Do you know anything about the Japanese gymnastics community?
Don't hide from you, Xiaobian is interested in the strange Japanese gymnasts since the 2020 Tokyo Olympic Games, Hashimoto Daiki jumped the horse mistake and still won the gold medal.
After understanding, I was shocked.
Athletes such as Daiki Hashimoto are not nothing in the Japanese gymnastics world, and the gymnastics prince today is set up to fly, in front of the camera in order to protect his wife and mother, he looks like a perfect husband.
Where the camera does not capture, he indulges his mother to arbitrarily hurt his wife, and after marriage, his mother still manages the bank account, ignores his two daughters, and even orders takeout when his wife makes a large table of meals for herself!
His wife suffered from eating disorders in this deformed and untrustworthy family relationship, and an adult lost as much as 33 kilograms.
His name is Kenhei Uchimura, the king of Japanese gymnastics, an industry myth;
His wife's name is Chiho Uchimura, also a gymnast, at the age of 22, he gave up his gymnastics career to marry Uchimura Hanghei, and when she was pregnant, she was asked many times by her mother-in-law:
"Is it really my son's child?"
Come and see the suffocating first half of Chiho Uchimura's life.
One
Uchimura Hanghei came from a sports family, his parents are gymnasts, he began to practice gymnastics at the age of 3, and his whole life is closely related to the two words gymnastics.
Now, he holds three Olympic gold medals, four silver medals, participated in four Olympic Games, won 19 medals at the World Championships (10 gold, 5 silver and 4 bronze), and the individual all-around event is an unprecedented Olympic and World Championships eight consecutive championships...
He is a formidable rival to Chinese gymnasts, the best gymnast in Japanese history, and his mother's greatest pride.
Uchimura Hanghei's mother is called Uchimura Zhouzi, she is a very expressive star mother, and her degree of madness on the road can be compared with Sun Yang's old mother Yang Ming.
It may be that this kind of high-pressure mother can especially achieve results, and Uchimura Hangping's gymnastics road has been carried through all kinds of pressure and perfectly retired under the support and supervision of his mother.
Shuko Uchimura
Therefore, Shuko Uchimura is a famous parenting master in Japan, and she wrote a book about her path of cultivating champions, calling herself the "world's number one mother" who has cultivated world champions.
Swell!
Her famous quote is "I can do anything for the sake of my children, even if I leave my job alone, there is only one mother, and there are many other people who work..."
It can be said that way, but the degree of certainty is very important.
This mother didn't know where that degree was!
Two
In November 2012, Uchimura Announced that he was going to marry his sister Chiho Uchimura, who was only 22 years old at the time.
The 22-year-old girl is actually immature in mind, and Uchom Ispei is only a year older than her and has just emerged in gymnastics.
Chikaki Uchimura
Two children want to get married and give birth to a new life, and outsiders are also pinching a cold sweat for them while respecting and blessing.
The wedding of Uchima And Chiho, their parents were not active.
All the details of the wedding, Chiho, can't decide, and the mother-in-law Shuko Uchimura decides everything.
A month before the wedding, Chiho suddenly learned that she was going to have a wedding in Hawaii and that her relatives could not go.
She also had disappointments in her heart, after all, every girl hopes to enter the marriage hall under the witness of relatives and friends.
But she did not flinch, even if in the end all she could decide was the style of a wedding dress, and the rest was all decided by her mother-in-law. She's still married!
Not long after the marriage, Chiho announced that she was pregnant.
In Japanese society where femininity is very serious, the media first dug up Chiho's past, claiming that she was pregnant and took the marriage and love performance stock Uchima Away from Uchimura Hanghei's ex-girlfriend.
These reports bothered Chiho in the first trimester.
At this time, her dear mother-in-law added another fire, and she kept asking Chiho, "Is it really my son's child?" ”
Sisters, you feel it casually, do you want to hit people!
The most unbearable thing is that the husband Uchimura Hanghei, who says "no matter what happens, I will protect you", does not feel that there is anything wrong with his mother!
From the very beginning of their marriage, Chiho was not treated as a family.
Three
2016 Rio Olympics, gymnastics venue.
During the competition, A prominent banner fluttered in the audience, which was a family portrait of Uchimura's mother, which included Uchimura's father, mother and sister, including two dogs in the family.
Only there were no two daughters from Chiho and Chiho.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become so serious that the man caught in the middle will turn a blind eye?
Maybe he's the culprit.
In April 2017, Chiho ended her competition for Uchimura Hanghei, and when she returned home, she suddenly felt dizzy, her body trembling uncontrollably, and she was nauseous.
She said to her husband, Uchimura Hanghei, "It's time to call an ambulance." ”
Uchimura Just "Hmmm" twice, and didn't move.
What The editor did not understand the most was that Chiho did not call an ambulance herself, and she endured until the next day, informing her parents to take her to see a doctor.
That is to say, there is no big tiger at the entrance of this hospital, so why can't I go there?
