in the classroom of the second grade of the school outside Nanjing Chinese, smiling and holding a cup of milk tea...
With a click, she became a household name "milk tea sister".
What is even more unexpected is that from sweet girls to domineering female general managers.
This seemingly legendary story was interpreted by Zhang Zetian extremely vividly and brilliantly.
According to the latest "2021 Hurun Global Rich List", 28-year-old Zhang Zetian is worth 188 billion yuan, and Liu Qiangdong ranks 18th in China's richest list and 54th in the world's richest people.
The shining results made her the richest post-90s generation, and she also lived an enviable and annoying look.
It is true that she has today's brilliance, and it is indispensable to the support of Liu Qiangdong.
The outside world once commented on her: "heavy heart", "wristy", "ambitious"...
But isn't she both beautiful and talented, shrewd and cool?
In her life, she has always been a strategic "helmsman", every time she slides to a shore, she can clearly know her goals, and strive to grow in the direction of her heart and move forward.
Whenever life spreads out a beautiful answer sheet, she will not lose herself and still maintain a positive and enterprising attitude in life.
Perhaps, only a woman with determination like her can resist the temptations of the outside world and live a self-responsible life.
More important than beauty, she has a sober self
Some people say that beauty is a passport given to Zhang Zetian by heaven.
But in fact, she is far better than the average person than beauty.
She has had an independent and sober self since she was a child.
When she was 16 years old, she became popular all over the Internet because of a pure photo of her "milk tea sister".
At that time, public opinion was shocked and uproared.
Someone touted her in vain, someone suddenly courted her.
Some netizens even posted on the forum that "Brother is willing to scatter all his belongings to ask for this woman." ”
Even the big names in the entertainment industry have also extended an olive branch to Zhang Zetian.
And she was not distracted by these external temptations, but was more persistent and enthusiastic about her academic dreams.
When Zhang Yimou warmly invited her to participate in the heroine of the movie "Hawthorn Tree Love" three times, she was rejected.
After that, he asked her to participate in the movie "Jinling Thirteen Chao", and was again rejected by her.
The reporter asked her why she didn't cherish such a good opportunity to be a "girl"?
Without hesitation, she replied, "But I don't care!" ”
She has a clear understanding of herself and a very clear goal:
"I'm not studying this, I'm going to act, it's very likely that acting is not very good, I still want to rush to a good university."
In that young flower season, many girls were still very ignorant of their future.
However, Zhang Zetian knew early on what he wanted.
She does not want to enter the entertainment industry as a star, and she only wants to be a female entrepreneur and become a successful woman like Yang Lan.
This is not only a dream, she also really fell into action, pushing herself step by step to become "Yang Lan".
In 2011, Zhang Zetian, who was only 18 years old, was sent to Tsinghua university with his aerobics expertise.
After entering this top school, she did not settle for the status quo, but secretly exerted herself.
In 2013, when she was still a sophomore, she found the opportunity to apply for an exchange place and went to barnard girls' school in the United States for exchange.
During this time, she met liu qiangdong, a business tycoon, and was attracted by his mature manhood and officially began to associate with him.
In her junior year in 2014, through some efforts, she officially joined the marketing team of Microsoft's Bing Search Technology Center for internship, and also appeared as a product manager at the new product launch.
In 2015, he joined Jiangsu Satellite TV and hosted the program "Burning Bar Brain".
In the same year, she graduated from Tsinghua University and married Liu Qiangdong.
Since then, she has stepped onto the fast lane of life.
There are really too many temptations in this world, and every moment may tempt us to step into the "trap" and lose ourselves.
Jesus said, "What is the point of a man who gains the whole world but loses himself?"
Yes, everyone has a clear and quiet self hidden within themselves, and if you can hold it, you will not blindly dwell on the world.
Obviously, Zhang Zetian has a clear goal at every stage of his life.
No matter how tempting the outside world is, you can also keep your heart and be yourself.
Self-determination empowers her to play good cards into king bombs
Zhang Zetian can insist on himself, as if he has given life a dose of "reassurance".
Even if he married Liu Qiangdong, a rich man, he never lost himself.
She and Liu Qiangdong, a young and beautiful, a multi-gold old man, the two from marriage, the outside world has labeled her as a "gold worshipper", and is still waiting to see her jokes.
But she is not moved by the outside world and is at ease to live her own life.
Of course, Zhang Zetian is not willing to be the "little woman" behind successful men.
The sense of purpose is still strong and committed to self-growth.
During her pregnancy, she made up her financial knowledge.
Obtained a certificate in "Private Equity and Venture Capital" from bocconi University in Italy.
After the board of directors at eight o'clock in the morning, I began to learn business knowledge, and at eight or nine o'clock in the evening, I tried to learn English, learn to dress, learn boxing... Learn everything of value.
In addition, she has not forgotten her ambition to engage in business as a child.
With the high-level resources of "Lady Liu Qiangdong", she began her "barbaric" territorial expansion:
Attend British royal weddings, meet with aristocrats and rich people, and break into the investment circle;
Hosted a grand private fashion dinner, inviting half of the celebrities of New York's upper fashion circle to the scene;
In March 2017, he had dinner with Bill Gates and actively exported his "public welfare innovation" concept to the outside world;
And Zhang Ziyi, Liu Jialing and many other stars in the entertainment industry have also become friends...
She played every chess piece in her hand toward the target, step by step.
The heart has gradually grown "hard wings" and has more confidence to run to the future.
In September 2018, Liu Qiangdong was deeply involved in the storm of "sexual assault", and many people mocked her for "eating the consequences of self-inflicted evil".
Zhang Zetian did not respond to this and quietly endured.
The focus was refocused on his own growth– he went to The Judge School of Business at cambridge university for further study.
Maybe she also had a sad look behind her back, but she still had a sweet smile on her face.
She knows that she has already had an entangled relationship with JD.com, and a wrong word or deed may sink the big ship of JD.com.
She is sober and considerate of the big picture.
As she said in a dynamic posted in the circle of friends:
"When I decided to climb to the top, I had a premonition of what I was going to face and what I was going to bear."
She knew in her heart that since she had chosen a grand goal, she would learn to bear everything in front of her.
Therefore, she will not be disturbed by the slightest wind and grass from the outside world.
Such a strong concentration eventually made her grasp a set of "good cards" and played a dazzling "king explosion".
Nowadays, she is more and more present at the parties of top celebrities.
Her business dreams, under the continuous development, have gradually shone into reality.
Serves as chairman of two companies and as a director of one company.
According to the information of the enterprise investigation, there are more than 10 enterprises associated with her.
Psychologist Maslow said that a person has to live out his own self.
Zhang Zetian relied on his own determination to become the ideal "Yang Lan" as he wished.
Be your own ferryman and live out the splendor of life
Undoubtedly, Zhang Zetian had top ambitions, and even hid it in a soft smile and sonorous goal.
She can resist temptation and keep the reins of fate in her hands.
Even now, far beyond the class she once had, climbed up the branches and became a phoenix, she was as strong and strong as ever.
She was proving by herself: "Liu Qiangdong is my man, he is very powerful, but I am not bad." ”
When we look at her with envy, have we ever thought about doing ourselves like her?
We have learned to be ourselves firmly, and life may shine just as brightly:
1. Practice self-proof prophecy and modify your subconscious mind
Jung said that your subconscious guides your life, which you call destiny.
The subconscious mind is very powerful, its energy is far greater than the consciousness, and all our experiences will be stored in the subconscious, which in turn will affect the trajectory of our lives.
We can modify the subconscious mode of operation by practicing self-justification prophecy:
Find a quiet place to sit down and give your brain a hint —
"I believe in myself, as long as I am willing to work hard, the future will get better and better."
Then, imagine a beautiful picture in the future, which can be the moment when you are praised by the leader, or it can be the scene where you and your lover hug each other...
You can immerse yourself in it and feel the joy and beauty inside.
In this way, your head will gradually continue to emerge with positive thoughts and ideas, and lead you to send positive signals to the universe.
You have a new grasp of your beliefs, and your fate falls into your control.
2. Feel yourself in the relationship, know and tap yourself
The premise of being yourself is to know yourself.
Relationships are often the starting point of our self-perception.
The relationship patterns of our parents' early years form the basis of our personality, and we extend this relationship into our own relationship with others and the world.
Whatever the relationship, we can find ourselves in it.
For example, when we are affirmed in the relationship, we will gain a deep sense of security, feel loved and supported, and feel the value and meaning of our existence.
So, when we are vague about ourselves, we can be aware of our position and state in a relationship.
When the mirror of relationships is reflected back, that is our true selves.
When we have a deeper understanding of ourselves, the deeper self is slowly excavated by us.
3. Learn to separate topics and focus on their own topics
Psychologist Adler believes that the most important thing to solve the problem of self-external conflict is to distinguish between what is the subject of others and what is my subject.
That is to say, when we deal with our relationship with the outside world, we need to have a sense of boundaries, be able to draw a clear line with others, and in principle, we can insist on ourselves.
In a nutshell, it is "listening to the opinions of others, making your own decisions, and taking responsibility for your own decisions."
For example, when you were a child, you wanted to be a teacher when you grew up, but under the influence of the people around you, you went against your own will and became a doctor.
Then your subject is confused.
However, if you always follow your own wishes and really become the teacher of your dreams through hard work, you have completed your mission on your own subject.
Honey, everyone has to face their own problems from birth.
By staying focused on your subjects, your ego has a hardcore armor.
I hope that you and I can be the ferrymen of our own lives and live our own unique style!
Planning | Zhang took a look
Edit | Fish sweet