There was no big problem with chiho inside and out, but the doctor judged that she was mentally ill, because the husband competition was coming, and she would inevitably meet her mother-in-law on the field, and this pressure made her anxious to the point of almost incapacitated.
Since before the 2020 Olympic Games, Chiho has been taking anti-anxiety drugs, and Uchima hanghei knows only to say:
"I don't understand, this is your brain, you should control it yourself."
Despite the fact that the situation has deteriorated to this point, Chiho still has to fulfill the responsibility of a good wife.
Whenever Uchimura Hanghei wants to eat at home, Chiho will try to make a large table of dishes, but in exchange for it, mr. Directly order takeaway without looking, and the takeaway is still for one person.
Just ask if you're angry!
According to Chiho, Uchimura never cared about his children, and after the birth of his two daughters, as a father, he never took his daughters anywhere, even if it was just a park.
When Uchimaru hangs out at home, if his daughter goes to him, he will shout lowly, "Don't bother me", but he is just playing a game.
Once Chiho Sai went to buy an amulet to pray that her husband would not be hurt, and Uchimura faced his wife's love, and his hood was a basin of cold water: I don't believe this.
An indifferent marriage.
But there was a key point, after four years of marriage Between Uchimura and Chiho, he finally got his financial power back.
In addition to not cheating, is it a bit of Li Lianglei's taste of accusing Wang Lihong!
Unfortunately, Chiho can't write small essays, but she is manipulated by Uchimura Hanghei, and there is no way to ask for advice.
Four
In November 2015, Uchimura returned to China after participating in the World Championships.
At the airport, his mother asked him, "What do you want to eat?" I'll give you whatever you want to eat! ”
Uchimura said, "Of course, it is a dish made by my wife. ”
At that time, many women in Japan supported him, believing that he was a good husband who was willing to fight his mother for his wife.
Uchimura Hanghei with his mother
The media praised Uchimura's domineering wife, after all, under the Japanese social culture, it takes courage to openly scare the old mother.
According to media reports, after the 2016 Rio Olympics, Shuko Uchimura immediately contacted her son to send a congratulatory message.
But he did not reply, but took the initiative to send a message to his wife Chiho, "I am very tired", "Thank you for your support", but please note that these details are the materials released by Uchimura Hangping himself.
From 2012 to 2022, Chiho was the object of cold violence in her marriage, and for a full decade, Chiho was part of Uchimura's perfect human set.
Love wife, acted out.
Last November, Chiho felt like she couldn't eat.
She lost weight to 33 kilograms, she went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor diagnosed it as an "eating disorder".
She had never understood why Uchimura Hangpei, who had a warm pulse in front of the media, turned around and became so indifferent, just as indifferent to his wife, to his children, and to his parents.
Chiho has been lying to herself that "gymnastics first", but when she gets her diagnosis, she can no longer fool herself.
Chiho took her daughters back to her mother's house.
Ten days later, she received a letter from Uchom Hanghei, "I want a divorce and separate for the time being." ”
Also attached to the letter was a business card from the divorce lawyer.
Chiho, who had left the house first, had to contact him patiently, "Because it involves children, can you talk about it again?" ”
No reply.
A month later, Chiho came home, pushed open the door and there was a musty smell in the house, and it looked like no one had lived there for a long time.
Uchimura's common items, clothes, and shoes are gone.
All the chores remained in the moment she left, and the cup in the sink that had been soaked for a month was quietly moldy.
Uchimura Just disappeared into her life, never saying goodbye.
On January 14, Uchimamura held a grand press conference at a hotel in Tokyo and announced his retirement.
The media bid for "the king of gymnastics has retired".
After that, these details about his marriage were gradually exposed.
The reporter asked Uchiko Uchmura's mother, Uchiko, to understand the situation, and Uchiko said:
"It was the man's parents who said it..."
She added, "I've never spoken to them properly, they should have said something that was biased toward that person." ”
Arrogance and prejudice are about to come out.
At present, Chiho Uchimura herself and her relatives on her side have not officially spoken out on this matter.
In the face of these accusations, Uchom Hanghei has also remained silent.
The sensationality of this divorce case in Japan is comparable to the divorce incident of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei.
Many netizens have participated in the discussion of Uchimura Hangping's mental journey, and some netizens have commented on the message and received high praise:
"This person is the typical mother-in-law man, who places her emotions on her son and uses him as my hero to realize her distorted self."
The son's love and hate for his mother are intertwined, and the underlying resentment turns into misogyny, and he retaliates against his mother by abusing his wife. ”
Is this true?
Xiaobian instead feels like Gay cheating marriage? What do you think?
Many girls enter marriage with fantasies about love, and only find a chicken feather after marriage.
In fact, before and after marriage, you are you, and you should never be anyone's girlfriend or anyone's wife.
In modern society, everyone has a label on them.
But a woman like Chiho, who spent ten years focusing on being someone behind her, in exchange for a sick body with five tuberculosis and seven injuries, is really not worth it!
Remember, being yourself is far more important than being someone else!